My hearing is bad and when I am distracted — it’s worse.  I believe this happens to a lot of us, whether we have good hearing or not.

The only way to make sense of the world is to plunge into the street and build or destroy. —James Baldwin In our increasingly polarized world, the need for genuine human connection has never been more urgent. While technology has connected us globally, it has simultaneously isolated us in digital echo chambers. To bridge these […]

Inflation affects the prices of every single thing – even airline points and miles. Yes, that’s right. You might not have noticed it, but you probably had to use up more points to book an award flight or a hotel this year compared to the last.  This isn’t a one-time trend, either. Airlines frequently pump […]

Retirement in Hawaii is a fantasy for more than a few, maybe even you. When you see the cost of living in Hawaii, that dream quickly brings you back to reality. The Hawaiian Islands are some of the most beautiful places on earth but also some of the most expensive places to live.  If Hawaiian […]

Who doesn’t love a good wardrobe refresh? But instead of rushing out to buy new pieces, why not use these ideas for restyling clothing? Quote of the day: “Don’t be “most people.” Anonymous As older women, we know that timeless pieces in our closets can be endlessly versatile with just a little imagination and creativity. […]

My thoughts for the boomers still going strong after all these years.  You know, they call us “The Elderly” ‘ but I think we deserve a better title. How about ‘The Time Travelers’? Born in the 40s, 50s, and 60s, we’ve lived through more decades than some people have lived through relationships. Yeah, I got […]

Dear Barbara, I’m interested in learning more about a career as an end of life doula. I understand there are courses, programs, and even certification. Do you know of one that you would recommend?  I have done webinars and podcasts with several end of life doula groups but am not comfortable in recommending a specific […]

Photo by Geralt via Pixabay Attract the Right Job or Clientele: Team Sports Can Model Better Business Actions One cannot ignore the remarkable comeback of the Commander’s football team. Although not an avid sports enthusiast, I pay attention to some outstanding efforts and how they relate to business or anything we want to achieve.  Over […]

I have received a few emails that start out, “Wise advice from a Farmer’s wife”. The post are full of home-spun nuggets of wisdom. So I took a few of these sayings and turned them into a short story. Enjoy On the edge of a small village nestled in the rolling hills, lived a wise […]

Introduction: Building a strong foundation in a new relationship goes beyond just romance; it requires the ability to navigate emotions, communicate effectively, and handle challenges with grace. Emotional Competency is key to achieving this. It refers to the ability to understand, manage, and express emotions in healthy ways, both in ourselves and in our partners. […]