(00:00:00): Yeah, so we’re talking about aura farming. (00:00:02): Yeah, we’re talking about aura farming. (00:00:04): And a lot of people are engaged in aura farming. (00:00:06): And it’s kind of been around a while, but, you know, people don’t realize that they’re doing it. (00:00:13): So tell us. (00:00:14): So when you talk about […]

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Wait… is Community a show? Or are we talking about actual community? In a conversation with Bruce Y. Lee, on We DO Mind, we couldn’t remember if Community was a show, and mixed it up with Parks and Recreation before remembering it was a sitcom with Ted Danson. We often recognize fictional communities more easily […]

Have you heard of Ghostlighting? It’s like ghosting and gaslighting together. Dr. Bruce Y. Lee and I talk about ghostlighting and what it looks like in personal and work life. Get more from Deborah Heiser in the Substack appAvailable for iOS and AndroidGet the app Originally Published on https://deborahheiserphd.substack.com/

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This was my personal journey… I was in my early 30s, updating my CV. Another conference presentation. Another line added under “Publications and Presentations.” I should have felt proud, but instead I felt empty. I remember asking myself, “Did any of this actually matter?” I knew it mattered professionally. Publications and presentations were vitally important […]

As The Right Side of 40 has grown, I’ve started building out a few spaces and resources for readers who want to go deeper — not just read, but engage more fully with the ideas here. Paid subscribers now have access to: Weekly Lives — livestreams with Q&A Monthly deep dives — longer pieces designed […]

A first-person reckoning between optimism and honesty. The Right Side of 40 is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. He said it with authority. “Just you wait.” Michael Friedman is 82. I’m in my 50s. We’ve known each other roughly two decades. He […]

Key pointsEmpty nest is a real transition, bringing grief, relief, and identity loss for many parents. Empty-nest syndrome can involve depression, anxiety, and purposelessness. Identity often becomes fused with the parenting role. Reclaiming self starts with intentional curiosity about who you want to be now. Imagine that an alarm clock goes off. You pop out […]

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