EP 92: Real Confidence- The Confidence to Be Creative with Special Guest Rich Kirkpatrick
- EP 92: Real Confidence- The Confidence to Be Creative with Special Guest Rich Kirkpatrick Alyssa Dver 24:44
You know those conversations that stick with you long after they’re over? That’s exactly how I felt after chatting with Rich Kirkpatrick on my podcast. We dove deep into the relationship between confidence and creativity—not just the surface-level stuff, but how they can fuel each other.
Because creativity is one of those things that makes a lot of us want to shrink into the background so people won’t find out we don’t have it or what we create is amateurish or awful.
A musician, Rich talked about how during his early days in the music industry, confidence often felt like a façade and how he learned to separate his self-worth from external validation by reframing his self-talk. Instead of asking himself, “Am I good enough?” he began to ask, “What can I learn from this?”
That’s a subtle, common-sense shift, but really does change everything. Suddenly, confidence becomes a journey of Growth rather than a destination to reach.
Ultimately, confidence and creativity are intertwined, each nurturing the other. When we believe in our abilities and embrace our authentic selves, we unlock the door to endless creative possibilities.
Key takeaways from this powerful conversation include how:
- Confidence isn’t about being loud or the center of attention; it’s about being grounded in who you are.
- Creativity isn’t just for musicians, artists, or chefs—it’s for everyone. If you’re solving problems, you’re creating.
- There are two approaches to creativity he’s noticed, and some of us are “robots” while others are “wizards” (honestly, I bet most of us are a little bit of both).
- Authenticity breeds confidence, which you know I firmly believe, because when you’re true to yourself, you naturally project that energy and people can feel it!
Rich Kirkpatrick is a native of San Jose, California, studied music at The Phil Mattson School, and earned his bachelor’s and master’s from Jessup University. He writes, consults, and speaks about the intersection of creativity, faith and leadership. His book, MINDBLOWN: Unlock Your Creative Genius by Bridging Science and Magic (2022), deconstructs creativity and the creative process. To learn more about Rich, visit RKblog.com.
