From the moment we are born, we embark on a mentorship journey that shapes who we become. Just like learning to walk and talk, the desire to give back and share wisdom is ingrained in us. We are not just built to grow physically; we are designed to evolve emotionally, finding fulfillment in the ways […]
Photo by Ron Lach : https://www.pexels.com/photo/man-typing-on-computer-which-is-tied-with-a-tape-9830809/ When I was asked to teach the Psychology of Prejudice, I wondered how to create a course that could talk about bias in a way everyone could understand. The search didn’t take long. I looked to myself. And ageism. The Right Side of 40 is a reader-supported publication. To […]
The saying “actions speak louder than words” is particularly relevant when examining societal attitudes toward aging. There is often a disconnect between what people say and do, revealing an underlying ambivalence with their beliefs. This inconsistency is evident in everyday behaviors, like health and wellness commitments. Many people talk about the importance of maintaining a […]
I’ve been working for years on learning about the theory behind what makes us want to mentor. The journey began a couple of decades ago, before anyone was talking about mentorship. My book, The Mentorship Edge, helps readers understand how to get maximum impact from mentorship – hierarchical and lateral. Subscribe now “For years, I’d […]
Here is a riddle:What do we absorb in childhood, learn through experience in adulthood, and master in late life? Answer: Guardianship Photo by Quang Nguyen Vinh: https://www.pexels.com/photo/statue-of-chinese-guardian-lion-10615829/We Are Built to Be GuardiansImagine if you didn’t have a guardian. Would you be the person you are today? Likely not. Guardians don’t just secure our physical well-being […]
Subscribe now Do you dread retirement? Many people view retirement as the end of their careers and a loss of identity. Despite looking forward to it from a young age, it is often perceived as “jumping off a cliff,” inducing panic or a sense of loss. However, retirement doesn’t have to be daunting. It is […]
Will you be accompanying your child to college this summer? Or perhaps your child is graduating from college this summer and you are officially becoming an empty nester. What conversations will you and your spouse have while sitting around the dining table, just you two alone or you by yourself? How do you perceive […]
Photo by dabatepatfotos: https://www.pexels.com/photo/empty-nest-on-tree-7581966/ As the last chick leaves the nest, the transition into empty nest hood brings a myriad of emotions and adjustments. While it’s natural to continue supporting your children financially, this stage also presents a prime opportunity to reassess and prioritize your own financial future. Embracing this new chapter involves striking a […]
What do you know about menopause? Join this discussion with Melissa Ashley to learn how there is much more to it than hot flashes! Get the facts and the fiction about menopause and what women can expect as they hit 50. Read more Originally Published on https://deborahheiserphd.substack.com/
Have you ever wondered whether mentors have mentors themselves? And if they do, who guides them? Does aging mean we’re left without mentors? The answer is no! Even those at the top of their game require guidance. Mentors can also be learners. Being a mentor doesn’t preclude one from being mentored. Mentorship isn’t a straightforward, […]