The landscape of marriage and divorce has undergone significant changes over the past few decades, with one of the most notable trends being the increase in divorce rates among baby boomers. This phenomenon, often referred to as “gray divorce,” highlights the unique challenges and implications of marital dissolution among individuals aged 50 and older. The […]
Are you a person who enjoys the challenge of competition, but also likes to fit in? Admitting that a challenge energizes you but attempting to fit in with a group establishes a dichotomy that creates a conflict within. You cannot fit in and stand out. The first step is admitting that you have a strong […]
I shall be telling this with a sigh Somewhere ages and ages hence: Two roads diverged in a wood, and I I took the one less traveled by, And that has made all the difference From the poem The Road Less Traveled by Robert Frost Isn’t it cool? Every day that you wake up on […]
If you want to be a winner every time, set the bar low enough so that you’d have to work hard not to achieve it. People will applaud you because you act and look exactly like them. I want to be the same as everyone else, said no one with self-respect, ever. When we were […]
In the ever-evolving landscape of human relationships, technology has emerged as a pivotal force, redefining the contours of love and connection. As we navigate through the digital era, it’s fascinating to compare how love’s expression and experience have transformed over the last four decades. This exploration sheds light on the profound impact technology has had […]
Valentine’s Day, a festival of romantic love marked by the exchange of cards, flowers, chocolates, and other expressions of affection, has a rich history that spans centuries and cultures. From its ancient origins to its modern-day celebrations, Valentine’s Day has evolved significantly, reflecting societal changes in the understanding and expression of love. Ancient Beginnings The […]
Don’t love your work? Can’t wait to get the heck out of there when your shift is done? It’s up to you to find some part of your job to enjoy. Let’s get real: You signed on for this work. You agreed to their terms and conditions. Even if you felt you had no choice […]
Arthur C. Brooks and Oprah Winfrey have written a thought-provoking book together. It’s called Build the Life You Want: The Art and Science of Getting Happier. Yep. There are other books on how to get happy. Why is this one different? One of the many things I enjoy about this content is that Brooks and […]
As we journey through the tapestry of life, the nature of our experiences, desires, and the very essence of love undergoes a profound transformation. The quest for companionship, intimacy, and love in our senior years is painted with different shades compared to the vibrant, often tumultuous colors of youth. This evolution in seeking and sustaining […]
Today I asked myself…What is the formula for unhappiness? Always seeking, never finding. Always learning, never knowing. To find it is to know it. To know it is to live it. Simple. If that’s so, then why do we struggle to be happy? Your life doesn’t contradict your words or circumstances. What you live is […]