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David Dowlen Relationship and Personal Development Coach

My name is Brent and I am an entrepreneur mostly known for being a Men’s Relationship & Personal Development Coach, the Host of The Fallible Man Podcast, a Speaker, Personal Trainer and an Event Coordinator.

No matter what I have done in the many industries I have worked for over my lifetime I always ended up becoming a trainer for the company. It is a theme that repeats itself wherever I go. So I decided to embrace it and focus on helping people level up where they feel they need a hand.

So I started a Book (which I still have not finished), which launched a Podcast and became a company, a conference and a life. Now I focus on helping people live one choice better every single day. That is how you grow, 1 choice daily becomes powerful Growth that ANYONE can accomplish!

I have been married for 22 years and have 2 young daughters who are at the root of all I do and one of the great joys of my life. Daddy is probably the favorite of all the things I have been called in my life. Family is everything to me.

About what we do….

The Fallible Man LLC

I started The Fallible Man because my wife and I have seen the need to affect men in a positive way. To encourage them and support them in their own personal journey's to become the men they can be.

Let me be clear, I don’t think men are broken.

I think men are not encouraged or supported in pursuing the man they were born to be. Which is totally unacceptable, because the world needs the men they are meant to become.

Some people joke about men stop developing after potty training, the truth is men are ENCOURAGED and even pressured to STOP developing and growing once they hit around 20.

“Get a job, have a family and then Protect and provide for them, that is your purpose!”

That is BULLSH*T

The world was built by strong men and while not perfect, it needs strong men who embrace their purpose and passion to keep it rolling in a positive direction.

I want to encourage, inspire, empower, support and motivate men to take charge of their life by choosing to improve themselves for themselves. The world will improve as men embrace their purpose, that is how we change the world.

We offer Personal Development Coaching and Relationship Coaching (with a focus on developing quality Relationships that can be applied to any relationship) We also have a members site where you can come and surround yourself with like minded people, join an accountability group to support you and many other things.

I am an “indie” podcaster, youtuber and creator. I do all my own work from start to finish on all my platforms. I create and sell my own merchandise as well as doing some design and editing on the side for other companies and people.

I am also a speaker; I have spoken to Small groups, Large audiences and virtual audiences on a number of topics. I obviously speak on they things we cover at the Fallible Man, but I have also spoken on many other topics as well.

The world needs Strongmen who choose to be good men to live the lives they were born to live.

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Why Modern Men Are Struggling | Here'S What Nobody'S Saying &Raquo; New Podcast Cover 81822 Y2Vu8J
Why Modern Men Are Struggling | Here’s What Nobody’s Saying

What happens when a man’s entire identity becomes what he can carry? In this episode of the Driven 2 Thrive Broadcast, Brent Dowlen explores the hidden emotional cost of masculinity, responsibility…

What happens when a …

What happens when a man’s entire identity becomes what he can carry? In this episode of the Driven 2 Thrive Broadcast, Brent Dowlen explores the hidden emotional cost of masculinity, responsibility, and self-erasure through duty using one of the most iconic fictional leaders of all time: Optimus Prime. This is not really an episode about Transformers. It’s about fathers. Providers. Leaders. Protectors. The men who quietly carry the weight for everyone else while slowly disappearing underneath it. For generations, men have been taught that their value lives in: • what they provide •…

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He Had An Affair. Here'S What Saved Their Marriage &Raquo; New Podcast Cover 81822 Y2Vu8J
He Had an Affair. Here’s What Saved Their Marriage

Most men do not plan to have an affair. They drift. They justify. They hide. Then one day, everything explodes. In this episode of the Driven 2 Thrive Broadcast, Brent Dowlen sits down with licensed …

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Most men do not plan to have an affair. They drift. They justify. They hide. Then one day, everything explodes. In this episode of the Driven 2 Thrive Broadcast, Brent Dowlen sits down with licensed counselor and affair recovery specialist Tim Tedder to talk honestly about infidelity, betrayal Trauma, shame, accountability, and whether a Marriage can truly be rebuilt after an affair. " An affair isn’t necessarily the end. There is hope, but there’s a lot required to get there.” - Tim Tedder Tim has worked with couples recovering from infidelity for more than two decades, but this…

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Most men never actually decide who they are. They inherit fragments from culture, pain, politics, expectations, social media, and survival… then spend their lives trying to improve themselves witho…

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Most men never actually decide who they are. They inherit fragments from culture, pain, politics, expectations, social media, and survival… then spend their lives trying to improve themselves without ever defining themselves first. In this special 400th episode of the Driven 2 Thrive Broadcast, Brent Dowlen breaks down the “4x4 Pillars” framework that has guided his life, leadership, business decisions, faith, marriage, and personal growth for years. This episode explores: • Identity and masculinity • Personal development for men • Core beliefs and values • Leadership foundati…

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Personal Development Vs Faith | Why Men Are Confused About Self-Improvement &Raquo; New Podcast Cover 81822 Y2Vu8J
Personal Development vs Faith | Why Men Are Confused About Self-Improvement

Is personal development selfish? Can men of faith work on themselves without falling into self-worship? In this episode of the Driven 2 Thrive Broadcast, Brent Dowlen breaks down the growing conflict…

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Is personal development selfish? Can men of faith work on themselves without falling into self-worship? In this episode of the Driven 2 Thrive Broadcast, Brent Dowlen breaks down the growing conflict between faith and personal development and explains why so many men have been handed a false choice: trust God OR improve yourself. This conversation dives into identity, growth, discipline, biblical principles, stoicism, neuroscience, and the danger of building your life on Emotions instead of truth. If you’ve struggled with purpose, identity, consistency, or understanding what personal grow…

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Rigid Men Break: Why Adaptability Is the Real Strength for Men

Rigid men break — not because they’re weak, but because they confuse stubbornness with strength. In this episode of the Driven 2 Thrive Broadcast, Brent Dowlen breaks down why adaptability is one…

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Rigid men break — not because they’re weak, but because they confuse stubbornness with strength. In this episode of the Driven 2 Thrive Broadcast, Brent Dowlen breaks down why adaptability is one of the most critical leadership skills a man can develop. From career pivots to marriage growth, this episode explores why many men slowly fracture under the weight of ego, identity, and fear. You’ll learn: • Why your brain resists change (neuroscience explained) • The difference between endurance and ego • How rigidity damages marriage and leadership • Why Michael Jordan and Dwayn…

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Ever wonder why your body isn't responding the way it used to in the bedroom? You're not broken – you're just missing the real story behind what your sexual Health is trying to tell you. Most men th…

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Ever wonder why your body isn't responding the way it used to in the bedroom? You're not broken – you're just missing the real story behind what your sexual health is trying to tell you. Most men think performance issues are either all physical or all mental, but the truth is far more complex and hopeful than you realize. The Numbers That Will Wake You Up Here's what no one talks about: 20% of men in their 20s already experience some form of erectile dysfunction. By age 40-50, that number jumps to 40-50%. This isn't about Aging gracefully – this is about understanding what your body is co…

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Discipline Without Connection Is Just Control — and most men don’t realize when they’ve crossed that line. In this episode of the Driven 2 Thrive Broadcast, Brent Dowlen explores why discipline without connection creates fear instead of respect, how control masquerades as responsibility, and what leaders, fathers, and husbands can do to build internal strength rather than fragile compliance. You’ll learn: • Why obedience doesn’t equal respect • How fear-based discipline damages trust • What real discipline is actually meant to produce • How to lead with Clarity and connecti…

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Most men know that guy—the disciplined, grounded man who leads himself well. In this episode of the Driven 2 Thrive Broadcast, Brent Dowlen shows you how to stop admiring that guy and become him us…

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Most men know that guy—the disciplined, grounded man who leads himself well. In this episode of the Driven 2 Thrive Broadcast, Brent Dowlen shows you how to stop admiring that guy and become him using a simple 30-day identity-based system rooted in neuroscience, Stoic Wisdom, and real-world application. This isn’t motivation. It’s identity transformation through kept promises. 👇 Watch to learn: • Why New Year’s resolutions fail • How habits move from effort to automation • The 4 habits that rewire identity • How men build confidence by keeping their word 🔔 Subscribe fo…

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Ever feel like you're drowning in responsibility while everyone around you assumes you've got it handled? You're not broken – you're just experiencing what destroys more good men than failure ever could. Most men don't collapse dramatically. They quietly disappear behind their own reliability until years pass and they wonder why they feel so alone, even surrounded by people they Love. The Silent Cost of Being "The Reliable One" Being dependable isn't the problem. The problem is when reliability becomes your only role. When strength turns into silence. When everyone depends on you,…

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Ever feel like you're making progress on your goals, then suddenly find yourself chasing something completely different? You're not broken – you're just experiencing what destroys more dreams than f…

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Most Men Think They Need More Motivation: The Identity Problem That Changes Everything

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Ever feel like you're running on empty when the New Year motivation wears off? You're not broken – you're just discovering what every successful man learns eventually. Motivation was never meant to carry you. It's the spark, not the engine, and once you understand what actually moves a man forward when the hype dies, everything changes. The Brutal Truth About Motivation That No One Tells You Motivation fading isn't a character flaw – it's biology. Your brain runs on dopamine, the same chemical tied to novelty and anticipation. When you start something new, dopamine spikes. But here's what…

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Ever feel like you're caught between two worlds? You've outgrown who you used to be, but you haven't quite become who you're meant to be yet. That awkward, lonely space in between isn't a sign you're failing – it's proof you've already changed. The Truth About Growth That Nobody Posts on Instagram Growth always creates a gap, and that gap always feels lonely. The problem isn't the gap itself – it's that nobody told you it was part of the deal. Most men back off when they hit this phase, mistaking discomfort for danger. Your brain is a prediction machine that loves familiar routines and p…

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