For the video of this episode, go to https://brucechalmer.com/anneke-elmhirst/. Interested in the possibilities of polyamory? What are those possibilities? What can go wrong? Our guest in this...

For the video of this episode, go to https://brucechalmer.com/cant-be-intimate-and-freaked-out/. What single ability solves all relationship problems? What does that have to do with intimacy and...

For the video of this episode, go to https://brucechalmer.com/joshua-coleman/. Are you estranged from a family member? About a quarter of Americans are. Maybe you’re cut off from a parent or adult...

For the video of this episode, go to https://brucechalmer.com/paula-cope/. How can a sixteen-year-old manage to survive, and even thrive, after her mother abandoned her leaving no other adults to...

For the video of this episode, go to https://brucechalmer.com/my-sister-stole-my-boyfriend/. Betrayal, cutoff, and decades of family drama. How would you handle it if your sister stole your boyfriend...

For the video of this episode, go to https://brucechalmer.com/susan-morgan-taylor/. Are you a woman in a couple, and your sexual desire seems to have vanished? Are you a man in a couple with one of...

For the video of this episode, go to https://brucechalmer.com/my-wife-died-and-was-having-an-affair/. What if you found out your recently deceased wife had been having an affair for years? How can...

For the video of this episode, go to https://brucechalmer.com/shelley-lewin/. Our guest for this episode, Shelley Lewin, was a successful international model when she realized that her life wasn’t...

For the video of this episode, go to https://brucechalmer.com/owen-marcus/. It turns out men and women are different. And therapy tends to be women’s territory, even with male therapists, as I...

The video of this episode is at https://brucechalmer.com/phyllis-leavitt/. How might the insights of psychology help heal our country? How does unhealed trauma lead to the polarization and discord...

The video of this episode is at https://brucechalmer.com/sharon-costanzo/. When our guest in this episode, Sharon Costanzo, got married and had children, she encountered a common problem, no less...

The video of this episode is at https://brucechalmer.com/kristal-desantis/. I (Bruce) have often observed that men these days seem to be at a loss in knowing how to be men. The old default...

The video of this episode is at https://brucechalmer.com/artemisia-de-vine-2/. We interviewed our guest in this episode, Artemisia de Vine, a few weeks ago in Episode 153 (this one is 162). Artemisia...

The video of this episode is at https://brucechalmer.com/the-f-word/. In this episode we talk about a short film, “The F-Word.” Besides being hilarious, this film touches on themes that often...

The video of this episode is at https://brucechalmer.com/laurie-groh/. How can couples navigate conflicts and differences? What are some of the challenges couples face at different stages of life?...

The video of this episode is at https://brucechalmer.com/eric-fitzmedrud/. What leads someone to recognize that they are polyamorous? How can getting consent be sexy? How can men learn to “be a...

The video of this episode is at https://brucechalmer.com/can-you-forgive-rape/ . What are the limits of forgiveness? Can you forgive even the worst sort of violations? I (Bruce) have worked with many...

The video of this episode is at https://brucechalmer.com/betrayal-and-forgiveness-its-almost-here/. Bruce’s book, Betrayal and Forgiveness: How to Navigate the Turmoil and Learn to Trust Again, is...

The video of this episode is at https://brucechalmer.com/betrayal-and-forgiveness/.   What is betrayal? Why is it so painful? And how do you recover from the shock, get past the anger, and figure...

The video of this episode is at https://brucechalmer.com/marisa-flood/. How can you turn conflict into connection? Our guest in this episode, Marisa Flood, is a relationship coach who specializes in...