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February 26th, 2025

Dr. Beth Allison Barr on The Pastor's Wife and The High Cost of the Two-for-One Bargain

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Lori Adams-BrownDr. Beth Allison Barr on The Pastor's Wife and The High Cost of the Two-for-One Bargain
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Join Dr. Beth Allison Barr for a little history lesson where we see that the role of the pastor’s wife hasn’t always been this way.

In this episode, you will be able to:

  • Discover the empowering impact of women in church leadership roles.
  • Uncover the influence of patriarchal systems on women in ministry today.
  • Explore the fascinating historical evolution of the pastor’s wife role.
  • Navigate the unique challenges faced by pastors’ wives in evangelical churches.
  • Embrace the benefits of inclusive leadership for a more diverse and welcoming church community.

My special guest is Dr. Beth Allison Barr

Dr. Beth Allison Barr, (PhD, University of North Carolina at Chapel

Hill) is James Vardaman Endowed Chair of History at Baylor

University in Waco, Texas, where she specializes in medieval

history, women’s history, and church history. She is the author of

the USA Today bestseller The Making of Biblical Womanhood:

How the Subjugation of Women Became Gospel Truth. Her work

has been featured by NPR and the New Yorker, and she has

written for Christianity Today, the Washington Post, The Dallas

Morning News, Sojourners, and Baptist News Global. Barr lives in

Texas with her husband, a Baptist pastor, and their two children.

The key moments in this episode are:

00:00:02 – Introducing Dr. Beth Allison Barr

00:01:07 – Unpacking the Role of the Pastor’s Wife

00:02:03 – The Personal Impact

00:02:55 – The Intersection of History and Personal Experience

00:13:49 – Women in Ministry and The Southern Baptist Convention

00:14:41 – Historical Context of Women in Ministry

00:21:02 – Expectations and Unpaid Labor

00:22:12 – Gendered Giftedness and Leadership

00:26:20 – Dorothy Patterson’s Symbolic Submission

00:28:08 – The Cost of Patriarchy

00:30:59 – The Patriarchal Bargain

00:33:14 – Burden of the Ideal Pastor’s Wife

00:36:25 – Stress and Expectations

00:38:08 – Embracing Inclusive Leadership

00:42:00 – The impact of patriarchal systems on women in the church

00:43:27 – Righteous anger and calls to action

00:44:31 – Recognizing the unseen labor of women in the church

00:46:11 – Embracing women’s God-given gifts and dreams

00:47:35 – Encouragement to make a difference

  • Pre-order Dr. Beth Allison Barr’s book Becoming the Pastor’s Wife to gain deeper insights into the challenges and expectations placed on women in ministry.
  • Follow Dr. Beth Allison Barr on her website and social media platforms to stay updated on her writing and research.
  • Share this podcast episode with a friend who needs to hear the empowering message about women’s roles in the church and the importance of embracing their own God-given gifts and callings.
  • Subscribe to the podcast and leave a review to support the community and help spread the message of making a difference in the world.
  • Take the time to reflect on your own role and calling, and give yourself permission to take up space and embrace your full, unapologetic presence in the church and the world.

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Lori Adams-Brown Podcast Host & Producer

Lori Adams-Brown is Senior Manager, Global Leadership and Development in a Silicon Valley tech company, hosts the A World of Difference podcast, speaks internationally on global leadership development and sits on the board of Justice Revival where she is helping to pass the ERA with people of faith. As a former international relief & development leader, Lori has led diverse global teams in multiple cultures and has lived in Singapore, Indonesia, Costa Rica, Venezuela, and the San Francisco Bay Area. She currently lives in Silicon Valley with her husband Jason and 3 teens.

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