Todd Creager is a marriage and sex therapist who helps couples create loving and passionate long-term Relationships. He also is well known for helping couples heal from infidelity. He attributes his success to his ability to understand and help the client understand the deeper factors that block love and connection and contribute to self-sabotage. This understanding is followed up by healing processes that can unleash the innate potential of each partner. He is certified in EMDR, a Trauma treatment that helps people move on from past difficult memories. He is the author of the highly acclaimed book, The Long Hot Marriage, and the Amazon bestseller- Love, Sex and Karaoke- 52 ways to Ignite Your Love Life. He newest video program titled Healing Infidelity from the Inside Out is a powerful, relationship-shifting experience for couples who want to heal from this challenging crisis. He has been a guest on numerous news shows about marriage and passion, been a therapist on the Oprah Winfrey Network’s show- Unfaithful and been on Playboy radio as well as other media appearances. Lastly- for twelve years he was a professor at USC teaching graduate students in subjects such as Human Sexuality, Psychological Theory, Leadership and Diversity.
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Hi everyone, Todd Creager here. In today's powerful episode, I dive deep into one of the most challenging aspects of healing after infidelity: managing triggers as a couple.Drawing from my years …
Hi everyone, Todd Cr…
Hi everyone, Todd Creager here. In today's powerful episode, I dive deep into one of the most challenging aspects of healing after infidelity: managing triggers as a couple.Drawing from my years of experience working with couples, I answer the five most crucial questions about triggers that both betrayed and betraying partners frequently ask.In this episode, you'll discover:- Why triggers aren't necessarily a problem, but rather opportunities to develop emotional muscle and deepen your connection- Practical strategies to support your partner during triggered moments, including m…
Hi everyone, this is Todd Creager. In today's episode, I dive deep into answering your most pressing questions about rebuilding emotional connection after infidelity. Having worked with countless…
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Hi everyone, this is Todd Creager. In today's episode, I dive deep into answering your most pressing questions about rebuilding emotional connection after infidelity. Having worked with countless couples navigating the aftermath of betrayal, I know how challenging this journey can be. I'll share practical insights on developing emotional muscle, mastering attunement, and embracing vulnerability to help heal your relationship.In this episode, you'll discover:How to develop real emotional muscle by exploring tension rather than avoiding it, allowing you to stay present with your p…
Hi there! I'm Todd Creager, and in this powerful episode of Let’s Talk About Love, Sex and Infidelity Podcast, I address one of the most challenging aspects of healing from infidelity - how to …
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Hi there! I'm Todd Creager, and in this powerful episode of Let’s Talk About Love, Sex and Infidelity Podcast, I address one of the most challenging aspects of healing from infidelity - how to take responsibility without drowning in shame. If you're someone who has betrayed your partner and is working to rebuild trust and heal your relationship, this episode is especially for you.I dive deep into answering the five most common questions I receive from people who have been unfaithful and are genuinely trying to make things right:Learn the crucial difference between showing genuine …
In today's powerful episode of Let's Talk about Love, Sex and Infidelity, Expert Todd Creager is diving deep into the heart-wrenching experience of healing after infidelity. If you've e…
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In today's powerful episode of Let's Talk about Love, Sex and Infidelity, Expert Todd Creager is diving deep into the heart-wrenching experience of healing after infidelity. If you've ever felt lost, hurt, and overwhelmed after discovering your partner's betrayal, this episode is your lifeline.I'll be answering the top five questions I hear from clients struggling to navigate the complex emotional landscape of healing after betrayal. This isn't just another podcast - it's a compassionate guide to reclaiming your emotional well-being.Key Insights You'll D…
In today's special episode of the Let's Talk About Love Sex and Infidelity Podcast, I am sharing a special episode.I want to talk about something really important - celebrating yourself, e…
In today's spec…
In today's special episode of the Let's Talk About Love Sex and Infidelity Podcast, I am sharing a special episode.I want to talk about something really important - celebrating yourself, especially during the holidays when things might not feel so festive.Let's be real: the holidays aren't always magical for everyone. Maybe you've experienced tough family memories, recent heartbreaks, or just feel disconnected from the usual cheer. This episode is for you.Why you absolutely need to listen:- Discover how to shine your inner light, even when circumstances feel dark- Le…
Hey there! I'm Todd Creager, and in this eye-opening episode, I'm diving deep into the fascinating world of attachment styles and how your childhood experiences might be secretly influencing…
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Hey there! I'm Todd Creager, and in this eye-opening episode, I'm diving deep into the fascinating world of attachment styles and how your childhood experiences might be secretly influencing your relationship patterns - including the potential for infidelity.Ever wondered why you struggle with intimacy or keep finding yourself in the same relationship challenges? Get ready for some serious insights! In this episode, I'll break down:• How childhood attachment experiences shape your adult relationship dynamics• The three critical attachment styles and their impact on relation…
Welcome, everyone! In this episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," I'm diving deep into a topic that's close to my heart: how to create safe communication after infidel…
Welcome, everyone! I…
Welcome, everyone! In this episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," I'm diving deep into a topic that's close to my heart: how to create safe communication after infidelity. As someone who's worked with countless couples navigating this challenging terrain, I've gathered some powerful insights to share with you.Here's what you can expect from this episode:• Learn practical techniques to handle overwhelming emotions during difficult conversations• Discover how to set realistic expectations for healing and avoid rushing back to "normal"• Gain …
Hey there, it's Todd Creager, and I'm excited to dive into a topic that's more relevant than ever in our modern world: Is cheating different in the digital age? In this episode of "Let&…
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Hey there, it's Todd Creager, and I'm excited to dive into a topic that's more relevant than ever in our modern world: Is cheating different in the digital age? In this episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," we're going to explore how Technology has changed the landscape of relationships and fidelity.Here's what you can expect from this eye-opening discussion:• Discover the new concept of "micro-cheating" and how it's blurring the lines of infidelity• Learn how digital communication is creating new challenges for trust and transparency i…
In this episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," we're going to explore the fine line between harmless interactions and potentially harmful behavior in relationships.Ever w…
In this episode of…
In this episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," we're going to explore the fine line between harmless interactions and potentially harmful behavior in relationships.Ever wondered if you're making a mountain out of a molehill when it comes to your partner's interactions with others? Or maybe you're questioning if your own actions might be crossing a line? Well, you're not alone, and I'm here to help you navigate these tricky waters.Here's what you can expect from this episode:• Gain Clarity on what truly constitutes micro-cheating and…
Hey there, it's Todd Creager, and I'm excited to share with you our latest episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." As we approach Thanksgiving, I want to dive into a to…
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Hey there, it's Todd Creager, and I'm excited to share with you our latest episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." As we approach Thanksgiving, I want to dive into a topic that's close to my heart and crucial for our relationships: gratitude.In this episode, we'll explore the power of thankfulness, especially during challenging times. As someone who's dedicated to helping people navigate pain and difficulties in their relationships, I know firsthand how transformative gratitude can be. Here's what you can expect from this heartfelt discussio…
In this episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," we're diving into a topic that I deal with every day in my practice: micro-cheating and its impact on relationships.Ever wond…
In this episode of "…
In this episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," we're diving into a topic that I deal with every day in my practice: micro-cheating and its impact on relationships.Ever wondered how those small, seemingly harmless actions can lead to major relationship problems?In this episode, I'll be exploring the slippery slope of micro-cheating and why it's more significant than you might think.Here's what you can expect:• Discover what micro-cheating really is and how it differs from full-blown infidelity• Learn why transparency and openness are crucial for ma…
Hey there, it's Todd Creager, and I'm excited to dive into a topic that's been generating a lot of buzz lately: micro-cheating. In this episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and…
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Hey there, it's Todd Creager, and I'm excited to dive into a topic that's been generating a lot of buzz lately: micro-cheating. In this episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," we're exploring the seven signs of micro-cheating that could be affecting your relationship without you even realizing it.As a relationship expert who's worked with thousands of couples, I've seen firsthand how these subtle behaviors can impact intimacy and trust. Here's why you should tune in:• Gain valuable insights into the "gray area" of relationship boundar…
I'm excited to dive into a topic that's been catching a lot of attention lately: micro-cheating. In this of the Let's Talk About Love, Sex and Infidelity podcast, we're going to ex…
I'm excited to …
I'm excited to dive into a topic that's been catching a lot of attention lately: micro-cheating. In this of the Let's Talk About Love, Sex and Infidelity podcast, we're going to explore what micro-cheating really means and why it matters in our relationships. Trust me, this is a conversation you won't want to miss!Here's what you can expect from this episode:Discover the true definition of cheating and how micro-cheating fits into the pictureLearn about the subtle ways micro-cheating can sneak into your relationship without you even realizing itUnderstand the pot…
Welcome back to "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I'm your host, Todd Creager, and today we're wrapping up our seven-part series on healing infidelity with an exciting topic…
Welcome back to "Let…
Welcome back to "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I'm your host, Todd Creager, and today we're wrapping up our seven-part series on healing infidelity with an exciting topic: taking your relationship to the next level. In this episode, we'll explore the concept of post-traumatic Growth and how couples can not only survive infidelity but emerge stronger and more connected than ever before. Here's what you can expect:• Discover the three healthy mindsets that can transform your relationship after infidelity• Learn practical, actionable habits to support …
Welcome to "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I'm your host, Todd Creager, and in this episode, we're diving deep into a crucial aspect of healing from infidelity: addressi…
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Welcome to "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I'm your host, Todd Creager, and in this episode, we're diving deep into a crucial aspect of healing from infidelity: addressing those inevitable triggers that pop up during the recovery process.After 42 years of helping couples navigate the choppy waters of infidelity, I've seen it all. Today, I'm sharing some powerful insights and strategies to help you and your partner deal with triggers effectively. Here's what you'll learn:• The most common triggers couples face after infidelity and why recogni…
In this episode we're diving into a crucial topic in our healing infidelity journey - healing the betrayer. Now, I know what you might be thinking: "Why should we focus on the person who caused a…
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In this episode we're diving into a crucial topic in our healing infidelity journey - healing the betrayer. Now, I know what you might be thinking: "Why should we focus on the person who caused all this pain?" But trust me, it's a vital piece of the puzzle for true relationship restoration.In this episode, we're going to explore:• Why it's essential for the betrayer to move past shame and self-loathing to be present for their partner's healing• How to create a safe environment for both partners to participate in the healing process• The critical role of attachmen…
Have you ever wondered why some people cheat while others stay faithful? In this episode of Let's Talk About Love Sex and Infidelity I reveal the surprising connection between attachment styles …
Have you ever wonder…
Have you ever wondered why some people cheat while others stay faithful? In this episode of Let's Talk About Love Sex and Infidelity I reveal the surprising connection between attachment styles and infidelity. You'll discover:• The #1 attachment style that makes people more likely to cheat• How childhood experiences shape adult relationships • Why "once a cheater, always a cheater" is actually a myth• How to heal from infidelity by understanding attachment• Simple ways to improve your relationship's attachment securityThis information completely changed how I view in…
Hey there, it's Todd Creager, and I'm excited to share with you our latest episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." Today, we're diving into a topic that I'm s…
Hey there, it's…
Hey there, it's Todd Creager, and I'm excited to share with you our latest episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." Today, we're diving into a topic that I'm sure many of you can relate to: shifting your relationship from a parent-child dynamic to an adult-adult partnership. In this episode, I'll be sharing some valuable insights on:How to recognize if you're stuck in a parent-child pattern in your relationshipThe importance of vulnerability and expressing your needs as an adultPractical tips for communicating more effectively with your partn…