Todd Creager is a marriage and sex therapist who helps couples create loving and passionate long-term Relationships. He also is well known for helping couples heal from infidelity. He attributes his success to his ability to understand and help the client understand the deeper factors that block love and connection and contribute to self-sabotage. This understanding is followed up by healing processes that can unleash the innate potential of each partner. He is certified in EMDR, a Trauma treatment that helps people move on from past difficult memories. He is the author of the highly acclaimed book, The Long Hot Marriage, and the Amazon bestseller- Love, Sex and Karaoke- 52 ways to Ignite Your Love Life. He newest video program titled Healing Infidelity from the Inside Out is a powerful, relationship-shifting experience for couples who want to heal from this challenging crisis. He has been a guest on numerous news shows about marriage and passion, been a therapist on the Oprah Winfrey Network’s show- Unfaithful and been on Playboy radio as well as other media appearances. Lastly- for twelve years he was a professor at USC teaching graduate students in subjects such as Human Sexuality, Psychological Theory, Leadership and Diversity.
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Welcome, everyone! In this episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," I'm diving deep into a topic that's close to my heart: how to create safe communication after infidel…
Welcome, everyone! I…
Welcome, everyone! In this episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," I'm diving deep into a topic that's close to my heart: how to create safe communication after infidelity. As someone who's worked with countless couples navigating this challenging terrain, I've gathered some powerful insights to share with you.Here's what you can expect from this episode:• Learn practical techniques to handle overwhelming emotions during difficult conversations• Discover how to set realistic expectations for healing and avoid rushing back to "normal"• Gain …
Hey there, it's Todd Creager, and I'm excited to dive into a topic that's more relevant than ever in our modern world: Is cheating different in the digital age? In this episode of "Let&…
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Hey there, it's Todd Creager, and I'm excited to dive into a topic that's more relevant than ever in our modern world: Is cheating different in the digital age? In this episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," we're going to explore how Technology has changed the landscape of relationships and fidelity.Here's what you can expect from this eye-opening discussion:• Discover the new concept of "micro-cheating" and how it's blurring the lines of infidelity• Learn how digital communication is creating new challenges for trust and transparency i…
In this episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," we're going to explore the fine line between harmless interactions and potentially harmful behavior in relationships.Ever w…
In this episode of…
In this episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," we're going to explore the fine line between harmless interactions and potentially harmful behavior in relationships.Ever wondered if you're making a mountain out of a molehill when it comes to your partner's interactions with others? Or maybe you're questioning if your own actions might be crossing a line? Well, you're not alone, and I'm here to help you navigate these tricky waters.Here's what you can expect from this episode:• Gain Clarity on what truly constitutes micro-cheating and…
Hey there, it's Todd Creager, and I'm excited to share with you our latest episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." As we approach Thanksgiving, I want to dive into a to…
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Hey there, it's Todd Creager, and I'm excited to share with you our latest episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." As we approach Thanksgiving, I want to dive into a topic that's close to my heart and crucial for our relationships: gratitude.In this episode, we'll explore the power of thankfulness, especially during challenging times. As someone who's dedicated to helping people navigate pain and difficulties in their relationships, I know firsthand how transformative gratitude can be. Here's what you can expect from this heartfelt discussio…
In this episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," we're diving into a topic that I deal with every day in my practice: micro-cheating and its impact on relationships.Ever wond…
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In this episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," we're diving into a topic that I deal with every day in my practice: micro-cheating and its impact on relationships.Ever wondered how those small, seemingly harmless actions can lead to major relationship problems?In this episode, I'll be exploring the slippery slope of micro-cheating and why it's more significant than you might think.Here's what you can expect:• Discover what micro-cheating really is and how it differs from full-blown infidelity• Learn why transparency and openness are crucial for ma…
Hey there, it's Todd Creager, and I'm excited to dive into a topic that's been generating a lot of buzz lately: micro-cheating. In this episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and…
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Hey there, it's Todd Creager, and I'm excited to dive into a topic that's been generating a lot of buzz lately: micro-cheating. In this episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," we're exploring the seven signs of micro-cheating that could be affecting your relationship without you even realizing it.As a relationship expert who's worked with thousands of couples, I've seen firsthand how these subtle behaviors can impact intimacy and trust. Here's why you should tune in:• Gain valuable insights into the "gray area" of relationship boundar…
I'm excited to dive into a topic that's been catching a lot of attention lately: micro-cheating. In this of the Let's Talk About Love, Sex and Infidelity podcast, we're going to ex…
I'm excited to …
I'm excited to dive into a topic that's been catching a lot of attention lately: micro-cheating. In this of the Let's Talk About Love, Sex and Infidelity podcast, we're going to explore what micro-cheating really means and why it matters in our relationships. Trust me, this is a conversation you won't want to miss!Here's what you can expect from this episode:Discover the true definition of cheating and how micro-cheating fits into the pictureLearn about the subtle ways micro-cheating can sneak into your relationship without you even realizing itUnderstand the pot…
Welcome back to "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I'm your host, Todd Creager, and today we're wrapping up our seven-part series on healing infidelity with an exciting topic…
Welcome back to "Let…
Welcome back to "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I'm your host, Todd Creager, and today we're wrapping up our seven-part series on healing infidelity with an exciting topic: taking your relationship to the next level. In this episode, we'll explore the concept of post-traumatic Growth and how couples can not only survive infidelity but emerge stronger and more connected than ever before. Here's what you can expect:• Discover the three healthy mindsets that can transform your relationship after infidelity• Learn practical, actionable habits to support …
Welcome to "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I'm your host, Todd Creager, and in this episode, we're diving deep into a crucial aspect of healing from infidelity: addressi…
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Welcome to "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I'm your host, Todd Creager, and in this episode, we're diving deep into a crucial aspect of healing from infidelity: addressing those inevitable triggers that pop up during the recovery process.After 42 years of helping couples navigate the choppy waters of infidelity, I've seen it all. Today, I'm sharing some powerful insights and strategies to help you and your partner deal with triggers effectively. Here's what you'll learn:• The most common triggers couples face after infidelity and why recogni…
In this episode we're diving into a crucial topic in our healing infidelity journey - healing the betrayer. Now, I know what you might be thinking: "Why should we focus on the person who caused a…
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In this episode we're diving into a crucial topic in our healing infidelity journey - healing the betrayer. Now, I know what you might be thinking: "Why should we focus on the person who caused all this pain?" But trust me, it's a vital piece of the puzzle for true relationship restoration.In this episode, we're going to explore:• Why it's essential for the betrayer to move past shame and self-loathing to be present for their partner's healing• How to create a safe environment for both partners to participate in the healing process• The critical role of attachmen…
Have you ever wondered why some people cheat while others stay faithful? In this episode of Let's Talk About Love Sex and Infidelity I reveal the surprising connection between attachment styles …
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Have you ever wondered why some people cheat while others stay faithful? In this episode of Let's Talk About Love Sex and Infidelity I reveal the surprising connection between attachment styles and infidelity. You'll discover:• The #1 attachment style that makes people more likely to cheat• How childhood experiences shape adult relationships • Why "once a cheater, always a cheater" is actually a myth• How to heal from infidelity by understanding attachment• Simple ways to improve your relationship's attachment securityThis information completely changed how I view in…
Hey there, it's Todd Creager, and I'm excited to share with you our latest episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." Today, we're diving into a topic that I'm s…
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Hey there, it's Todd Creager, and I'm excited to share with you our latest episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." Today, we're diving into a topic that I'm sure many of you can relate to: shifting your relationship from a parent-child dynamic to an adult-adult partnership. In this episode, I'll be sharing some valuable insights on:How to recognize if you're stuck in a parent-child pattern in your relationshipThe importance of vulnerability and expressing your needs as an adultPractical tips for communicating more effectively with your partn…
Welcome to "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I'm your host, Todd Creager, and in this episode, we're diving deep into a crucial aspect of healing from infidelity: supporting…
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Welcome to "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I'm your host, Todd Creager, and in this episode, we're diving deep into a crucial aspect of healing from infidelity: supporting and healing the betrayed partner.If you've been hurt by infidelity, or you're trying to help someone who has, this episode is for you. We'll explore:• Why blaming yourself for your partner's infidelity is common, and how to overcome it• The importance of acknowledging and healing both your adult and younger selves• How to build a strong support system when you're fe…
Hey there, it's Todd Creager, and welcome back to "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." In today's episode, we're diving deep into a crucial aspect of healing from infideli…
Hey there, it's…
Hey there, it's Todd Creager, and welcome back to "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." In today's episode, we're diving deep into a crucial aspect of healing from infidelity: understanding attachment styles and their connection to childhood experiences.Ever wondered why some people are more prone to infidelity or struggle to heal after being betrayed? The answers often lie in our early childhood experiences and how they shape our adult relationships. Join me as I unpack this fascinating topic and share insights from my years of experience helping couples navigate t…
In this episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," we're exploring the topic of understanding the pain of the betrayed partner and the betrayer which are from the first module …
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In this episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," we're exploring the topic of understanding the pain of the betrayed partner and the betrayer which are from the first module of my newest program, "Healing Infidelity from the Inside Out." This isn't just another relationship guide – it's the culmination of years of experience helping thousands of couples navigate the treacherous waters of betrayal and come out stronger on the other side.Here's what you can expect from this episode:• Gain insight into the emotional rollercoaster both the betrayed and…
Hey there, it's Todd Creager, and I'm excited to dive into a topic that's close to my heart and crucial for healthy relationships: conflict avoidance in marriage. In this episode, we&ap…
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Hey there, it's Todd Creager, and I'm excited to dive into a topic that's close to my heart and crucial for healthy relationships: conflict avoidance in marriage. In this episode, we're going to explore how our childhood experiences shape the way we handle (or avoid) conflict in our adult relationships.Here's what you can expect from this eye-opening discussion:Discover why conflict avoidance is at the root of many relationship issues, from low sexual desire to infidelityUncover how your family's approach to emotions and conflict might be influencing your current …
Welcome, dear listeners! Todd Creager here, ready to dive into a topic that's crucial for every relationship but often swept under the rug. In this episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, an…
Welcome, dear listen…
Welcome, dear listeners! Todd Creager here, ready to dive into a topic that's crucial for every relationship but often swept under the rug. In this episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," we're exploring the surprising connection between conflict avoidance and physical intimacy. As a couples therapist, I've seen firsthand how avoiding tough conversations can put a damper on your sex life. But don't worry – I'm here to help you understand why this happens and what you can do about it!Tune in to discover:• The hidden intimacy killer that might b…
Welcome to another episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." Today, we're diving into a topic that's close to my heart: "Lessons Learned From 40 Years of Marriage." Wheth…
Welcome to another e…
Welcome to another episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." Today, we're diving into a topic that's close to my heart: "Lessons Learned From 40 Years of Marriage." Whether you're newlyweds or have been together for decades, this episode is packed with insights that can help strengthen your relationship.Here's what you'll gain from tuning in:Real-Life Wisdom: Learn from my personal experiences and the invaluable lessons I've gathered over four decades of marriage.Communication Tips: Discover effective communication strategies that can help yo…