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Todd Creager Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFT

Todd Creager is a marriage and sex therapist who helps couples create loving and passionate long-term Relationships. He also is well known for helping couples heal from infidelity. He attributes his success to his ability to understand and help the client understand the deeper factors that block love and connection and contribute to self-sabotage. This understanding is followed up by healing processes that can unleash the innate potential of each partner. He is certified in EMDR, a Trauma treatment that helps people move on from past difficult memories. He is the author of the highly acclaimed book, The Long Hot Marriage, and the Amazon bestseller- Love, Sex and Karaoke- 52 ways to Ignite Your Love Life. He newest video program titled Healing Infidelity from the Inside Out is a powerful, relationship-shifting experience for couples who want to heal from this challenging crisis. He has been a guest on numerous news shows about marriage and passion, been a therapist on the Oprah Winfrey Network’s show- Unfaithful and been on Playboy radio as well as other media appearances. Lastly- for twelve years he was a professor at USC teaching graduate students in subjects such as Human Sexuality, Psychological Theory, Leadership and Diversity.

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#228 | Emdr: How It Can Help Heal Infidelity Trauma &Raquo; Jl417O6Vlgky2Qtxw6Kdji0Wm8Gb
#228 | EMDR: How it Can Help Heal Infidelity Trauma

Hi everyone! In today's special episode, I'm diving deep into how EMDR Therapy can help heal the profound trauma of infidelity. As someone who's worked with thousands of couples dealin…

Hi everyone! In toda…

Hi everyone! In today's special episode, I'm diving deep into how EMDR therapy can help heal the profound trauma of infidelity. As someone who's worked with thousands of couples dealing with infidelity, I'm excited to share how this powerful therapeutic approach can transform both the betrayed and betraying partners. I'm also joined by my colleague Mary Eason, an expert EMDR therapist, to discuss the crucial work of EMDR Trauma Recovery Assistance Programs in helping communities heal from trauma.In this episode, you'll discover:- Why infidelity is an "interperso…

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#226 | 7 Signs Of Unhealed Relationship Trauma &Raquo; Mcsb293Xgqk37Hx9Tj6A25Bmeqin
#226 | 7 Signs of Unhealed Relationship Trauma

Hi! I'm Todd Creager, and in this powerful episode, I dive deep into the seven signs of unhealed relationship trauma. Drawing from my years of experience helping couples heal and transform their …

Hi! I'm Todd Cr…

Hi! I'm Todd Creager, and in this powerful episode, I dive deep into the seven signs of unhealed relationship trauma. Drawing from my years of experience helping couples heal and transform their relationships, I'll guide you through these crucial indicators that might be affecting your ability to form and maintain healthy connections.In this episode, you'll discover:- How to identify if fear of intimacy, emotional numbness, or overreacting to small triggers are impacting your relationships- Real-life examples from my therapy practice that illustrate how unhealed trauma shows up …

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#225 |  4 Types Of Trauma That Causes Relationship Challenges &Raquo; Oq71Xd6Sppux0Jvmvhi3Nwrjpag1
#225 |  4 Types of Trauma That Causes Relationship Challenges

Hi everyone, I'm Todd Creager, and in this powerful episode, I dive deep into the four types of trauma that can significantly impact our ability to form and maintain healthy relationships. Drawin…

Hi everyone, I'…

Hi everyone, I'm Todd Creager, and in this powerful episode, I dive deep into the four types of trauma that can significantly impact our ability to form and maintain healthy relationships. Drawing from my years of experience working with couples, I'll help you understand how abandonment, rejection, betrayal, and humiliation traumas shape our current relationships and what we can do to begin healing.In this episode, you'll discover:- How to identify the signs of these four traumas in your relationships and understand why you might be sabotaging your connections or struggling with…

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#224 | This Might Be The Reason Why Intimacy Feels Scary &Raquo; Ybyahcm7P3Lhwchm4Sjjqz0R8Umi
#224 | This Might Be The Reason Why Intimacy Feels Scary

In today's deeply personal episode, I dive into the complex connection between childhood trauma and intimacy struggles. As both a couples therapist and trauma specialist, I've seen firsthand…

In today's deep…

In today's deeply personal episode, I dive into the complex connection between childhood trauma and intimacy struggles. As both a couples therapist and trauma specialist, I've seen firsthand how our early experiences shape our ability to form deep, meaningful connections. I share my own journey of overcoming defensive patterns in my marriage and explain how childhood experiences influence our capacity for true intimacy.In this episode, you'll discover:• Why seemingly small childhood experiences can create significant barriers to intimacy - even without major trauma• How to …

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#223 | Building A Stronger Relationship After Infidelity: Your Questions Answered &Raquo; Gyi85Ke55D8W4Y4Epkmz83X776Nk
#223 | Building a Stronger Relationship After Infidelity: Your Questions Answered

In this powerful episode, I dive deep into how couples can experience post-traumatic Growth after infidelity - yes, you read that right! While infidelity often leads to PTSD, I've witnessed coun…

In this powerful epi…

In this powerful episode, I dive deep into how couples can experience post-traumatic growth after infidelity - yes, you read that right! While infidelity often leads to PTSD, I've witnessed countless couples in my practice who've not only healed but emerged stronger through this challenging journey. I'll share my expertise on how to transform trauma into an opportunity for profound relationship growth and renewal.Key takeaways from this episode:Discover the 5 essential questions that help determine if you're ready to take your relationship to the next level after infideli…

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#222 | Managing Triggers After Infidelity: 5 Essential Questions Answered &Raquo; Vwj2Has543V2Mgtil65Wr067Pnpl
#222 | Managing Triggers After Infidelity: 5 Essential Questions Answered

Hi everyone, Todd Creager here. In today's powerful episode, I dive deep into one of the most challenging aspects of healing after infidelity: managing triggers as a couple.Drawing from my years …

Hi everyone, Todd Cr…

Hi everyone, Todd Creager here. In today's powerful episode, I dive deep into one of the most challenging aspects of healing after infidelity: managing triggers as a couple.Drawing from my years of experience working with couples, I answer the five most crucial questions about triggers that both betrayed and betraying partners frequently ask.In this episode, you'll discover:- Why triggers aren't necessarily a problem, but rather opportunities to develop emotional muscle and deepen your connection- Practical strategies to support your partner during triggered moments, including m…

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#221 | Deepening Emotional Connection After Infidelity: Your Questions Answered! &Raquo; Pjlio3Zroippmqns1Wi8Czvyje1D
#221 | Deepening Emotional Connection after Infidelity: Your Questions Answered!

Hi everyone, this is Todd Creager. In today's episode, I dive deep into answering your most pressing questions about rebuilding emotional connection after infidelity. Having worked with countless…

Hi everyone, this is…

Hi everyone, this is Todd Creager. In today's episode, I dive deep into answering your most pressing questions about rebuilding emotional connection after infidelity. Having worked with countless couples navigating the aftermath of betrayal, I know how challenging this journey can be. I'll share practical insights on developing emotional muscle, mastering attunement, and embracing vulnerability to help heal your relationship.In this episode, you'll discover:How to develop real emotional muscle by exploring tension rather than avoiding it, allowing you to stay present with your p…

Listen · 19:35
#220 | How To Take Responsibility Without Shame When You'Ve Cheated &Raquo; Tkcsw30Nhv8Cdfqm0Uvpkcat5Buf
#220 | How to Take Responsibility Without Shame When You've Cheated

Hi there! I'm Todd Creager, and in this powerful episode of Let’s Talk About Love, Sex and Infidelity Podcast, I address one of the most challenging aspects of healing from infidelity - how to …

Hi there! I'm T…

Hi there! I'm Todd Creager, and in this powerful episode of Let’s Talk About Love, Sex and Infidelity Podcast, I address one of the most challenging aspects of healing from infidelity - how to take responsibility without drowning in shame. If you're someone who has betrayed your partner and is working to rebuild trust and heal your relationship, this episode is especially for you.I dive deep into answering the five most common questions I receive from people who have been unfaithful and are genuinely trying to make things right:Learn the crucial difference between showing genuine …

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#219 | Betrayed And Confused? 5 Critical Answers You Need Right Now &Raquo; 3Asbelrlfkryc13Ay9M12Ihxn7A4
#219 | Betrayed and Confused? 5 Critical Answers You Need Right Now

In today's powerful episode of Let's Talk about Love, Sex and Infidelity, Expert Todd Creager is diving deep into the heart-wrenching experience of healing after infidelity. If you've e…

In today's powe…

In today's powerful episode of Let's Talk about Love, Sex and Infidelity, Expert Todd Creager is diving deep into the heart-wrenching experience of healing after infidelity. If you've ever felt lost, hurt, and overwhelmed after discovering your partner's betrayal, this episode is your lifeline.I'll be answering the top five questions I hear from clients struggling to navigate the complex emotional landscape of healing after betrayal. This isn't just another podcast - it's a compassionate guide to reclaiming your emotional well-being.Key Insights You'll D…

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Special Episode: Celebrating You Whether Your Holidays Are Happy Or Not &Raquo; Iuhohxudlyxptilf9Mkdsdfi3Koi
Special Episode: Celebrating You Whether Your Holidays Are Happy or Not

In today's special episode of the Let's Talk About Love Sex and Infidelity Podcast, I am sharing a special episode.I want to talk  about something really important - celebrating yourself, e…

In today's spec…

In today's special episode of the Let's Talk About Love Sex and Infidelity Podcast, I am sharing a special episode.I want to talk  about something really important - celebrating yourself, especially during the holidays when things might not feel so festive.Let's be real: the holidays aren't always magical for everyone. Maybe you've experienced tough family memories, recent heartbreaks, or just feel disconnected from the usual cheer. This episode is for you.Why you absolutely need to listen:- Discover how to shine your inner light, even when circumstances feel dark- Le…

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#218 | Your Questions Answered: Can Childhood Experiences Raise The Risk Of Infidelity? &Raquo; 03Kcaf1Bn4Mcydgbipz5726Y008W
#218 | Your Questions Answered: Can Childhood Experiences Raise the Risk of Infidelity?

Hey there! I'm Todd Creager, and in this eye-opening episode, I'm diving deep into the fascinating world of attachment styles and how your childhood experiences might be secretly influencing…

Hey there! I'm …

Hey there! I'm Todd Creager, and in this eye-opening episode, I'm diving deep into the fascinating world of attachment styles and how your childhood experiences might be secretly influencing your relationship patterns - including the potential for infidelity.Ever wondered why you struggle with intimacy or keep finding yourself in the same relationship challenges? Get ready for some serious insights! In this episode, I'll break down:• How childhood attachment experiences shape your adult relationship dynamics• The three critical attachment styles and their impact on relation…

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#217: Your Questions Answered: How To Create Safe Communication After Infidelity &Raquo; 0Lzvyh96Ebl0Wgtyonmvlzouen9P
#217: Your Questions Answered: How to Create Safe Communication After Infidelity

Welcome, everyone! In this episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," I'm diving deep into a topic that's close to my heart: how to create safe communication after infidel…

Welcome, everyone! I…

Welcome, everyone! In this episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," I'm diving deep into a topic that's close to my heart: how to create safe communication after infidelity. As someone who's worked with countless couples navigating this challenging terrain, I've gathered some powerful insights to share with you.Here's what you can expect from this episode:• Learn practical techniques to handle overwhelming emotions during difficult conversations• Discover how to set realistic expectations for healing and avoid rushing back to "normal"• Gain …

Listen · 17:59
#215 | Is Cheating Different In The Digital Age? &Raquo; 2Uxyo1Vp1Iquwolbe3A910Tsi55V
#215 | Is Cheating Different In The Digital Age?

Hey there, it's Todd Creager, and I'm excited to dive into a topic that's more relevant than ever in our modern world: Is cheating different in the digital age? In this episode of "Let&…

Hey there, it's…

Hey there, it's Todd Creager, and I'm excited to dive into a topic that's more relevant than ever in our modern world: Is cheating different in the digital age? In this episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," we're going to explore how Technology has changed the landscape of relationships and fidelity.Here's what you can expect from this eye-opening discussion:• Discover the new concept of "micro-cheating" and how it's blurring the lines of infidelity• Learn how digital communication is creating new challenges for trust and transparency i…

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#214 | Micro-Cheating Vs. Normal Relationships: When Are We Just Splitting Hairs? &Raquo; Swept4Vw6Ids7Mn6Vysif22Zgipe
#214 | Micro-Cheating vs. Normal Relationships: When Are We Just Splitting Hairs?

 In this episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," we're going to explore the fine line between harmless interactions and potentially harmful behavior in relationships.Ever w…

 In this episode of…

 In this episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," we're going to explore the fine line between harmless interactions and potentially harmful behavior in relationships.Ever wondered if you're making a mountain out of a molehill when it comes to your partner's interactions with others? Or maybe you're questioning if your own actions might be crossing a line? Well, you're not alone, and I'm here to help you navigate these tricky waters.Here's what you can expect from this episode:• Gain Clarity on what truly constitutes micro-cheating and…

Listen · 8:22
#216 | Is Gratitude The Secret Sauce For A Happier Life? &Raquo; 6Wpfu8I9I1D307P7Y6Ico41C4Vag
#216 | Is gratitude the secret sauce for a happier life?

Hey there, it's Todd Creager, and I'm excited to share with you our latest episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." As we approach Thanksgiving, I want to dive into a to…

Hey there, it's…

Hey there, it's Todd Creager, and I'm excited to share with you our latest episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." As we approach Thanksgiving, I want to dive into a topic that's close to my heart and crucial for our relationships: gratitude.In this episode, we'll explore the power of thankfulness, especially during challenging times. As someone who's dedicated to helping people navigate pain and difficulties in their relationships, I know firsthand how transformative gratitude can be. Here's what you can expect from this heartfelt discussio…

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#213 | Does Micro Cheating Cause Major Relationship Problems? &Raquo; 0Eszvddbphxo63Aua4Dkxdqzg1H3
#213 | Does Micro Cheating Cause Major Relationship Problems?

In this episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," we're diving into a topic that I deal with every day in my practice: micro-cheating and its impact on relationships.Ever wond…

In this episode of "…

In this episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," we're diving into a topic that I deal with every day in my practice: micro-cheating and its impact on relationships.Ever wondered how those small, seemingly harmless actions can lead to major relationship problems?In this episode, I'll be exploring the slippery slope of micro-cheating and why it's more significant than you might think.Here's what you can expect:• Discover what micro-cheating really is and how it differs from full-blown infidelity• Learn why transparency and openness are crucial for ma…

Listen · 9:24
#212 | Micro Cheating Expert Reveals 7 Shocking Signs &Raquo; Xu9Ozpgaopik6Mm6G24O6Nvbjic1
#212 | Micro Cheating EXPERT Reveals 7 Shocking Signs

Hey there, it's Todd Creager, and I'm excited to dive into a topic that's been generating a lot of buzz lately: micro-cheating. In this episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and…

Hey there, it's…

Hey there, it's Todd Creager, and I'm excited to dive into a topic that's been generating a lot of buzz lately: micro-cheating. In this episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," we're exploring the seven signs of micro-cheating that could be affecting your relationship without you even realizing it.As a relationship expert who's worked with thousands of couples, I've seen firsthand how these subtle behaviors can impact intimacy and trust. Here's why you should tune in:• Gain valuable insights into the "gray area" of relationship boundar…

Listen · 17:29
#211 | Micro Cheating - The Secret Behavior That’s Hurting Your Relationship &Raquo; Tlsd01Iukilf4R9Ugsrrq9Rde7Ad
#211 | Micro Cheating – The Secret Behavior That’s HURTING Your Relationship

I'm excited to dive into a topic that's been catching a lot of attention lately: micro-cheating. In this of the Let's Talk About Love, Sex and Infidelity podcast, we're going to ex…

I'm excited to …

I'm excited to dive into a topic that's been catching a lot of attention lately: micro-cheating. In this of the Let's Talk About Love, Sex and Infidelity podcast, we're going to explore what micro-cheating really means and why it matters in our relationships. Trust me, this is a conversation you won't want to miss!Here's what you can expect from this episode:Discover the true definition of cheating and how micro-cheating fits into the pictureLearn about the subtle ways micro-cheating can sneak into your relationship without you even realizing itUnderstand the pot…

Listen · 11:09

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