Todd Creager is a marriage and sex therapist who helps couples create loving and passionate long-term Relationships. He also is well known for helping couples heal from infidelity. He attributes his success to his ability to understand and help the client understand the deeper factors that block love and connection and contribute to self-sabotage. This understanding is followed up by healing processes that can unleash the innate potential of each partner. He is certified in EMDR, a Trauma treatment that helps people move on from past difficult memories. He is the author of the highly acclaimed book, The Long Hot Marriage, and the Amazon bestseller- Love, Sex and Karaoke- 52 ways to Ignite Your Love Life. He newest video program titled Healing Infidelity from the Inside Out is a powerful, relationship-shifting experience for couples who want to heal from this challenging crisis. He has been a guest on numerous news shows about marriage and passion, been a therapist on the Oprah Winfrey Network’s show- Unfaithful and been on Playboy radio as well as other media appearances. Lastly- for twelve years he was a professor at USC teaching graduate students in subjects such as Human Sexuality, Psychological Theory, Leadership and Diversity.
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Hey there, it's Todd Creager, and I'm excited to dive into a topic that's been generating a lot of buzz lately: micro-cheating. In this episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and…
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Hey there, it's Todd Creager, and I'm excited to dive into a topic that's been generating a lot of buzz lately: micro-cheating. In this episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," we're exploring the seven signs of micro-cheating that could be affecting your relationship without you even realizing it.As a relationship expert who's worked with thousands of couples, I've seen firsthand how these subtle behaviors can impact intimacy and trust. Here's why you should tune in:• Gain valuable insights into the "gray area" of relationship boundar…
I'm excited to dive into a topic that's been catching a lot of attention lately: micro-cheating. In this of the Let's Talk About Love, Sex and Infidelity podcast, we're going to ex…
I'm excited to …
I'm excited to dive into a topic that's been catching a lot of attention lately: micro-cheating. In this of the Let's Talk About Love, Sex and Infidelity podcast, we're going to explore what micro-cheating really means and why it matters in our relationships. Trust me, this is a conversation you won't want to miss!Here's what you can expect from this episode:Discover the true definition of cheating and how micro-cheating fits into the pictureLearn about the subtle ways micro-cheating can sneak into your relationship without you even realizing itUnderstand the pot…
Welcome back to "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I'm your host, Todd Creager, and today we're wrapping up our seven-part series on healing infidelity with an exciting topic…
Welcome back to "Let…
Welcome back to "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I'm your host, Todd Creager, and today we're wrapping up our seven-part series on healing infidelity with an exciting topic: taking your relationship to the next level. In this episode, we'll explore the concept of post-traumatic Growth and how couples can not only survive infidelity but emerge stronger and more connected than ever before. Here's what you can expect:• Discover the three healthy mindsets that can transform your relationship after infidelity• Learn practical, actionable habits to support …
Welcome to "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I'm your host, Todd Creager, and in this episode, we're diving deep into a crucial aspect of healing from infidelity: addressi…
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Welcome to "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I'm your host, Todd Creager, and in this episode, we're diving deep into a crucial aspect of healing from infidelity: addressing those inevitable triggers that pop up during the recovery process.After 42 years of helping couples navigate the choppy waters of infidelity, I've seen it all. Today, I'm sharing some powerful insights and strategies to help you and your partner deal with triggers effectively. Here's what you'll learn:• The most common triggers couples face after infidelity and why recogni…
In this episode we're diving into a crucial topic in our healing infidelity journey - healing the betrayer. Now, I know what you might be thinking: "Why should we focus on the person who caused a…
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In this episode we're diving into a crucial topic in our healing infidelity journey - healing the betrayer. Now, I know what you might be thinking: "Why should we focus on the person who caused all this pain?" But trust me, it's a vital piece of the puzzle for true relationship restoration.In this episode, we're going to explore:• Why it's essential for the betrayer to move past shame and self-loathing to be present for their partner's healing• How to create a safe environment for both partners to participate in the healing process• The critical role of attachmen…
Have you ever wondered why some people cheat while others stay faithful? In this episode of Let's Talk About Love Sex and Infidelity I reveal the surprising connection between attachment styles …
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Have you ever wondered why some people cheat while others stay faithful? In this episode of Let's Talk About Love Sex and Infidelity I reveal the surprising connection between attachment styles and infidelity. You'll discover:• The #1 attachment style that makes people more likely to cheat• How childhood experiences shape adult relationships • Why "once a cheater, always a cheater" is actually a myth• How to heal from infidelity by understanding attachment• Simple ways to improve your relationship's attachment securityThis information completely changed how I view in…
Hey there, it's Todd Creager, and I'm excited to share with you our latest episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." Today, we're diving into a topic that I'm s…
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Hey there, it's Todd Creager, and I'm excited to share with you our latest episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." Today, we're diving into a topic that I'm sure many of you can relate to: shifting your relationship from a parent-child dynamic to an adult-adult partnership. In this episode, I'll be sharing some valuable insights on:How to recognize if you're stuck in a parent-child pattern in your relationshipThe importance of vulnerability and expressing your needs as an adultPractical tips for communicating more effectively with your partn…
Welcome to "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I'm your host, Todd Creager, and in this episode, we're diving deep into a crucial aspect of healing from infidelity: supporting…
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Welcome to "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I'm your host, Todd Creager, and in this episode, we're diving deep into a crucial aspect of healing from infidelity: supporting and healing the betrayed partner.If you've been hurt by infidelity, or you're trying to help someone who has, this episode is for you. We'll explore:• Why blaming yourself for your partner's infidelity is common, and how to overcome it• The importance of acknowledging and healing both your adult and younger selves• How to build a strong support system when you're fe…
Hey there, it's Todd Creager, and welcome back to "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." In today's episode, we're diving deep into a crucial aspect of healing from infideli…
Hey there, it's…
Hey there, it's Todd Creager, and welcome back to "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." In today's episode, we're diving deep into a crucial aspect of healing from infidelity: understanding attachment styles and their connection to childhood experiences.Ever wondered why some people are more prone to infidelity or struggle to heal after being betrayed? The answers often lie in our early childhood experiences and how they shape our adult relationships. Join me as I unpack this fascinating topic and share insights from my years of experience helping couples navigate t…
In this episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," we're exploring the topic of understanding the pain of the betrayed partner and the betrayer which are from the first module …
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In this episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," we're exploring the topic of understanding the pain of the betrayed partner and the betrayer which are from the first module of my newest program, "Healing Infidelity from the Inside Out." This isn't just another relationship guide – it's the culmination of years of experience helping thousands of couples navigate the treacherous waters of betrayal and come out stronger on the other side.Here's what you can expect from this episode:• Gain insight into the emotional rollercoaster both the betrayed and…
Hey there, it's Todd Creager, and I'm excited to dive into a topic that's close to my heart and crucial for healthy relationships: conflict avoidance in marriage. In this episode, we&ap…
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Hey there, it's Todd Creager, and I'm excited to dive into a topic that's close to my heart and crucial for healthy relationships: conflict avoidance in marriage. In this episode, we're going to explore how our childhood experiences shape the way we handle (or avoid) conflict in our adult relationships.Here's what you can expect from this eye-opening discussion:Discover why conflict avoidance is at the root of many relationship issues, from low sexual desire to infidelityUncover how your family's approach to emotions and conflict might be influencing your current …
Welcome, dear listeners! Todd Creager here, ready to dive into a topic that's crucial for every relationship but often swept under the rug. In this episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, an…
Welcome, dear listen…
Welcome, dear listeners! Todd Creager here, ready to dive into a topic that's crucial for every relationship but often swept under the rug. In this episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," we're exploring the surprising connection between conflict avoidance and physical intimacy. As a couples therapist, I've seen firsthand how avoiding tough conversations can put a damper on your sex life. But don't worry – I'm here to help you understand why this happens and what you can do about it!Tune in to discover:• The hidden intimacy killer that might b…
Welcome to another episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." Today, we're diving into a topic that's close to my heart: "Lessons Learned From 40 Years of Marriage." Wheth…
Welcome to another e…
Welcome to another episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." Today, we're diving into a topic that's close to my heart: "Lessons Learned From 40 Years of Marriage." Whether you're newlyweds or have been together for decades, this episode is packed with insights that can help strengthen your relationship.Here's what you'll gain from tuning in:Real-Life Wisdom: Learn from my personal experiences and the invaluable lessons I've gathered over four decades of marriage.Communication Tips: Discover effective communication strategies that can help yo…
Welcome to "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," where we dive deep into the complexities of human relationships. I'm Todd Creager, and in this episode, we're exploring a powerf…
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Welcome to "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," where we dive deep into the complexities of human relationships. I'm Todd Creager, and in this episode, we're exploring a powerful communication strategy known as "The Disarming Technique." Whether you're navigating a romantic relationship, a friendship, or a professional connection, this technique can be a game-changer.Here’s what you’ll gain from tuning in:- Learn how to defuse tense situations and foster open, honest communication.- Discover practical steps to implement the Disarming Technique in your everyday …
Hey there! Welcome to another episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I'm your host, Todd Creager, and today we're diving into a topic that affects many couples: low se…
Hey there! Welcome t…
Hey there! Welcome to another episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I'm your host, Todd Creager, and today we're diving into a topic that affects many couples: low sexual desire. Whether you're experiencing this yourself or supporting a partner through it, this episode is for you.In this candid discussion, you'll discover:• The surprising physical factors that can impact your libido, from hormones to medications• How past traumas and Stress can affect your sex drive (and what to do about it)• The crucial link between emotional connection and se…
Hey there! Welcome to another episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I'm your host, Todd Creager. In this episode, we dive deep into how trauma can affect your intimate rel…
Hey there! Welcome t…
Hey there! Welcome to another episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I'm your host, Todd Creager. In this episode, we dive deep into how trauma can affect your intimate relationships and what you can do to heal and build stronger connections.Understand Trauma's Impact: Learn how different types of trauma can influence intimacy and trust in your relationship.Healing Techniques: Discover effective methods like EMDR Therapy to process and overcome past traumas.Enhance Communication: Get tips on how to communicate openly and honestly with your partner to strengthen…
Welcome to a profoundly insightful episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," hosted by me, Todd Creager. Infidelity can shatter the foundations of the strongest relationships, leav…
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Welcome to a profoundly insightful episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," hosted by me, Todd Creager. Infidelity can shatter the foundations of the strongest relationships, leaving behind a trail of doubt, hurt, and mistrust. However, it's not the end of the road. In this episode, we delve deep into the heartache and, more importantly, the healing journey of couples who have navigated the tumultuous aftermath of infidelity. Join me as we explore not just the possibility of surviving infidelity but thriving beyond it.In this episode, you'll discover:Hope in Num…
Welcome to another heartfelt episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I’m your host, Todd Creager, and today, we're diving deep into the tender yet tumultuous waters of res…
Welcome to another h…
Welcome to another heartfelt episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I’m your host, Todd Creager, and today, we're diving deep into the tender yet tumultuous waters of restoring sexual intimacy after the storm of infidelity has hit. It’s a sensitive, complex topic, and whether you’ve experienced this personally or know someone who has, this episode is crafted to shed light on the path to healing and reconnection.In this episode, you’ll discover:Understanding the Impact: Learn how betrayal can vary widely in its impact on intimacy from one couple to another, a…