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The Mentor Project mentor and CEO of Critical Path Securities, Patrick Kelley, wrote this blog.Stories from the roadThe Right Side of 40 is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts a…

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The Mentor Project mentor and CEO of Critical Path Securities, Patrick Kelley, wrote this blog.Stories from the roadThe Right Side of 40 is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber.The hardest battles are the ones you fight against your own mind. I met someone on the road recently who shared a part of her story that left me deeply moved. She spoke about her struggles, her scars, and the war she’s waged within herself.As we spoke at the end of a talk, she kept pulling her sleeves down. When I asked if s…

The Mentorship Edge launches today. The Mentorship EdgePlease let me know your thoughts and comments. Writing this book has been a true labor of love.The Right Side of 40 is a reader-supported pub…

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The Mentorship Edge launches today. The Mentorship EdgePlease let me know your thoughts and comments. Writing this book has been a true labor of love.The Right Side of 40 is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber.Chapter 1: We Are Built to MentorAt birth we begin an emotional journey that propels us from the vulnerability of infancy, where we rely on trust in those who care for us, to the autonomy of childhood, where we eagerly embrace new experiences and master skills. This climb continues from adolescence,…

Mentorship holds incredible potential for personal Growth and development, not only by providing guidance but also by facilitating the sharing of Wisdom, experience, and a supportive network. Through …

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Mentorship holds incredible potential for personal growth and development, not only by providing guidance but also by facilitating the sharing of wisdom, experience, and a supportive network. Through mentoring, we can gain insights from those who have journeyed before us, opening doors to new possibilities and sparking growth in ways we may not have imagined.Gaining Wisdom and ExperienceMentors are like guideposts on the journey of life. They share valuable knowledge and insights, helping us learn from their successes and mistakes. A great example is The Mentor Project, an organization that …

One of the most rewarding realizations in life is that the end of a career doesn’t mean the end of our impact. For Bill Cheswick, a pioneering tech expert who helped shape the digital world, men…

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One of the most rewarding realizations in life is that the end of a career doesn’t mean the end of our impact. For Bill Cheswick, a pioneering tech expert who helped shape the digital world, mentorship has become the key to staying relevant, engaged, and deeply useful well beyond his years at Bell Labs. His story, shared in The Mentorship Edge, captures the essence of what it means to be on the right side of 40—remaining curious, staying active, and finding purpose through sharing hard-earned knowledge.Staying Useful After "Retirement"Bill’s experience speaks to something m…

As we journey through life, the financial landscape changes significantly, especially as we approach midlife and beyond. This period, typically defined as the years between 40 and 60, is often marked …

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As we journey through life, the financial landscape changes significantly, especially as we approach midlife and beyond. This period, typically defined as the years between 40 and 60, is often marked by increased financial responsibilities and the need to prepare for the future. Understanding the unique financial challenges and opportunities that come with aging is crucial to maintaining stability and peace of mind. This article explores key financial considerations for those in midlife and aging, offering strategies to navigate this important life stage.1. Retirement Planning: A Central Foc…

Photo by Ron Lach : https://www.pexels.com/photo/man-typing-on-computer-which-is-tied-with-a-tape-9830809/When I was asked to teach the Psychology of Prejudice, I wondered how to create a course tha…

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Photo by Ron Lach : https://www.pexels.com/photo/man-typing-on-computer-which-is-tied-with-a-tape-9830809/When I was asked to teach the Psychology of Prejudice, I wondered how to create a course that could talk about bias in a way everyone could understand. The search didn’t take long. I looked to myself. And ageism.The Right Side of 40 is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber.We are all ageists. We are unconsciously and consciously biased against older adults, who are our future selves. Let that sink i…

The saying "actions speak louder than words" is particularly relevant when examining societal attitudes toward aging. There is often a disconnect between what people say and do, revealing an underlyin…

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The saying "actions speak louder than words" is particularly relevant when examining societal attitudes toward aging. There is often a disconnect between what people say and do, revealing an underlying ambivalence with their beliefs. This inconsistency is evident in everyday behaviors, like health and wellness commitments. Many people talk about the importance of maintaining a healthy Lifestyle, emphasizing the need for regular Exercise and a balanced Diet while skipping workouts and eating unhealthy food. This inconsistency between advocating for health and failing to practice healthy habits …

I’ve been working for years on learning about the theory behind what makes us want to mentor. The journey began a couple of decades ago, before anyone was talking about mentorship. My book, The …

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I’ve been working for years on learning about the theory behind what makes us want to mentor. The journey began a couple of decades ago, before anyone was talking about mentorship. My book, The Mentorship Edge, helps readers understand how to get maximum impact from mentorship - hierarchical and lateral.Subscribe now“For years, I'd worked with older adults in psychiatric hospitals, Nursing homes, and home health care. Pathology was the norm in what I was researching and seeing daily. I had to wrench myself away from that focus and return to my developmental psychology roots, …

Here is a riddle:What do we absorb in childhood, learn through experience in adulthood, and master in late life?Answer: GuardianshipPhoto by Quang Nguyen Vinh: https://www.pexels.com/photo/statue-…

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Here is a riddle:What do we absorb in childhood, learn through experience in adulthood, and master in late life?Answer: GuardianshipPhoto by Quang Nguyen Vinh: https://www.pexels.com/photo/statue-of-chinese-guardian-lion-10615829/We Are Built to Be GuardiansImagine if you didn’t have a guardian. Would you be the person you are today? Likely not. Guardians don't just secure our physical well-being and support us emotionally—they provide the wisdom passed down from generations. We all had someone who shaped our journey, and in turn, we all become that guiding light for others.S…

Subscribe nowDo you dread retirement? Many people view retirement as the end of their careers and a loss of identity. Despite looking forward to it from a young age, it is often perceived as "jumpin…

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Subscribe nowDo you dread retirement? Many people view retirement as the end of their careers and a loss of identity. Despite looking forward to it from a young age, it is often perceived as "jumping off a cliff," inducing panic or a sense of loss. However, retirement doesn't have to be daunting. It is a significant opportunity for growth and fulfillment.Research shows that by our 50s, 60s, and 70s, we are at our happiest (AARP, 2018). At this developmental stage, we are inclined to care for others without expecting anything in return (Ehlman, 2012). This means we have a wealth of experien…

Will you be accompanying your child to college this summer? Or perhaps your child is graduating from college this summer and you are officially becoming an empty nester.   What conversations will…

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Will you be accompanying your child to college this summer? Or perhaps your child is graduating from college this summer and you are officially becoming an empty nester.   What conversations will you and your spouse have while sitting around the dining table, just you two alone or you by yourself? How do you perceive your life evolving? The Right Side of 40 is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber.First and foremost, congratulations on guiding your child to the milestone of college age. You have proba…

Photo by dabatepatfotos: https://www.pexels.com/photo/empty-nest-on-tree-7581966/As the last chick leaves the nest, the transition into empty nest hood brings a myriad of emotions and adjustments. W…

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Photo by dabatepatfotos: https://www.pexels.com/photo/empty-nest-on-tree-7581966/As the last chick leaves the nest, the transition into empty nest hood brings a myriad of emotions and adjustments. While it's natural to continue supporting your children financially, this stage also presents a prime opportunity to reassess and prioritize your own financial future. Embracing this new chapter involves striking a delicate balance between nurturing your children's financial needs and securing your own long-term stability and prosperity.The Right Side of 40 is a reader-supported publication. To r…