Looking back, my heart got too big when I was coaching. I could rationalize poor behavior that I said I would not accept, because I cared for the kid and wanted to impact their life. If I am being mor…
Looking back, my hea…
Looking back, my heart got too big when I was coaching. I could rationalize poor behavior that I said I would not accept, because I cared for the kid and wanted to impact their life. If I am being more brutally honest, I think at times I rationalized most when the player was really good. Sometimes this was only an internal struggle. Other times I made decisions in a way that violated our standards.It usually did not look like a decision at all. A kid I depended on would cut a corner on something I had told the whole team mattered, and I would find a way not to see it. I would turn to talk to a…

