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Today, we are talking about step #3 of the 3 steps to help you achieve your goals sooner rather than later, which is to: Don't Procrastinate. The successful person doesn’t typically procrastin…

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Today, we are talking about step #3 of the 3 steps to help you achieve your goals sooner rather than later, which is to: Don't Procrastinate. The successful person doesn’t typically procrastinate or procrastinate often.  Some have stated that dreaming or wishing is actually a form of procrastination, especially if no goals are being set to achieve a dream.  Once you have created an action plan, you have no reason to delay taking certain action.  You may find that once you start to put your plan into effect that your outlook on life may change.  When you have specific goals in mind …

Today, we are talking about the 2nd step to help you achieve your goals sooner rather than later, which is to: Set ‘Stretch’ Goals. Achieving one’s vision of success depends upon the setting an…

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Today, we are talking about the 2nd step to help you achieve your goals sooner rather than later, which is to: Set ‘Stretch’ Goals. Achieving one’s vision of success depends upon the setting and completion of ‘stretch’ goals.  A stretch goal is a realistic goal with a little more added to it for it to be a stretch.  I think stretch goals are a little more motivating and inspiring than goals that are ‘realistic.’  Stretch goals do not follow someone else’s idea of success, but only your own.  Set your goals on a long-term and short-term basis and work your way down to weekl…

Today, we are talking about the 1st step to help you achieve your goals sooner rather than later, which is to: Know the Difference between Dreaming and Doing. When a person claims that making a lot o…

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Today, we are talking about the 1st step to help you achieve your goals sooner rather than later, which is to: Know the Difference between Dreaming and Doing. When a person claims that making a lot of Money is his or her “goal”, they are not truly seeing the future.  A person who is “destined” for success, programs their own mind to achieve something remarkable and feasible.  A person that is motivated to achieve a goal does not think in terms of failure and winning.  (As in, I failed at becoming a millionaire.  So, it’s not meant to be) Rather, this person follows a set path to…

It’s so easy to set goals in life.  How many people actually take the time to set specific life goals?  Not many of us, unfortunately.  You want to make more money.  You want to enjoy more produ…

It’s so easy to se…

It’s so easy to set goals in life.  How many people actually take the time to set specific life goals?  Not many of us, unfortunately.  You want to make more money.  You want to enjoy more productive Relationships with friends and acquaintances.  You want to make a difference in the lives of others.  You want more responsibility in your career.  Unfortunately, while all of these goals are admirable, they are also very broad.  Most people fantasize about being rich, famous, and well liked.  However, these are not necessarily goals.  These are common images of success that the media …

I believe a good practice in life is to give up the excuses because they are just plain cop-outs. Creating the life you want simply begins with a choice - you choose to eliminate the “no longer acce…

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I believe a good practice in life is to give up the excuses because they are just plain cop-outs. Creating the life you want simply begins with a choice - you choose to eliminate the “no longer acceptables” in your life. Changing your life circumstances is that easy. You choose your desired reality instead of your current reality, and commit to doing whatever it takes in order to create it. While some people will live their entire life believing they are bound by their current circumstances, it does not have to be that way for you. There is no written law that says you have to live in fea…

I’m going to share 10 guidelines to help you change that old self-sabotaging record on the player that goes around in your head, and replace it with a melody you can play for the rest of your life.G…

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I’m going to share 10 guidelines to help you change that old self-sabotaging record on the player that goes around in your head, and replace it with a melody you can play for the rest of your life.Give yourself unconditional love, you deserve it.Challenge yourself to be better than even you believed possible.Focus on your strengths and work to eliminate or alter your weaknesses.Believe you can become whoever you want to be.Acknowledge that nobody has the power to make you feel inferior.Determine to become a better human being every single day.Acknowledge your achievements and give yourself a…

So, what if your Mom said you’d never amount to anything? Who cares if the school jock made you feel like a nerd?  What you have to remember is no matter what people have said about you in the pas…

So, what if your Mom…

So, what if your Mom said you’d never amount to anything? Who cares if the school jock made you feel like a nerd?  What you have to remember is no matter what people have said about you in the past, no matter how much you respected them or how much authority they carried, they are merely people – just like you. People with positive and negative human traits, people who sometimes feel insecure, lost, troubled, or alone – just like you. And even more importantly, whatever has happened in your life to make you doubt yourself is not the “truth”. Sure, your self-talk may have taken it …

The only way to change the record that spins around and around in your head, filling you with negativity, self-doubt, and shame is to learn to believe in yourself. Sure, it’s easier said than done,…

The only way to chan…

The only way to change the record that spins around and around in your head, filling you with negativity, self-doubt, and shame is to learn to believe in yourself. Sure, it’s easier said than done, you say. And yes, it is easy to say “believe in yourself”.  But who said life was easy anyway? Anything worth doing requires determination, self-discipline, and struggle. Taking the easy route will not land you on easy street! What is required is a new record to play over and over in your head. Something a little more upbeat, with inspiring lyrics, a great melody and above all, soul. The…

How Strong Is Your Belief? How Strong Does it Need to Be?~"It is the decisions you make, when you have no time to make them, that define who you are"~ What you believe about the world at large and ho…

How Strong Is Your B…

How Strong Is Your Belief? How Strong Does it Need to Be?~"It is the decisions you make, when you have no time to make them, that define who you are"~ What you believe about the world at large and how you fit into the general scheme of things will determine who you are and how you relate to the world you live in. Imagine for a moment little 8 year old Sarah spinning around in front of the mirror in the new pink dress her Mom has just bought her. Excitedly, she rushes in to show her Dad. “Daddy, do you like my new party dress?” she asks breathlessly. “Sweetheart, you look like a beaut…

Most of us intend to be efficient, but few of us actually are because we allow distractions to break our focus. When you are working on something that you have listed on your calendar, you want to foc…

Most of us intend to…

Most of us intend to be efficient, but few of us actually are because we allow distractions to break our focus. When you are working on something that you have listed on your calendar, you want to focus on that activity and that activity only. That means ignoring (at least for the time being) the blinking message light on your phone, the beep from your email inbox, or whatever else might distract you. Interruptions can be costly! When someone calls for you and your assistant puts the call through because they ask for you, is that a distraction? Yes! Your calendar should allow you time to retu…

Today we are talking about Tip #8 of the 8 tips to Maintain Persistence which is to: Pick a Support Team. You don’t have to do it alone. Gather a team of family and friends who you know you can cou…

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Today we are talking about Tip #8 of the 8 tips to Maintain Persistence which is to: Pick a Support Team. You don’t have to do it alone. Gather a team of family and friends who you know you can count on to offer you support and guidance when the going gets tough. There is nothing like a friendly pat on the back to keep you going when you feel you’ve given as much as you have to give. Which of these 8 tips, that we have explored over the past 8 days, will you apply or apply even better in your life, so you can achieve your goals in the time frame you desire? Pick one, two, or all of thes…

Today we are talking about Tip #7 to Maintain Persistence which is to: Believe in Yourself. Have faith in the fact you will achieve your goal, no matter what circumstances or situations arise. When t…

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Today we are talking about Tip #7 to Maintain Persistence which is to: Believe in Yourself. Have faith in the fact you will achieve your goal, no matter what circumstances or situations arise. When times get tough – and they usually will – keep your focus clear and don’t get bogged down in “I can’t” or “I won’t”. Don’t focus on what you should have done. Focus on what you need to do next to make progress on your goals.  Believe is one of my very favorite words. I think it has a lot of impact on us getting to where we want to go. Keep your belief in yourself and what you …

Today we are talking about Tip #6 to Maintain Persistence which is to: Think Creatively and Be Flexible. Often, we become so fixed on the goal, we forget that other options exist. Be prepared for the…

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Today we are talking about Tip #6 to Maintain Persistence which is to: Think Creatively and Be Flexible. Often, we become so fixed on the goal, we forget that other options exist. Be prepared for the fact that not only will the road to achieving your goals take a number of unexpected turns, the goal posts may shift too. Allow yourself to stay flexible and understand that what you originally envisioned may alter to become a fresher, more realistic outcome. The world continues to change at a very fast pace. To try and keep up, it sometimes feels like you are holding on in a wind tunnel. You ha…