Summary
In this conversation, Brian Tome, the founder and senior pastor of Crossroads church in Cincinnati, discusses the challenges faced by men in today’s culture and the need for a more masculine approach to spirituality. He addresses the issue of toxic masculinity, the loneliness epidemic among men, and the lack of male representation in the modern church. Brian shares his personal journey, the founding of Man Camp, and the importance of camaraderie and teamwork among men. The conversation covers the challenges men face in traditional church settings, the concept of man camp, the need for a spiritual awakening, and the importance of leadership and organization in the church. It also delves into the role of prayer and action in fostering an awakening.
Takeaways
- The modern church lacks a masculine approach to spirituality, leading to a lack of male representation and engagement.
- The loneliness epidemic among men is a significant issue that needs to be addressed, highlighting the need for camaraderie and teamwork.
- The concept of toxic masculinity and the challenges faced by men in today’s culture are important topics that require open and honest discussion. Traditional church settings may not always resonate with men, leading to the need for alternative approaches like man camp.
- A spiritual awakening is seen as necessary in the current cultural climate, and it requires a focus on prayer and organizational leadership.
- The concept of being a post-resurrection leader involves maturity, humility, and a reliance on the Holy Spirit for transformation and impact.
- The importance of organized leadership and the role of prayer in fostering a spiritual awakening are key themes in the conversation.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Background of Brian Tome
06:49 The Concept of Toxic Masculinity and Men’s Issues
13:57 The Role of Spirituality in Masculinity and Men’s Loneliness Epidemic
27:41 Navigating the Challenges of Traditional Church Settings
34.08 The Call for a Spiritual Awakening and the Role of Leadership
Places to find out more:
https://www.briantome.com/
https://www.mancamp.us/
Books:
Five Marks of a Man
Speaking:
https://www.briantome.com/speaking
I come from a large Italian family. I’m number seven in the line of ten kids!
When my dad passed away some years ago, I was fortunate enough to be there as the end was coming. I was standing just to the right of his hospital bed; he was lying there with his eyes closed. All of a sudden, Dad opens his eyes. He looks up at the ceiling with a look of peace – and maybe accomplishment – on his face. Then he closes his eyes for the last time. I guess out of instinct, I reached down and kissed him on that prickly cheek one last time. My dad left a legacy in that life well lived! A legacy based on three main principles: Family, Service, and Dedication. I do what I do to carry on that legacy to the best of my ability.
