Friends, I am still reeling from my conversation with Rebecca Yang ,my guest for this episode of Real Confidence. Wow. I mean, talk about an absolute powerhouse of a human being (not to mention being a skilled diplomat). The stories she shared about her experiences in Istanbul and during the Afghanistan evacuation had me hanging on every word.

I couldn’t help but be in awe of Rebecca’s journey. Here she was, a young diplomat thrown into some of the most intense situations imaginable, from surviving a coup attempt to orchestrating a massive evacuation from Afghanistan. And through it all, she never once faltered in her commitment to living her values.

It’s such a simple yet profound concept and one that clearly guided her through the toughest of times. It’s a reminder that confidence and resilience aren’t just traits we’re born with; they’re qualities we cultivate through experience and action.

I feel incredibly lucky to have had the chance to chat with Rebecca and share her story with all of you. It’s a reminder that no matter what challenges we face, it’s possible to come out on the other side stronger and more resilient than ever.

Highlights from our conversation include:

• Why living by your values is especially important in times of crisis when everything is uncertain and situations are fluid
• How being able to adapt to change and bounce back from setbacks is crucial for success in ever-changing environments.
• The importance of leading with empathy when $h!t is hitting the fan and how that impacts decision-making; and
• The relationship between mood and action and which one serves us best by coming first
• The ONE thing that most rocked her confidence is truly surprising! And you’ll have to listen in to hear what it was!

Rebecca Yang is an experienced Chief of Staff and Strategy and Operations leader with 17+ years of global experience, including as a U.S. diplomat for which she earned two U.S. State Department awards for her service. The best way to learn more about Rebecca is to connect with her on LinkedIn.

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