A terrific Broadway legend and one of my favorite actresses is serving as my blogging muse today. When I heard about Linda Lavin’s passing, my media source shared her rendition of “You’ve Got Possibilities” from the Broadway musical ” It’s a Bird. It’s a Plane. It’s Superman.” When I heard the lyrics, I thought that this song would make a great thinking prompt during this post-holiday “What’s next?” period.
Recognizing and realizing our possibilities involves several key aspects:
Self-awareness: Understanding our strengths, weaknesses, values, and passions allows us to see what opportunities align with our true selves.
Growth mindset: Embracing challenges and viewing failures as learning experiences opens up new pathways for Growth and potential.
Setting goals: Clearly defined, achievable goals help to focus our efforts and provide a roadmap for realizing our possibilities.
Openness to change: Being flexible and willing to adapt to new situations can lead to unexpected opportunities and greater fulfillment.
While every bullet point on this list is important, I believe “Growth Mindset” is the list’s superhero.
Our mindset acts like a film director and · Influences which internal script gets generated and selected. · Dictates how we cast our life’s characters aka (colleagues, clients etc.) · Impacts the roles we allow them to play. AND · Controls how we play our daily scenes.
Ponder this list and then scroll down to the comment section and let me know which possibilities you plan to champion this year!
Julienne Ryan Humorist, Speaker, Trainer, Facilitator, Coach
Julienne B. Ryan began her professional career at age five when she did TV commercials and learned important things like “the teamsters always eat first,” her social security number and how to endorse checks for bank deposit.
Ryan studied psychology in college because she wanted to understand humans. She conducted her “field work” in a variety of roles, hearing the phrases “merger synergies, reorganizations, downsizing and rightsizing for change” more times than she cares to mention.
Later she enrolled in an Ivy League graduate school where she paid oodles of money to validate her prior on-the-job learning experiences. However, she did learn to name drop up-to-date theories and trendy psychologists with alarming ease.
Ryan evolved into working in “Talent Management,” a fancy way of saying “try to find people and keep them moderately happy.” With inadequate budgets and staff allocations, she had to find creative ways to encourage her staff to work effectively. These ranged from begging and borrowing resources, improvising childcare, telling stories and even giving snacks as rewards. She tried to convince herself that working a bazillion hours and “multi-tasking” equaled achievement.
Her work took place in cubicles, conference rooms or, with luck, in offices with a door. Occasionally she would make the time to emerge from her allotted real estate to really talk to people. Ryan learned something transformative in the process:
Yes, she was effective. But not because she used fancy theories – or gave great snacks. Ryan’s success, her staff believed, was a result of her uncanny knack for weaving storytelling with humor to motivate and encourage them. Crucially, they encouraged Ryan to de-emphasize “that normal HR stuff” and focus on bringing her unique storytelling skills to a broader stage.
Thanks to them, Ryan continues to collect, connect and tell stories in her work helping people find their “true selves in the world of work.
She is the author of the humorous, all true "The Learned It In Queens Communications Playbook - Winning Against Distraction!".that now includes a workbook and is available at booksellers across the globe..
She is a guest contributor to The Procurement Foundry, LifeBlood, and the global storytelling community.