In this episode we're diving into a crucial topic in our healing infidelity journey – healing the betrayer. Now, I know what you might be thinking: “Why should we focus on the person who caused all this pain?” But trust me, it's a vital piece of the puzzle for true relationship restoration.

In this episode, we're going to explore:

• Why it's essential for the betrayer to move past shame and self-loathing to be present for their partner's healing

• How to create a safe environment for both partners to participate in the healing process

• The critical role of attachment styles in understanding and addressing infidelity

• Practical strategies, like journaling, to facilitate self-awareness and Growth for the betrayer

Here's why you won't want to miss this episode:

• Gain insights into the betrayer's perspective and emotional journey

• Learn how to foster empathy and understanding between both partners

• Discover tools to prevent future infidelity by addressing root causes

• Understand how healing the betrayer contributes to overall relationship repair

Remember, healing from infidelity is a journey for both partners. By tuning in to this episode, you'll gain valuable knowledge to help create a stronger, more resilient relationship. So join me as we explore this important topic and take another step towards healing infidelity from the inside out.

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Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFT

Todd is an infidelity expert with a 90% success rate and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship counseling to couples online and throughout Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.

You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.com

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Todd Creager Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFT

Todd Creager is a marriage and sex therapist who helps couples create loving and passionate long-term relationships. He also is well known for helping couples heal from infidelity. He attributes his success to his ability to understand and help the client understand the deeper factors that block love and connection and contribute to self-sabotage. This understanding is followed up by healing processes that can unleash the innate potential of each partner. He is certified in EMDR, a trauma treatment that helps people move on from past difficult memories. He is the author of the highly acclaimed book, The Long Hot Marriage, and the Amazon bestseller- Love, Sex and Karaoke- 52 ways to Ignite Your Love Life. He newest video program titled Healing Infidelity from the Inside Out is a powerful, relationship-shifting experience for couples who want to heal from this challenging crisis. He has been a guest on numerous news shows about marriage and passion, been a therapist on the Oprah Winfrey Network’s show- Unfaithful and been on Playboy radio as well as other media appearances. Lastly- for twelve years he was a professor at USC teaching graduate students in subjects such as Human Sexuality, Psychological Theory, Leadership and Diversity.