Welcome, everyone! In this episode of “Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity,” I'm diving deep into a topic that's close to my heart: how to create safe communication after infidelity. 

As someone who's worked with countless couples navigating this challenging terrain, I've gathered some powerful insights to share with you.

Here's what you can expect from this episode:

• Learn practical techniques to handle overwhelming emotions during difficult conversations

• Discover how to set realistic expectations for healing and avoid rushing back to “normal”

• Gain insights on balancing both partners' needs for expression and understanding

• Master the art of expressing hurt without pushing your partner away

• Understand how to deal with defensiveness and create a truly safe space for communication

Whether you're healing from infidelity or simply want to strengthen your relationship's communication, this episode is packed with valuable strategies. I'll guide you through the process of developing what I call “emotional muscle” – the ability to stay present and connected even when things get tough.

Join me as we explore the path to creating a new, stronger relationship foundation. 

Remember, it's not about getting back to normal – it's about building something even better. Tune in now and let's make the world safer for love, together.

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Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFT

Todd is an infidelity expert with a 90% success rate and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship counseling to couples online and throughout Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.

• You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.com

HELPFUL LINKS:

• Get your FREE copy of Healing Infidelity From The Inside Out https://www.toddcreagertraining.com/heal-infidelity 

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Todd Creager Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFT

Todd Creager is a marriage and sex therapist who helps couples create loving and passionate long-term relationships. He also is well known for helping couples heal from infidelity. He attributes his success to his ability to understand and help the client understand the deeper factors that block love and connection and contribute to self-sabotage. This understanding is followed up by healing processes that can unleash the innate potential of each partner. He is certified in EMDR, a trauma treatment that helps people move on from past difficult memories. He is the author of the highly acclaimed book, The Long Hot Marriage, and the Amazon bestseller- Love, Sex and Karaoke- 52 ways to Ignite Your Love Life. He newest video program titled Healing Infidelity from the Inside Out is a powerful, relationship-shifting experience for couples who want to heal from this challenging crisis. He has been a guest on numerous news shows about marriage and passion, been a therapist on the Oprah Winfrey Network’s show- Unfaithful and been on Playboy radio as well as other media appearances. Lastly- for twelve years he was a professor at USC teaching graduate students in subjects such as Human Sexuality, Psychological Theory, Leadership and Diversity.