88. Tim Fletcher – You're Not Broken: The Truth About Complex Trauma
- 88. Tim Fletcher - You're Not Broken: The Truth About Complex Trauma Lisa Tickel 1:35:43
In this insightful and deeply moving episode of the Healing and Growing Hand in Hand Podcast, I sit down with Tim Fletcher, a global speaker, counselor, and researcher specializing in complex trauma (C-PTSD). Tim shares his remarkable journey from pastoral Burnout to becoming a leading voice in trauma recovery, emphasizing the profound impact of complex trauma on Mental Health, Relationships, and overall well-being.
Key Discussion Points:
– Tim’s Journey: Tim discusses his personal and professional journey into the world of complex trauma, starting from his days as a pastor, through his own battles with Depression and Anxiety, to becoming a counselor at addiction treatment centers. His experiences led him to realize that many addicts were struggling with underlying complex trauma, a revelation that changed the course of his career.
– Understanding Complex Trauma: Tim provides a comprehensive overview of what complex trauma is, distinguishing between “Big T” traumas (like abuse or accidents) and “Little T” traumas (like emotional neglect). He explains how childhood experiences of neglect or abuse create deep, lasting wounds that manifest in maladaptive coping mechanisms in adulthood.
– The Impact of Complex Trauma on Behavior: Tim and Lisa discuss common behaviors associated with complex trauma, such as people-pleasing, perfectionism, difficulty setting boundaries, and the overwhelming feelings of shame and self-loathing that often accompany these behaviors. – Tim emphasizes the importance of recognizing these as survival mechanisms that once served a purpose but are now causing harm.
– Healing from Complex Trauma: Tim highlights the long, often difficult journey of healing from complex trauma. He stresses the importance of Education, emotional regulation, and the necessity of safe relationships.
– Tools for Recovery: The episode delves into practical tools for managing triggers, regulating emotions, and slowly rewiring the brain to respond in healthier ways.
– Breaking the Cycle of Trauma: One of the most powerful messages in this episode is the hope that healing is possible. Tim shares how breaking the cycle of trauma not only transforms individuals but also stops the generational transmission of trauma, offering a brighter future for children and families.
About Tim:
Tim Fletcher is the Founder and President of RE/ACT (Recovery Education for Addictions and Complex Trauma). Originally an engineer, Tim transitioned into pastoral work before becoming a counselor specializing in complex trauma and addiction. Through his research and hands-on experience, Tim has developed groundbreaking tools and resources to help individuals understand and heal from the deep wounds of complex trauma.
If you or someone you know is struggling with the effects of complex trauma, don’t hesitate to seek help. Visit Tim Fletcher’s website to learn more about his LIFT program and other resources that can guide you on your healing journey. Remember, you’re not alone, and healing is possible.
Connect with Tim Fletcher:
Website:
https://www.timfletcher.ca
YouTube:
https://www.youtube.com/TimFletcher
Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/timfletcherco
Facebook:
https://www.facebook.com/TimFletcherCo
TikTok:
@timfletcher_co
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Keywords: Complex Trauma, CPTSD, Mental Health, Trauma Recovery, Addiction, Healing Journey, Tim Fletcher, Podcast Episode, Trauma Healing
