Thursday - December 12th, 2024
Apple News
×

What can we help you find?

Open Menu
December 12th, 2024

Episode 103 – Rob Fenstermaker – Rooted in Resilience: Rob Fenstermaker on Overcoming Anger, Building Stronger Connections, and Finding Purpose.

  1. Episode 103 - Rob Fenstermaker - Rooted in Resilience: Rob Fenstermaker on Overcoming Anger, Building Stronger Connections, and Finding Purpose. Drew Deraney 28:42

Here’s what you’ll learn about:

Personal Growth and overcoming anger through support from other men. (0:09)

  • Host Drew Deraney praises Guest Rob Fenstermaker for being a “strong man” and discusses the importance of building stronger men in society.
  • Rob Fenstermaker has experienced different stages of self-awareness, from blindness to taking control of life.
  • Rob ‘s defining moment came when he realized he had to let go of anger in his marriage.
  • He shares his personal journey of overcoming anger and loneliness by connecting with other men through support groups and deepening Relationships.
  • Rob emphasizes the importance of intertwining roots with other men to support each other and stand tall, just like giant redwood trees.

Men’s personal growth through connections and listening. (6:31)

  • Men often isolate themselves due to societal expectations, but finding others who share similar experiences can lead to personal growth and connection.

Building trust and respect in marriage through open communication and shared experiences. (8:36)

  • Rob shares his personal story of overcoming anger in marriage.
  • He noticed improvement in respect and fulfillment after addressing anger.
  • Building trust and knowing personal truths are essential for a strong marriage.

Corporate Burnout and identity crisis in the workplace. (12:33)

  • Rob discusses corporate burnout, feeling disengaged and struggling with identity crisis.
  • He shares his epiphany moment, realizing significance comes before success.
  • Entrepreneurship offers freedom, but also new challenges, such as maintaining identity and avoiding corporate mindset.

Entrepreneurship, time management, and personal growth. (16:53)

  • Rob realized the importance of owning their calendar and making time for themselves.
  • He emphasized the value of appreciation and living in the present moment.

Finding Clarity and purpose in life despite challenges and obstacles. (19:34)

  • Rob discusses the comparison game and understanding wants vs needs.
  • He helps people get out of ruts and build solid foundations for their goals.

 

To learn more about Rob’s mission, go to his LinkedIn profile at https://www.linkedin.com/in/robfenstermaker/ 

 Or his website at http://robfenstermaker.com/ 

 

Rob’s Bio: Rob Fenstermaker

While trying to navigate the “American Dream,” Rob had given over the power of his life to a corporate identity of a 9-5 existence. That identity extracted its pound of the flesh daily. He believed control over his life was non-existent, and he was tired, burned out, and searching for meaning. 

A corporate Downsizing was the final straw, and he knew it was time for a radical change. He allowed someone whom he trusted to speak into his life. He was coached on the possibility of what it meant to live his life to its fullest, and a bridge was built. 

Rob saw that his most significant pain could now be his crown. He created a new belief system that empowered him to regain power over his life. Rob now encourages men to break down their castle walls and build a bridge leading to their Kingdom as they discover a life of Empowerment.

 

About your host: I’m Drew Deraney, the proud father of three children. For most of my life I’ve been concerned with what people thought of me and how I was supposed to act. I learned not to be my authentic self and instead became a people pleaser, a man wearing a mask.

In a 9-month span a few years ago, I endured four faith-shaking life events that caused me to question my existence.

I became determined to find a better way to live. Through intense self-reflection and awareness, I realized that in order to be happy, I must adhere to my standards of honesty, integrity and truth and needed to break free from the belief system that was anchored in me for close to 50 years.

I found my purpose and my mission in life. I’ve now become the man I know I am meant to be. My mission is empowering men ready to make a change to do the same.

My men’s group and one-on-one Coaching provide a safe space for men to share, without judgement, and transform. My male clients learn to release their inner greatness and stop self-sabotage, the #1 roadblock keeping them from reaching their goals.

 

HOW TO CONNECT WITH COACH DREW:

Website: https://profitcompassion.com/

Email: drew@profitcompassion.com

Book a Coaching Discovery Call: https://link.mavericksystems.online/widget/bookings/netweaving/connect30

Pick up a copy of Drew’s book: https://amzn.to/40dsbyR

Drew Deraney Mindset Mastery Coach (Life Coach with a Twist)

Drew Deraney now travels the world both to Live and Virtual Events showing mostly men the steps needed to strengthen self-identity and self-worth, to overcome self-limiting beliefs, and to build confidence while being authentic, maintaining boundaries and to transcend people pleasing skills to become the person they are destined to be. Drew challenges them to reach deep inside and make a lasting impact.

In a 9-month span, Drew experienced a grueling divorce, job loss, his son’s suicidal ideations, and his father’s death which devastated Drew emotionally, mentally, physically, and spiritually. It is a commonality for men to consider any challenge as a weakness as well as to show emotion and ask for help. While writing his book, Drew realized he was not the only man suffering in silence. With more clarity of purpose than ever, he began asking for help. Drew Deraney’s mission is to help especially men, release their inner greatness by showing vulnerability, keeping in integrity of their power, and making a great impact on the people in their lives both personally and professionally.

Drew Deraney was born in Brooklyn, NY and raised in Ho-Ho-Kus, NJ where he still lives to this day caring for his elderly mom and his 3 adult children Matthew, Nicholas, and Emma. Drew earned his B.A. in Psychology, M.A. in Applied Psychology, and two psychology research publications while at Fairfield University; a scholarship from the Healthcare Financial Management Association; and his M.B.A. in Health Care Administration from Baruch College / Mount Sinai School of Medicine in NY. His hospital career spanned 24 years where he was co-chair of the Leadership Institute, spoke at JD Power, was one of three leaders interviewed by The Commonwealth Fund, received his Communicating with Empathy Trainer certification and is a Certified Patient Experience Professional. Four years ago, Drew founded Profit Compassion LLC, an entity to coach and empower mostly men to create resiliency and authenticity as Chief Resilience Officer. Drew is the podcast host of ‘From Caving in to Crushing It’ and recently became a best-selling author with his book ‘I’ll Have What She’s Having’ - Memoir of a reformed People Pleaser.

Contributors

Show More

Keep Up To Date With Our Latest Baby Boomer News & Offers!

Sign Up for Our FREE Newsletter

Name(Required)
This field is for validation purposes and should be left unchanged.

(( NEW ))