In this episode of EZ Conversations, Furkhan sits down with educator, Family coach, and positive psychology practitioner Marcus Aurelius Higgs for a wide-ranging conversation about how we raise, teach, and guide the next generation. Marcus — calling in from the rural Bahamas — brings a grounded, research-backed perspective shaped by his work with international families, his background in Education, and his personal philosophy rooted in service.
The conversation moves through gratitude practices, the science of hope, the pressure on men to define themselves solely as providers, adolescent identity formation, the four S framework for secure families, the role of social media in shaping young people’s self-narratives, and how to cultivate a persistent sense of purpose in children and teens. Marcus closes with three principles of privilege and a Meditation on writing your story — even if the audience is only one person.
M. Aurelius Higgs is the founder of ParentWise, a Coaching community that helps mothers of cross-cultural teenagers stay a secure base for their children through his 4S Secure Family Framework: Safe, Seen, Soothed, and Before building ParentWise, Marcus spent more than twenty years as an ELA educator in international schools across South Korea, Spain, Saudi Arabia, Thailand, and the Bahamas — watching how a teen’s well-being rises and falls with the Security they feel at home. A multicultural writer shaped by his upbringing across Alabama and California, and by Filipino and Bahamian cultures, he is a published poet and co-author of the YA novel ‘Coming Home to Who You Are.’ His core conviction: secure parents create secure teens.Sovereign Expression.
Key resources mentioned:
— Dan Siegel, Parenting From the Inside Out
— Rick Snyder, hope theory and positive psychology
— The Courage to Be Disliked (Adlerian psychology)
— The Value Creation Kid (building value systems in the home)
— The Sum of Us (racial economics and the commons)
Find Marcus: getparentwise.com | LinkedIn: Marcus Aurelius Higgs
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Disclaimer: The content shared on this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and should not be considered therapy, counselling, or clinical advice. Listening to this podcast does not establish a therapist–client relationship. The views expressed are my own and are separate from my clinical practice.
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