Caring for My American Dad in Peru: An Alzheimer's Caregiving Odyssey
- Caring for My American Dad in Peru: An Alzheimer's Caregiving Odyssey AlzAuthors 1:11:30
Barbara Drake-Vera’s caregiving journey in Peru, caring for her American father with Alzheimer’s, is a unique and eye-opening story that sheds light on cultural differences in elder care. While Barbara lived in Lima, Peru with her Peruvian husband, her widowed father was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s. He lived in a four-bedroom home he previously shared with his late wife in Florida, USA, and it was soon determined he could not live alone at home.
As the only child, Barbara felt compelled to come to his assistance. She knew that elder care was manageable and affordable in Lima, where multigenerational families living together was the norm. So, she and her husband made the unconventional decision to move her dad to Peru to be cared for in their home. This was a radical change for him, a proud and independent American man, World War II veteran, and former postal worker in his eighties. Together, they navigated the cultural nuances of caregiving within a Latin community that, in spite of their challenges, led to success.
Barbara, the author of Melted Away: A Memoir of Climate Change and Caregiving in Peru,had had a difficult relationship with her father for many years, but this caregiving journey helped heal old wounds.
Quotes
“Caring for someone with dementia can be a real gift, but you don’t think of it at the time because you’re just trying to get through each day.” – Barbara Drake-Vera
“I decided to be compassionate. It wasn’t forgiveness, but I chose not to let the past be my present.” – Barbara Drake-Vera
“My father, who was a self-absorbed, narcissistic jerk, was never such a nice person as when he was finally treated for Alzheimer’s and cared for in Peru.” – Barbara Drake-Vera
In this episode, you will:
- Explore the impact of cultural differences in elder care and learn how diverse perspectives can enrich the caregiving experience for individuals with Alzheimer’s.
- Discover the benefits of multigenerational living for Alzheimer’s caregiving and how it can positively influence the well-being of both the individual with Alzheimer’s and the caregivers.
- Learn effective strategies for transitioning elders with Alzheimer’s to new environments and understand the importance of creating a supportive and familiar space for them.
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