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Valerie Borgman Consultant, National Speaker & Host

Get help navigating the senior living industry! Valerie Lynn Borgman has been helping families find assisted living, memory care and other resources since 2015 through her consulting company, Clear Path Senior Living Solutions. She's a Certified Senior Advisor, a Certified Referral and Placement Specialist, Speaker & Host of the Podcast Desperately Seeking Senior Living. In an industry with NO required certifications she holds 2.

Thousands of families and those working in the senior living industry have listened in to her podcast. Her guests include authors, influencers, film producers, CEO's and families just like yours!

Let Valerie and her guests help you go from desperate to doable!

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Ep 151 Family Talk With Guest Ginni Ryan: Hospice, Family Dynamics, Guardianship &Amp; Self Care &Raquo; Cover Art7Lpty
EP 151 Family Talk with Guest Ginni Ryan: Hospice, Family Dynamics, Guardianship & Self Care

I was so excited to welcome back Ginni Ryan, who worked in the senior living industry has for over 25 years. She is currently with Revel Communities. We had such a great conversation in my previou…

I was so excited to …

I was so excited to welcome back Ginni Ryan, who worked in the senior living industry has for over 25 years. She is currently with Revel Communities. We had such a great conversation in my previous episode, about making that move to an independent living community and how difficult the decision can be, but also all the benefits of making the move. It’s a really great episode so be sure to check it out if you haven’t already. This was one of those interviews that ended up being an interview inside an interview and that was because Ginni started sharing her own personal experiences w…

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Ep 150 Why Independent Living? With Guest Ginni Ryan &Raquo; Cover Art7Lpty
EP 150 Why Independent Living? With Guest Ginni Ryan

I’m so excited to welcome Ginni Ryan, the Vice President of Operations for Revel Communities. At Revel Communities, Ginni is responsible for the operations of the entire portfolio of independent liv…

I’m so excited to …

I’m so excited to welcome Ginni Ryan, the Vice President of Operations for Revel Communities. At Revel Communities, Ginni is responsible for the operations of the entire portfolio of independent living communities. She has over 25 years of experience in senior living and over the course of her career, Ginni has developed a deep understanding of the needs and desires of the senior population. She uses her experience to design actionable, innovative strategies to help achieve not only company goals but to improve the lives of seniors.  I always love having industry professionals on the show b…

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Ep 149 Should I Give My Phone Number To The Senior Living Communities I Call &Amp; Tour? &Raquo; Cover Art7Lpty
EP 149 Should I Give My Phone Number to the Senior Living Communities I Call & Tour?

You’re struggling to manage caring for mom or dad. You’re juggling work, trying to manage the dwindling finances that are necessary to care for your Aging parent or loved one and the pressure of i…

You’re struggling …

You’re struggling to manage caring for mom or dad. You’re juggling work, trying to manage the dwindling finances that are necessary to care for your aging parent or loved one and the pressure of it all is dizzying. The push to answer questions and make decisions you’re not ready to make can leave you feeling boxed into a corner. And why won’t the phone stop ringing!? In this episode, we're answering a simple question that can have big consequences. Should you give out your phone number when you call or tour a senior living community? Listen in... because the answer could help you go f…

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Ep 148 Dementia In Public, Caregiver Isolation &Amp; Caring For The Caregiver &Raquo; Cover Art7Lpty
EP 148 Dementia in Public, Caregiver Isolation & Caring for the Caregiver

Whether it’s a grocery store, a family gathering, or even the doctor’s office—when your mom doesn’t quite act like she used to or dad begins to get agitated, it’s difficult, it’s heartbrea…

Whether it’s a gro…

Whether it’s a grocery store, a family gathering, or even the doctor’s office—when your mom doesn’t quite act like she used to or dad begins to get agitated, it’s difficult, it’s heartbreaking, and it can leave you not only feeling overwhelmed and anxious but also like maybe you should just stay home. In this episode, I'm outlining strategies for a successful outing and addressing the isolation that can come when staying home feels like the better option. No judgement here! Just ideas and tips for taking care of you... the caregiver.     CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FU…

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Ep 147 Don'T Wait For The Money To Run Out: Finances &Amp; Senior Living &Raquo; Cover Art7Lpty
EP 147 Don't Wait for the Money to Run Out: Finances & Senior Living

In this episode, I tackle the financial challenges families face with senior care, stressing the importance of early planning to avoid future Stress. With assisted living costs averaging $4,500 a mont…

In this episode, I t…

In this episode, I tackle the financial challenges families face with senior care, stressing the importance of early planning to avoid future stress. With assisted living costs averaging $4,500 a month, many are blindsided by the expenses. Open conversations about finances and seeking help from financial advisors or elder law attorneys can make a significant difference. Remember, proactive planning not only provides peace of mind but also ensures your loved ones receive the care they deserve. Hopefully this episode makes your journey a little more doable!   CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD …

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Ep 146 How Do I Convince My Mom To Leave Her Home? &Raquo; Cover Art7Lpty
EP 146 How Do I Convince my Mom to Leave Her Home?

You KNOW your mom or dad isn't safe at home alone but they are refusing to leave their home so what are you supposed to do when you truly believe it’s what’s best? In this episode, we’re explori…

You KNOW your mom or…

You KNOW your mom or dad isn't safe at home alone but they are refusing to leave their home so what are you supposed to do when you truly believe it’s what’s best? In this episode, we’re exploring one of the most difficult conversations many of us will face: convincing your mom or dad, to leave their home and transition to senior living.   CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES   Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips!   Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! We can help with your search for senior living & care wherever you live! www.…

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Ep 145 Death Is Not A Dirty Word! With Special Guest Hospice Nurse Penny &Raquo; Cover Art7Lpty
EP 145 Death is Not a Dirty Word! With Special Guest Hospice Nurse Penny

No one wants to talk about or even think about senior living and care and I think that goes double for death and dying. I’m so excited to welcome Penny Hawkins Smith to the show. She’s a nationall…

No one wants to talk…

No one wants to talk about or even think about senior living and care and I think that goes double for death and dying. I’m so excited to welcome Penny Hawkins Smith to the show. She’s a nationally certified Hospice & palliative care registered nurse with over 17 years of experience. You may know her as Hospice Nurse Penny on YouTube, TikTok, Instagram and Facebook where Penny is working to dispel the mysteries around dying and the stigma of hospice. In this episode we get real about Hospice and senior living! 36:20 Questions to ask when you interview Hospice 42:50 Existential Suffering 45…

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Ep 144 The Assisted Living Community Said They Would Take Medicaid When We Need It And Now They'Re Saying No? &Raquo; Cover Art7Lpty
EP 144 The Assisted Living Community Said They Would Take Medicaid When We Need it and Now They're Saying No?

You toured a few assisted living communities …you were very up front with all of them about the Money situation. The community your mom chose said don’t worry! When your mom runs out of money, we…

You toured a few ass…

You toured a few assisted living communities …you were very up front with all of them about the money situation. The community your mom chose said don’t worry! When your mom runs out of money, we’ll take Medicaid. No Problem! Until it was a BIG problem. I can’t believe how many times this has happened to my clients and families I’ve met over the years. How is it possible that so many families are having the same experience? In this episode we're exploring some of these stories, discussing why it would be happening and what you can do about it.   CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD wi…

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Ep 143 Is The Assisted Living Nurse Assessment A Test? Could Your Loved One Fail? &Raquo; Cover Art7Lpty
EP 143 Is the Assisted Living Nurse Assessment a Test? Could your Loved one Fail?

Are they going to let my mom in? Is there anything that could come up that would make the community not take my dad? My mom is really nervous. She’s afraid she won’t pass the test. These are all s…

Are they going to le…

Are they going to let my mom in? Is there anything that could come up that would make the community not take my dad? My mom is really nervous. She’s afraid she won’t pass the test. These are all statements I’ve heard from families when it comes to the assisted living nurse assessment. While the nurse assessment may be a requirement and yes there are lots of questions…is it a test? Could your loved one fail? Don't miss this episode!   CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES   Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips!   Need help finding senior living or care? BE…

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Ep 142 What'S Love Got To Do With Assisted Living &Amp; Memory Care? &Raquo; Cover Art7Lpty
EP 142 What's Love got to do with Assisted Living & Memory Care?

I’ve often heard families say that moving their mom or dad into assisted living or memory care kindof felt like dropping their kids off at daycare that first time. Why would it feel that way? The fi…

I’ve often heard f…

I’ve often heard families say that moving their mom or dad into assisted living or memory care kindof felt like dropping their kids off at daycare that first time. Why would it feel that way? The first time I dropped my son off at daycare is burned in my brain. He cried...I cried…it was terrible! I think one of the reasons moving your loved one into a senior living community feels like this is because most of the time this decision comes after you’ve taken on the roll of caregiver and you know first hand how vulnerable your loved one has become. What's love got to do with it? Maybe...Eve…

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Ep 141 What'S Under Lock &Amp; Key In A Memory Care Community &Raquo; Cover Art7Lpty
EP 141 What's Under Lock & Key in a Memory Care Community

Why do certain items get locked up in memory care communities and adult family homes? Was there a list of items like medications, vitamins, and even flowers and plants that you were told would be lock…

Why do certain items…

Why do certain items get locked up in memory care communities and adult family homes? Was there a list of items like medications, vitamins, and even flowers and plants that you were told would be locked up before move-in day? It is vital to understand the importance of these "lock-up" precautions and how to adjust your routines to ensure the safety of your loved ones, and a smooth move-in process.   CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES   Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips!   Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! We can help with your …

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Ep 140 Family Talk With Special Guest, Patti Lafleur Aka Miss Patti Cake - Finding The Right Care Setting, Dementia Caregiving &Amp; Grief - Heartbreakingly Beautiful &Raquo; Cover Art7Lpty
Ep 140 Family Talk with Special Guest, Patti LaFleur aka Miss Patti Cake – Finding the Right Care Setting, Dementia Caregiving & Grief – Heartbreakingly Beautiful

Patti LaFleur is the Lorenzo’s House Youth Initiatives and Outreach Lead.  Patti is the former carepartner to her mom, Linda, who had younger-onset dementia - and a former elementary educator of ov…

Patti LaFleur is the…

Patti LaFleur is the Lorenzo’s House Youth Initiatives and Outreach Lead.  Patti is the former carepartner to her mom, Linda, who had younger-onset dementia - and a former elementary educator of over 10 years. Patti designs and leads our youth programming with intentionality, knowledge and love. Her capacity to connect with family members through lived experience and profound generosity of spirit sets the tone for how Lorenzo’s House shows up for families. Patti has a Masters Degree in Instructional Leadership and is a Certified Dementia Practitioner, has spent countless hours volunteerin…

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Ep 139 Embracing Dementia And Overcoming Denial With Guest Ana Burnes &Raquo; Cover Art7Lpty
Ep 139 Embracing Dementia and Overcoming Denial with Guest Ana Burnes

Ana Burnes is a seasoned marketing professional with over a decade of experience forging strong community partnerships. Her extensive background includes leadership roles and a specialized focus in th…

Ana Burnes is a seas…

Ana Burnes is a seasoned marketing professional with over a decade of experience forging strong community partnerships. Her extensive background includes leadership roles and a specialized focus in the medical field, where she excels in patient care and assistance. Ana is dedicated to making a positive impact on the lives of those she serves, and she is passionate about helping others through Coaching and mentoring.  In this episode, we tackle the tough subject of denial when facing a move to memory care. How to meet our loved ones where they are on their journey and choose the right care set…

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Ep 138 Activities And Expectations In Senior Living &Amp; Care &Raquo; Cover Art7Lpty
Ep 138 Activities and Expectations in Senior Living & Care

You’re on your first tour of a memory care community and as you walk in to the common area you stop in your tracks. All the residents are lined up facing a big screen TV. You don’t even remember w…

You’re on your fir…

You’re on your first tour of a memory care community and as you walk in to the common area you stop in your tracks. All the residents are lined up facing a big screen TV. You don’t even remember what was on the screen because you just couldn’t stop thinking… is this what they do all day? In this episode we’re getting real about activities in senior living.   CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES   Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips!   Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! We can help with your search for senior living & care whe…

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Ep 137 Aging, Ageism In Healthcare, Advocating &Amp; Creating A Plan For The Future With Guest Dr. Corinne Auman &Raquo; Cover Art7Lpty
Ep 137 Aging, Ageism in Healthcare, Advocating & Creating a Plan for the Future with Guest Dr. Corinne Auman

Dr. Corinne Auman is a Gerontologist with over 20 years of experience. She has a Ph.D. in Developmental Psychology with a specialty in adulthood & aging. She's an author, educator, Caregiving and agin…

Dr. Corinne Auman is…

Dr. Corinne Auman is a Gerontologist with over 20 years of experience. She has a Ph.D. in Developmental Psychology with a specialty in adulthood & aging. She's an author, educator, caregiving and aging expert. Corinne’s passion for educating families comes from her own family's caregiving journey and years helping families through her care management company. She’s on a mission to change the conversation around aging with her book Keenagers.  The term Keenagers describes an emerging demographic which includes those in their 50’s,60’s and beyond. Her book explores aging, ageism, careg…

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Ep 136 They Don'T Give You A Handbook When Your Mom Or Dad Isn'T Safe At Home Any Longer &Raquo; Cover Art7Lpty
Ep 136 They Don't Give You a Handbook When Your Mom or Dad Isn't Safe at Home Any Longer

They don’t give you a handbook when your mom or dad isn’t safe to live alone any longer… This is what a family member recently said to me and while a complete handbook would be way more involved…

They don’t give yo…

They don’t give you a handbook when your mom or dad isn’t safe to live alone any longer… This is what a family member recently said to me and while a complete handbook would be way more involved than this podcast episode…and probably not even possible… I’m going to share insights from families just like yours and give you some tips for creating your own handbook to hopefully help make your journey a little more doable.     CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES   Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips!   Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CL…

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Ep 135 How To Help Your Aging Loved One Accept Care With Guest Angela Garcia &Raquo; Cover Art7Lpty
Ep 135 How to Help Your Aging Loved One Accept Care with Guest Angela Garcia

Has your loved one said they’re never moving from their house but they’re also refusing to let you bring in a caregiver…to help them with that shower or make that meal? Well then you do not want…

Has your loved one s…

Has your loved one said they’re never moving from their house but they’re also refusing to let you bring in a caregiver…to help them with that shower or make that meal? Well then you do not want to miss this episode! Angela Garcia of Sunshine Care Services is here to share her secret sauce for helping seniors accept the care they need! In this episode we’re exploring pain, joy, goals, getting creative in the 4th quarter of life and bringing it all together with a little sunshine!      CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES   Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable t…

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Ep 134 Family Talk With Sharon Miller - Losing A Loved One To Dementia, Rehab &Amp; Adult Family Homes &Raquo; Cover Art7Lpty
Ep 134 Family Talk with Sharon Miller – Losing a Loved One to Dementia, Rehab & Adult Family Homes

In this episode, Sharon opens up about her journey alongside her husband, Loyd, as they navigate life with Dementia. From those heart-sinking moments of noticing Loyd's memory and ability to communica…

In this episode, Sha…

In this episode, Sharon opens up about her journey alongside her husband, Loyd, as they navigate life with Dementia. From those heart-sinking moments of noticing Loyd's memory and ability to communicate slip away to caregiving, strong views about skilled Nursing & rehab and finding the right adult family home.    This is Sharon's story.     CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES   Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips!   Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY! We can help with your search for senior living & care wherever you live! www.clear…

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