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Have you ever felt too old to chase a dream or explore a new path? As someone who's walked alongside many seniors through their journeys of transitioning into new phases of life, I've heard countless …

Have you ever felt t…

Have you ever felt too old to chase a dream or explore a new path? As someone who's walked alongside many seniors through their journeys of transitioning into new phases of life, I've heard countless people second-guess themselves, thinking they’ve missed their chance to pursue something different simply because of their age. Yet, time and time again, I've witnessed the magic that unfolds when they let go of these fears and embrace new opportunities.In this week's episode of "Aging in Style," I had the pleasure of chatting with Karyl Thomas, a dear friend and colleague who’s embarked on a …

Today, the rise of online dating apps is something that has been both amusing and bewildering to navigate, especially for the younger generation like my daughter, Abby. Remember those stories of endle…

Today, the rise of o…

Today, the rise of online dating apps is something that has been both amusing and bewildering to navigate, especially for the younger generation like my daughter, Abby. Remember those stories of endless swiping on apps like Bumble? Each generation finds its own unique—and sometimes hilarious—path to love.Redefining Love in Later YearsAs I reflect on the Netflix show "Later Daters," it's evident that finding love at an older age requires a deep understanding of oneself and a redefinition of relationship goals. My friend Teresa, at 57, is considering re-entering the dating scene with new asp…

As the clock ticks into 2025, it's hard to believe how quickly time flies. Reflecting on the past few years, I realize that 2022, 2023, and 2024 have been challenging and transformative. As I look ahe…

As the clock ticks i…

As the clock ticks into 2025, it's hard to believe how quickly time flies. Reflecting on the past few years, I realize that 2022, 2023, and 2024 have been challenging and transformative. As I look ahead, like many of you, I find myself setting goals—some ambitious, some simple—but all important for leading a rewarding life as we age. I’ve come to understand that the key isn't merely surviving but thriving, and much of that involves staying active and involved.This topic struck me profoundly during a holiday outing with a group from my community, the self-proclaimed "Quirky Crew." Our mis…

After 17 years in senior living, I've witnessed thousands of families navigating the emotional rollercoaster of finding the right care for their loved ones. Through it all, I’ve come to identify the…

After 17 years in se…

After 17 years in senior living, I've witnessed thousands of families navigating the emotional rollercoaster of finding the right care for their loved ones. Through it all, I’ve come to identify the 4 types of families: the deniers, the always-yes, the dysfunctional family, and the guilt-ridden family. And believe me, just about everybody fits into one category!· The family in denial: This family doesn’t want to admit their loved one needs help or makes excuses for their behavior. They’ll often say they’re fine (when they’re not) and delay making a decision. Maybe they shut down wh…

Picture this: a sweet lady, one of my dear clients, called me in a complete tizzy last week. Her phone and email were overwhelmed with messages from senior living communities she had no interest in. R…

Picture this: a swee…

Picture this: a sweet lady, one of my dear clients, called me in a complete tizzy last week. Her phone and email were overwhelmed with messages from senior living communities she had no interest in. Rightfully, she was frustrated and initially thought I had inadvertently shared her contact information with these communities. Fortunately, after clarifying, we discovered the true culprit: a classic case of accidental online misdirection.My client had been researching a senior living option—a community I'd intentionally excluded from my recommended list because it wasn't suitable for her loved …

Have you ever paused to reflect on the idea of the "golden years"? It's a phrase we encounter often, mapping out an idyllic picture of our later years full of leisure and happiness. But is that glitte…

Have you ever paused…

Have you ever paused to reflect on the idea of the "golden years"? It's a phrase we encounter often, mapping out an idyllic picture of our later years full of leisure and happiness. But is that glittering image truly reflective of reality? In this week's episode, I invite you to join me to uncover into this concept that has intrigued me—and many others—over time.Chapters:00:00 Introduction to Aging in Style00:49 The Origin of 'Golden Years'03:48 Challenges in the Golden Years06:08 Making the Most of Your Golden Years10:36 Redefining the Golden Years11:04 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsUnpack…

How can my community become dementia friendly?We're back with another round of Ask Lori, where I answer questions from my listeners. If you’re curious about some community dementia resources, I have…

How can my community…

How can my community become dementia friendly?We're back with another round of Ask Lori, where I answer questions from my listeners. If you’re curious about some community dementia resources, I have two great options to discuss. One is for businesses, while the other is for caregivers and their loved ones with dementia.First is Dementia Friendly, a nationwide initiative offering community Education on dementia. This nonprofit trains businesses free of charge so they can be more inclusive and look out for the signs of dementia among the public. Dementia Friendly businesses receive a sticker o…

What are some tips for the holidays when my loved one has dementia?Be adaptable, flexible and communicateThe holidays are a time for togetherness and making memories, but the reality is it can also br…

What are some tips f…

What are some tips for the holidays when my loved one has dementia?Be adaptable, flexible and communicateThe holidays are a time for togetherness and making memories, but the reality is it can also bring Stress and disappointment. Holiday traditions may need to evolve over time as family dynamics and situations change, including when a loved one has Alzheimer’s or dementia.Megan Rowe, former Senior Program Manager with the Alzheimer’s Association: Dallas and Northeast Texas chapter has helpful tips if you’re a caregiver or celebrating with someone who needs a little extra help.Megan reco…

Understanding Senior Housing and How to Pay for itAs we age, planning for our future living arrangements and associated costs becomes crucial. In this episode, we're going to demystify the options and…

Understanding Senior…

Understanding Senior Housing and How to Pay for itAs we age, planning for our future living arrangements and associated costs becomes crucial. In this episode, we're going to demystify the options and strategies for covering senior housing and care services, ensuring that you are well-informed as you consider the financial aspects of your loved one's aging.Often, there's confusion regarding the payment methods for senior housing, and a common misconception is that Medicare covers all expenses. Unfortunately, this is not the case, and understanding the nuances of payment options is crucial.Priv…

As the holiday season approaches, it's time filled with joy, celebration, and family gatherings. However, it’s also crucial for us to be vigilant when visiting our older family members. With concern…

As the holiday seaso…

As the holiday season approaches, it's time filled with joy, celebration, and family gatherings. However, it’s also crucial for us to be vigilant when visiting our older family members. With concern from my listeners growing every year post-Thanksgiving, I felt the need to emphasize the importance of spotting the “red flags” when it comes to the well-being of our loved ones.Why Don’t They Tell Us?It’s perplexing why older family members often don’t share their struggles. The fear of losing independence is a significant factor. Many seniors fear the idea of losing their autonomy or …

Being a caregiver is a demanding role, one that requires not just physical and emotional strength but also strong communication skills. It's about ensuring clear understanding, providing comfort, and …

Being a caregiver is…

Being a caregiver is a demanding role, one that requires not just physical and emotional strength but also strong communication skills. It's about ensuring clear understanding, providing comfort, and facilitating coordination among everyone involved in the caregiving journey. Today, I want to delve into the seven ways that being a good communicator can significantly enhance the caregiving experience for everyone involved.1. Establish Clear ExpectationsFrom the outset, it's crucial to set clear expectations with all parties involved. Whether you're coordinating with healthcare professionals, fa…

Have you heard about the term "Silver Squatters"?This interesting concept came to my attention when a friend texted me about it after hearing it on the Today Show. So, naturally, I did what anyone wou…

Have you heard about…

Have you heard about the term "Silver Squatters"?This interesting concept came to my attention when a friend texted me about it after hearing it on the Today Show. So, naturally, I did what anyone would do—I Googled it to learn more.When we hear "squatters," our minds typically jump to individuals taking over properties without paying rent. However, the term "Silver Squatters" refers to something quite different. It describes older adults, particularly those from Generation X—individuals born between 1965 and 1980—approaching Retirement age without sufficient financial resources to suppo…

How can you adapt your home and life to caregiving?Ever since my husband Mark had a stroke over Christmas, life has been one big learning experience. I knew about common caregiving struggles secondhan…

How can you adapt yo…

How can you adapt your home and life to caregiving?Ever since my husband Mark had a stroke over Christmas, life has been one big learning experience. I knew about common caregiving struggles secondhand from my clients, but living it has been more impactful than I could ever imagine.My podcast producer, Ana Xavier, joins me to discuss life since Mark returned home this summer after spending months in rehab - and we answer my most common questions about our journey.Mark has continued rehab and is working to become stronger over time, but our home needed many adjustments. An occupational therapis…

Grappling with FaithWhen you're faced with a loved one's health crisis—be it a spouse, child, or parent—it's natural to question and confront every emotion you feel, including those tied to faith.…

Grappling with Faith…

Grappling with FaithWhen you're faced with a loved one's health crisis—be it a spouse, child, or parent—it's natural to question and confront every emotion you feel, including those tied to faith. Experiences like this can push some to lose faith, while others find their faith strengthened. Personally, during the two years since my husband Mark suffered four strokes, I've found my faith not just intact but growing. Of course, I've had moments of profound anger and even directed harsh words at God, questioning why this would happen to us.Questioning WhyIt's very human to ask why catastrophi…

What are the top 10 most frequent expectations of caregivers?Caregiving is a profound and often challenging experience and in this episode,I want to explore the intricacies of managing expectations wh…

What are the top 10 …

What are the top 10 most frequent expectations of caregivers?Caregiving is a profound and often challenging experience and in this episode,I want to explore the intricacies of managing expectations when caring for a loved one recovering from a serious health condition. Drawing from my own journey as a caregiver for my husband, Mark, a stroke survivor, I'll be sharing ten insightful tips that provide a roadmap for others in similar situations. It's important to approach the experience with both compassion and realism so that as a caregiver, we're able to embrace the non-linear nature of recover…