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In life, as in everything else, preparation can be the key to gracefully overcoming challenges. Understanding and planning for our loved ones’ aging years not only mitigates Stress but ensures decis…

In life, as in every…

In life, as in everything else, preparation can be the key to gracefully overcoming challenges. Understanding and planning for our loved ones’ aging years not only mitigates stress but ensures decisions reflect their wishes—before difficult moments arrive.As a senior living expert, author, educator, and caregiver, I know it's key to explore essential strategies to navigate your parents’ aging years with empathy and foresight. In this episode, we'll discuss the importance of open discussions, understanding family dynamics, and preparing for unexpected scenarios.The Importance of Open Conv…

After years of helping families, I've come across a myriad of myths about assisted living that are nothing short of fiction. Today, we’re setting the record straight and exploring why assisted livin…

After years of helpi…

After years of helping families, I've come across a myriad of myths about assisted living that are nothing short of fiction. Today, we’re setting the record straight and exploring why assisted living can be a fantastic choice for many.Busting Common Myths About Assisted LivingAssisted living often brings up images of sterile, institutional environments, stuck in a time warp of outdated care practices. But as Theresa Williams, a sales director at Rambling Oaks, and I discussed, the reality is far different.Myth #1: Assisted Living Is a Nursing HomeContrary to popular belief, assisted living i…

Different ways to pay for senior living:So you’ve decided you or your loved one needs senior living - how much is it going to cost? A 2020 study by Genworth determined that the U.S. average for assi…

Different ways to pa…

Different ways to pay for senior living:So you’ve decided you or your loved one needs senior living - how much is it going to cost? A 2020 study by Genworth determined that the U.S. average for assisted living is $4,429 a month, though it could be less (or even more) depending on where you live! Budget is a huge factor in determining what’s available to you. Unfortunately, there’s also a huge misconception that Medicare will cover the cost. That is simply not the case.With that in mind, as a Senior Living Expert, I'll be sharing 10 ways to pay for senior living. Depending on how you’ve…

Life is a journey, and as we move forward, our needs and desires evolve. When it comes to senior living, many people are daunted by the myths and misconceptions that surround it. But I believe it’s …

Life is a journey, a…

Life is a journey, and as we move forward, our needs and desires evolve. When it comes to senior living, many people are daunted by the myths and misconceptions that surround it. But I believe it’s time to look at senior living communities with an open mind. These communities aren’t just about change—they’re about enhancing one’s quality of life with confidence.Understanding Senior Living OptionsWhen it comes to senior housing, it's essential to choose options that foster independence and enrich your Lifestyle. I’ve narrowed it down to two main types of communities: active aging se…

As someone who has been deeply immersed in the world of aging and senior care, I've noticed that there’s a significant aspect of aging that often goes unspoken: Menopause and perimenopause. Despite …

As someone who has b…

As someone who has been deeply immersed in the world of aging and senior care, I've noticed that there’s a significant aspect of aging that often goes unspoken: menopause and perimenopause. Despite the numerous conversations about other transitional stages in life, this particular journey at the end of our reproductive cycles is seldom discussed openly. What is even more puzzling is that so many of us experience it, yet it remains a taboo subject.Menopause and Perimenopause: The Unspoken Journey Have you ever found yourself wondering why menopause isn’t ever talked about? I certainly have.…

The Everyday ChallengesLast night was a typical scene in my life, one almost like running a residential care home. Between managing the needs of my husband, Mark, who requires constant care after suff…

The Everyday Challen…

The Everyday ChallengesLast night was a typical scene in my life, one almost like running a residential care home. Between managing the needs of my husband, Mark, who requires constant care after suffering multiple strokes, and my son, Chris, who recently injured his ankle, it felt as though I couldn’t catch a break. Even our dog joined in the drama with a limp, compounding the chaos!Understanding Caregiver StressBeing a caregiver is far from easy. Stress manifests in numerous ways, from physical symptoms like fatigue and headaches to emotional signs such as irritability and Anxiety. Statist…

Have you ever felt too old to chase a dream or explore a new path? As someone who's walked alongside many seniors through their journeys of transitioning into new phases of life, I've heard countless …

Have you ever felt t…

Have you ever felt too old to chase a dream or explore a new path? As someone who's walked alongside many seniors through their journeys of transitioning into new phases of life, I've heard countless people second-guess themselves, thinking they’ve missed their chance to pursue something different simply because of their age. Yet, time and time again, I've witnessed the magic that unfolds when they let go of these fears and embrace new opportunities.In this week's episode of "Aging in Style," I had the pleasure of chatting with Karyl Thomas, a dear friend and colleague who’s embarked on a …

Today, the rise of online dating apps is something that has been both amusing and bewildering to navigate, especially for the younger generation like my daughter, Abby. Remember those stories of endle…

Today, the rise of o…

Today, the rise of online dating apps is something that has been both amusing and bewildering to navigate, especially for the younger generation like my daughter, Abby. Remember those stories of endless swiping on apps like Bumble? Each generation finds its own unique—and sometimes hilarious—path to love.Redefining Love in Later YearsAs I reflect on the Netflix show "Later Daters," it's evident that finding love at an older age requires a deep understanding of oneself and a redefinition of relationship goals. My friend Teresa, at 57, is considering re-entering the dating scene with new asp…

As the clock ticks into 2025, it's hard to believe how quickly time flies. Reflecting on the past few years, I realize that 2022, 2023, and 2024 have been challenging and transformative. As I look ahe…

As the clock ticks i…

As the clock ticks into 2025, it's hard to believe how quickly time flies. Reflecting on the past few years, I realize that 2022, 2023, and 2024 have been challenging and transformative. As I look ahead, like many of you, I find myself setting goals—some ambitious, some simple—but all important for leading a rewarding life as we age. I’ve come to understand that the key isn't merely surviving but thriving, and much of that involves staying active and involved.This topic struck me profoundly during a holiday outing with a group from my community, the self-proclaimed "Quirky Crew." Our mis…

After 17 years in senior living, I've witnessed thousands of families navigating the emotional rollercoaster of finding the right care for their loved ones. Through it all, I’ve come to identify the…

After 17 years in se…

After 17 years in senior living, I've witnessed thousands of families navigating the emotional rollercoaster of finding the right care for their loved ones. Through it all, I’ve come to identify the 4 types of families: the deniers, the always-yes, the dysfunctional family, and the guilt-ridden family. And believe me, just about everybody fits into one category!· The family in denial: This family doesn’t want to admit their loved one needs help or makes excuses for their behavior. They’ll often say they’re fine (when they’re not) and delay making a decision. Maybe they shut down wh…

Picture this: a sweet lady, one of my dear clients, called me in a complete tizzy last week. Her phone and email were overwhelmed with messages from senior living communities she had no interest in. R…

Picture this: a swee…

Picture this: a sweet lady, one of my dear clients, called me in a complete tizzy last week. Her phone and email were overwhelmed with messages from senior living communities she had no interest in. Rightfully, she was frustrated and initially thought I had inadvertently shared her contact information with these communities. Fortunately, after clarifying, we discovered the true culprit: a classic case of accidental online misdirection.My client had been researching a senior living option—a community I'd intentionally excluded from my recommended list because it wasn't suitable for her loved …

Have you ever paused to reflect on the idea of the "golden years"? It's a phrase we encounter often, mapping out an idyllic picture of our later years full of leisure and happiness. But is that glitte…

Have you ever paused…

Have you ever paused to reflect on the idea of the "golden years"? It's a phrase we encounter often, mapping out an idyllic picture of our later years full of leisure and happiness. But is that glittering image truly reflective of reality? In this week's episode, I invite you to join me to uncover into this concept that has intrigued me—and many others—over time.Chapters:00:00 Introduction to Aging in Style00:49 The Origin of 'Golden Years'03:48 Challenges in the Golden Years06:08 Making the Most of Your Golden Years10:36 Redefining the Golden Years11:04 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsUnpack…

How can my community become dementia friendly?We're back with another round of Ask Lori, where I answer questions from my listeners. If you’re curious about some community dementia resources, I have…

How can my community…

How can my community become dementia friendly?We're back with another round of Ask Lori, where I answer questions from my listeners. If you’re curious about some community dementia resources, I have two great options to discuss. One is for businesses, while the other is for caregivers and their loved ones with dementia.First is Dementia Friendly, a nationwide initiative offering community Education on dementia. This nonprofit trains businesses free of charge so they can be more inclusive and look out for the signs of dementia among the public. Dementia Friendly businesses receive a sticker o…

What are some tips for the holidays when my loved one has dementia?Be adaptable, flexible and communicateThe holidays are a time for togetherness and making memories, but the reality is it can also br…

What are some tips f…

What are some tips for the holidays when my loved one has dementia?Be adaptable, flexible and communicateThe holidays are a time for togetherness and making memories, but the reality is it can also bring stress and disappointment. Holiday traditions may need to evolve over time as family dynamics and situations change, including when a loved one has Alzheimer’s or dementia.Megan Rowe, former Senior Program Manager with the Alzheimer’s Association: Dallas and Northeast Texas chapter has helpful tips if you’re a caregiver or celebrating with someone who needs a little extra help.Megan reco…

Understanding Senior Housing and How to Pay for itAs we age, planning for our future living arrangements and associated costs becomes crucial. In this episode, we're going to demystify the options and…

Understanding Senior…

Understanding Senior Housing and How to Pay for itAs we age, planning for our future living arrangements and associated costs becomes crucial. In this episode, we're going to demystify the options and strategies for covering senior housing and care services, ensuring that you are well-informed as you consider the financial aspects of your loved one's aging.Often, there's confusion regarding the payment methods for senior housing, and a common misconception is that Medicare covers all expenses. Unfortunately, this is not the case, and understanding the nuances of payment options is crucial.Priv…