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Laurie James Laurie James, Author, Podcaster, and Somatic Relationship Coach

Hi, I’m Laurie James…a mother, divorcée, recovering caregiver turned author, somatic relationship coach, and podcaster. My podcast, Confessions of a Freebird, was inspired by my youngest of four children leaving the nest and is the sequel to my book, Sandwiched: A Memoir of Holding On and Letting Go.

My memoir is about my journey from loneliness to finding belonging during a time when I was raising four teenage daughters, my mother had a heart attack and I became her caregiver, all while my Marriage began to crumble underneath me.

I created Confessions of a Freebird as a heartfelt space for women navigating major life transitions—Divorce, empty nesting, loss, Dating again, or simply asking, “Is this all there is?”

Each week, I share raw reflections from my own journey, somatic Coaching tools, and unfiltered conversations with Experts on everything from sex, Grief, Trauma, and finances to reinvention, Caregiving, and starting over on your midlife journey.

We explore what it means to come home to yourself through somatic practices—and how to design a life that feels aligned with who you are now, not who you were 20 years ago or who someone or society has told you to be.

I became a Somatic Practitioner and blend it with my Coaching. This combination has helped me and my clients move from living in a state of survival to state of safety and now I live a life that’s in align with my soul’s purpose. I help my clients who are healing so they can develop a better relationship with their bodies and nervous system. It’s one of the best forms of self-care. This allows my clients to find the inner freedom to experience more happiness, joy, and reinvent themselves in midlife through nervous system regulation.

When I’m not coaching clients or podcasting, I can be found nurturing my free spirit by walking my adopted husky Lu, skiing, sailing, hiking, playing pickle ball, spending time with my Family, four adult daughters, close friends or planning my next adventure.

Books Authored By Laurie James

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When A Good Life Feels Heavy: A Somatic Mid-Year Reset For Burnout You Can'T Explain &Raquo; T9Tqk9Xyyhorzebtkr5P7Ef0T5C5
When a Good Life Feels Heavy: A Somatic Mid-Year Reset for Burnout You Can't Explain

What if the exhaustion you've been carrying isn't a sign that you need to do more — but your body's way of telling you something needs to shift?You can be a founder, a mother, a partn…

What if the exhausti…

What if the exhaustion you've been carrying isn't a sign that you need to do more — but your body's way of telling you something needs to shift?You can be a founder, a mother, a partner, a caregiver for Aging parents, or a woman in midlife building something meaningful — and still find yourself running on fumes. The women I work with Love their lives and the people in them. And they still feel their bodies quietly asking for something they haven't been giving themselves.Burnout signs in midlife don’t always announce themselves loudly.. You're still showing up. St…

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Coaf 220How Micro Breaks Can Help Women Manage Stress And Digital Overload With Dr. Mary Donohue &Raquo; T9Tqk9Xyyhorzebtkr5P7Ef0T5C5
COAF 220How Micro Breaks Can Help Women Manage Stress and Digital Overload with Dr. Mary Donohue

Have you ever noticed how hard it is to step away from your phone… even when your  mind and body is asking for a break?The texts, notifications, social media scrolling, and constant pressure to res…

Have you ever notice…

Have you ever noticed how hard it is to step away from your phone… even when your  mind and body is asking for a break?The texts, notifications, social media scrolling, and constant pressure to respond to that email can leave you  feeling wired, distracted, and disconnected from yourself. Your mind may say, “Just one more thing,” while your body is quietly tightening, bracing, or whispering that it needs space.And if you’ve been pushing through for years — caring for everyone else, managing work, Family, Caregiving, and the invisible weight of modern life — you are not broken. Yo…

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How Surviving A Sudden Cardiac Arrest Taught Victoria Gustafson To Stop People-Pleasing And Start Listening To Her Body &Raquo; T9Tqk9Xyyhorzebtkr5P7Ef0T5C5
How Surviving a Sudden Cardiac Arrest Taught Victoria Gustafson to Stop People-Pleasing and Start Listening to Her Body

Heart Disease in women is their number one killer — and most of us still don't know the signs.We've spent years worrying about the right things: the screenings, the genetics, the family hi…

Heart disease in wom…

Heart disease in women is their number one killer — and most of us still don't know the signs.We've spent years worrying about the right things: the screenings, the genetics, the family history we carry quietly into every doctor's appointment. But women's heart Health looks different than we've been taught. The symptoms are more subtle. The risk factors include ones nobody warned us about — like Menopause, estrogen loss, and the emotional suppression when we carry our loved one’s pain..My guest today, Victoria Gustafson — certified heart-centered life coach and…

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How To Regulate Your Emotions And Find Peace Using Somatic Practices With Annmarie Chereso &Raquo; T9Tqk9Xyyhorzebtkr5P7Ef0T5C5
How to Regulate Your Emotions and Find Peace using Somatic Practices with Annmarie Chereso

Have you ever found yourself reacting in a way that feels bigger than the situation in front of you… and then thought, “Why did I respond like that?”You’re not alone — and it’s not random.…

Have you ever found …

Have you ever found yourself reacting in a way that feels bigger than the situation in front of you… and then thought, “Why did I respond like that?”You’re not alone — and it’s not random.That disconnect — between what your mind wants to do and what your body actually does — is often where deeper emotional patterns, Trauma responses, and nervous system reactions live.In this episode, I sit down with Annmarie Chereso, conscious relationship coach, to unpack what’s really happening beneath emotional triggers, relationship conflict patterns, and those moments when you feel like …

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How Cultural Beliefs Shape Parenting Guilt And Shame For Mothers &Raquo; T9Tqk9Xyyhorzebtkr5P7Ef0T5C5
How Cultural Beliefs Shape Parenting Guilt and Shame for Mothers

What if your Motherhood guilt isn’t proof you failed, but a sign you’ve been carrying too much for too long? You can give everything to your children and still hear that relentless inner critic w…

What if your motherh…

What if your motherhood guilt isn’t proof you failed, but a sign you’ve been carrying too much for too long? You can give everything to your children and still hear that relentless inner critic whispering it wasn’t enough — and over time, that pressure can become maternal Stress, emotional exhaustion, and even maternal burnout carried quietly beneath the surface.But what if that voice and the sensations associated with them aren’t telling you the truth?So much of what we believe about being a “good mother” is shaped by cultural beliefs and unexamined Parenting beliefs — expect…

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Who Are You When The Kids Leave? Reclaiming Your Identity As An Empty Nester With Jay Ramsden &Raquo; T9Tqk9Xyyhorzebtkr5P7Ef0T5C5
Who Are You When the Kids Leave? Reclaiming Your Identity as an Empty Nester with Jay Ramsden

When your kids leave the nest and the caregiving finally stops — who are you?That question can stop you cold. And if you've been living it, you already know how disorienting that silence can be…

When your kids leave…

When your kids leave the nest and the caregiving finally stops — who are you?That question can stop you cold. And if you've been living it, you already know how disorienting that silence can be. This honest, heartfelt conversation is for every person standing in that in-between space, wondering who they are. My guest today is Jay Ramsden — podcaster, Empty Nest coach, and someone who has lived this reckoning from the inside out. After a 30-year career in Education and years as a primary caregiver, Jay didn't just adjust to the empty nest. He climbed Mount Kilimanjaro. He walked …

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Finding Yourself After Caregiving: A Step-By-Step Guide To Prioritizing Self Care With Debbie Weiss &Raquo; T9Tqk9Xyyhorzebtkr5P7Ef0T5C5
Finding Yourself After Caregiving: A Step-by-Step Guide to Prioritizing Self Care with Debbie Weiss

What does it look like to wake up at fifty and finally ask, "What do I actually want?" For Debbie Weiss — bestselling author, speaker, and host of the Maybe I Can podcast — that question became th…

What does it look li…

What does it look like to wake up at fifty and finally ask, "What do I actually want?" For Debbie Weiss — bestselling author, speaker, and host of the Maybe I Can podcast — that question became the turning point that changed everything.In this deeply honest and vulnerable conversation, Debbie shares the emotional arc of her transformation: from decades of family caregiving that left her financially stressed, emotionally depleted, and disconnected from herself, to building an entirely new life through what she calls "sprinkles" — small, intentional shifts that slowly and powerfully rewrot…

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10 Science-Backed Keys To Happiness And How Somatic Healing Helps &Raquo; T9Tqk9Xyyhorzebtkr5P7Ef0T5C5
10 Science-Backed Keys to Happiness and How Somatic Healing Helps

Why does happiness sometimes feel out of reach even when you think you are doing everything right? You take steps forward, check the boxes, show up for the people you love, but underneath it all, some…

Why does happiness s…

Why does happiness sometimes feel out of reach even when you think you are doing everything right? You take steps forward, check the boxes, show up for the people you love, but underneath it all, something still feels unsettled. Life can start to feel rushed, full, or emotionally heavy, yet you can’t quite put your finger on it.This is what happens when you’re not prioritizing the foundational keys to happiness and, in turn, living with a dysregulated nervous system. When your body stays in a constant threat response—do more, earn more, and achieve more is when your nervous system become…

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Career Change At 50 And Beyond: How Midlife Women Can Start Again With Confidence With Patricia Noel Drain &Raquo; T9Tqk9Xyyhorzebtkr5P7Ef0T5C5
Career Change at 50 and Beyond: How Midlife Women Can Start Again With Confidence with Patricia Noel Drain

Have You Ever Asked Yourself, "What Do I Want to Be When I Grow Up?"I've asked myself that question more times than I can count — and especially after my kids left the nest and I felt that unde…

Have You Ever Asked …

Have You Ever Asked Yourself, "What Do I Want to Be When I Grow Up?"I've asked myself that question more times than I can count — and especially after my kids left the nest and I felt that undeniable pull to reinvent myself once I became a freebird and left my Marriage.If you're feeling that same pull right now, you are not alone.This week, I'm joined by Patricia Noel Drain, a business mentor, author, and podcaster who has made it her mission to support midlife women who are ready for a career pivot or a bold new chapter. Patricia helps women over 50 discover their gifts, reco…

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Career Change At 50 And Beyond: How Midlife Women Can Start Again With Confidence With Patricia Noel Drain &Raquo; T9Tqk9Xyyhorzebtkr5P7Ef0T5C5
Career Change at 50 and Beyond: How Midlife Women Can Start Again With Confidence with Patricia Noel Drain

Have You Ever Asked Yourself, "What Do I Want to Be When I Grow Up?"I've asked myself that question more times than I can count — and especially after my kids left the nest and I felt that unde…

Have You Ever Asked …

Have You Ever Asked Yourself, "What Do I Want to Be When I Grow Up?"I've asked myself that question more times than I can count — and especially after my kids left the nest and I felt that undeniable pull to reinvent myself once I became a freebird and left my marriage.If you're feeling that same pull right now, you are not alone.This week, I'm joined by Patricia Noel Drain, a business mentor, author, and podcaster who has made it her mission to support midlife women who are ready for a career pivot or a bold new chapter. Patricia helps women over 50 discover their gifts, reco…

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How Sibling Relationships Keep Us Stuck And How To Build Healthy Adult Relationships With Minaa B &Raquo; T9Tqk9Xyyhorzebtkr5P7Ef0T5C5
How Sibling Relationships Keep Us Stuck and How to Build Healthy Adult Relationships with Minaa B

You can command a boardroom, lead a team, and hold your own in the world — yet the moment you step back into your family home, something shifts. Old wounds resurface. You shrink. You react. You beco…

You can command a bo…

You can command a boardroom, lead a team, and hold your own in the world — yet the moment you step back into your family home, something shifts. Old wounds resurface. You shrink. You react. You become a version of yourself you thought you'd outgrown. This regression is a sign that your internal conflicts are tethered to a hidden social architecture designed long ago.And…you're not broken. You're responding to a blueprint that was written long before you had any say in it.In this episode of Confessions of a Freebird, I sit down with therapist, author, and Mental Health advoca…

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How An Illness, Mother Theresa And A Passion Can Change Your Life With Renée Lara &Raquo; T9Tqk9Xyyhorzebtkr5P7Ef0T5C5
How an Illness, Mother Theresa and a Passion Can Change Your Life with Renée Lara

When midlife hits and your body changes and getting dressed can suddenly feel frustrating. Waistlines shift. Fabrics fit differently. Pieces that once felt effortless now feel off.But here’s the tru…

When midlife hits an…

When midlife hits and your body changes and getting dressed can suddenly feel frustrating. Waistlines shift. Fabrics fit differently. Pieces that once felt effortless now feel off.But here’s the truth: style in midlife doesn’t have to feel confusing and it definitely doesn’t have to feel defeating.In this episode of Confessions of a Freebird, I’m joined by personal stylist and conscious fashion expert Renée Lara, who has over 20 years of experience helping women align their wardrobe with their values, Lifestyle, and evolving bodies.Renée’s path is anything but ordinary, from studyi…

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