I asked a financial advisor, “Give me an example of someone who retired and doesn’t know what to do with their time.”
Without missing a beat, he replied, “I’ve got a guy who came in last month. He and his wife have a multi-million-dollar plan with us. But because he hasn’t a clue what to do all day, he’s now driving for Uber—in a BMW worth over $100,000.”
While this story may sound like an outlier, it’s more common than you’d think. Many individuals enter Retirement financially secure but mentally unprepared. The career that once provided structure, identity, and a sense of purpose is gone. In its place is a wide expanse of time—and not everyone knows what to do with it.
One of the most powerful ways to bridge this gap is to define what time will look like once work ends. That begins with a deeper understanding of six Lifestyle dimensions that shape the retirement experience, defined through an assessment hundreds have taken called the Retirement Time Analysis (RTA).
Even after retiring, many people still view their career as central to their identity. In fact, the RTA data shows 78% of near-retirees feel hesitant about leaving work—not for financial reasons, but because of what work represents. Reconciliation on a job plays in a sense of worth and meaning is critical. Is it possible to transfer those same values into a new role—like mentorship, Volunteering, or project-based work?
Retirement is not just about having more free time—it’s about knowing how to use it meaningfully. Many underestimate the challenge of suddenly becoming the architect of their own days. In fact, 48% are worried about what will happen when there is no career. Thinking proactively about time—rather than reactively—is key. Consider daily routines, long-term goals, and the integration of leisure with purpose. A strong time management philosophy reduces Stress and enhances fulfillment.
Only 18% who have taken the RTA feel they will enjoy their retirement because they have invested time trying to create a lifestyle plan. A successful retirement isn’t simply the absence of work—it’s the presence of a new mindset. Regular planning about attitude toward retirement—and how it may evolve over time—can set the tone for a smoother transition.
While Retirement Planning revolves around Money, clients often need support aligning their financial confidence with their lifestyle vision. Only 52% stated they have a formal and written budget to understand their expense structure The technical plan is important (the distribution plan) but so is how you feel about executing it (the expense plan).
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This is where purpose begins to take shape. What does an ideal day, week, or year look like in retirement? Who are they spending time with? What roles are they playing in their families or communities? The RTA data shows 25% of those in retirement will not choose to keep an active social life. Do not be one of the 25%.
Finally, what specific pursuits fill the calendar? Whether it’s Travel, volunteering, creative hobbies, continued learning, or physical wellness, helping clients articulate how they’ll stay active is crucial. And not just in the first year—what about 10 years in? Clients who continue to learn, grow, and contribute tend to thrive well into later stages of retirement.
You can weave these dimensions into your retirement preparation without needing to solve every detail.
Start with a simple question:
“If you stopped working today, what would give your life purpose?”
You might have a blank stare, nervous laughter, or a vague reference to “doing more traveling.” Don’t let the awkwardness discourage you. Instead, guide yourself to reflect on two foundational prompts:
Encourage your spouse to do the same. Once you’ve reflected, take your findings and complete this sentence:
“My goal in life is to [insert future vision], and I believe I can achieve it by staying true to [insert core value].”
This small Exercise helps to articulate a purpose-driven framework that links money to their meaning. It also sets the stage for more productive and fulfilling use of time—something no portfolio alone can provide.
Which brings us back to our Uber-driving retiree. He wasn’t chasing fares. He was chasing structure, interaction, and maybe even significance. With a bit more reflection and planning, he might have found those things in a way that better aligned with his talents and values.
You made it this far into the article. Being an Uber driver was never going to be a part of the plan. Great, then what is the strategy you have to develop quality time when you have more of it? Take the Retirement Time Analysis and bring awareness to the wonderful time opportunities that can await you.
David Buck is the author of the book The Time-Optimized Life, coauthor of The Retirement Collective, and owner of Kairos (Time) Management Solutions, LLC. Learn how to apply the concepts of proactively planning and using your time. Take the Time Management Analysis (TMA), the Retirement Time Analysis (RTA), offered to help bring more quality time into your life.
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