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What If We Have Sex Too Soon? – MTP452

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Scot McKayWhat If We Have Sex Too Soon? - MTP452
  1. What If We Have Sex Too Soon? - MTP452 Scot McKay 28:16

Co-Host Emily McKay (https://www.deservwhatyouwant.com) Nowadays we live in a culture that extols selfhood and immediate gratification. As marriage becomes less revered as an institution, lots of people are asking if there’s really any reason to hold off from having sex extremely early in the relationship…even on the same day they meet. I mean, if that’s what both of you want, why not? But as we all know, life has a way of throwing complications at you…even if you’re all about nothing more than a sexually transactional relationship. Whatever happened to connection? What even IS ‘connection’ anyway, and does it have to take very long to happen? If the two of you are horny and just want to have a fling, to what extent do you even HAVE to connect…at all? Isn’t sexual chemistry enough in that case? And what if you’re a person of faith and don’t believe in sex before marriage? Does that mean you’re basically supposed to remain platonic friends until your wedding night? Well, we all know the truth about ‘technical virginity’ and how fragile even that is vis-a-vis natural human urges and impulses. Does having sex too soon in a relationship negatively affect the prospects for a long-term relationship? I mean, can you trust each other away from home when you couldn’t even resist temptation together? But on the other hand, can your sexual relationship suffer if you waited too LONG? Why is what the pickup artist movement used to teach really a disservice to both women AND men? But wait a minute…does one partner really HAVE to lie or cheat the other in order to make sex happen fast? That aside, what–if anything–do we miss out on as humanoids by rushing into a sexual relationship immediately? What is ‘the talk’ every couple should have before having sex? (Well, except for ONE key exception!) Snap up your ticket for this week’s Masterclass For Men at https://mountaintoppodcast.com/masterclass

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Scot McKay Dating Strategist

Scot McKay has shared bad jokes with North Korean military officers, sipped coffee at Pablo Escobar’s home (served by his maid), survived a shark attack while surfing, held his breath as the pride of lions walked by his tent, and blitzed through California canyons with his knee on the double-yellow line at 140 mph. Yet somehow, he has also been referred to as the “sane one” on Twitter by Scott Adams, of all people.

But despite once being mobbed by the Dallas Cowboy cheerleaders, being able to back a 30′ travel trailer into its slot on the first try, and that time he beat the World Champion at his own sport (no details provided), he’s still the most objective and down-to-earth dating expert out there.

He’s also the most fluff-free fountainhead of original content in his field, if only because that’s what seventeen years of immersive geekery on the subject does for someone.

Scot’s wife Emily is his “proof of concept”, given that she’s just as sweet as she is smokin’ hot and still gets carded at her age. But you’ll never hear her brag about any of that, only Scot.

His show The Mountain Top has also been named a Top 10 Dating Podcast by DatingAdvice.com, and a long time ago Grader.com weirdly ranked Scot the #1 most influential Facebook user in the world.

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