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April 18th, 2024

The Bad Sex Survival Guide – MTP404

  1. The Bad Sex Survival Guide - MTP404 Scot McKay 39:15

Co-Host Cyndi Olin ( Well, since this is episode 404, I figured we’d talk about something all of us would like to delete and make disappear. And even though Woody Allen infamously believes otherwise, that’s BAD sex. Indeed, not all sex is GOOD sex simply because it happened. I brought along none other than my long-time friend and colleague Cyndi Olin to throw this ugly topic on the table in all it’s lack of glory. As you probably have guessed by now, Cyndi and I have a certifiably weird relationship when it comes to talking about this stuff, so it starts off fun and hilarious and stays that way. For starters, we cover the obvious factors that lead to bad sex, punctuated by some humor. But then Cyndi talks about how women time their sexual encounters with a man, whether we realize it or not. And what, other than the obvious, might be going on when two people never call each other again after sex? How does misplaced disappointment and self-blame ruin otherwise perfectly good sex? I mean, how is it we blame ourselves for each others lack of sexual skill and/or performance? It’s weird. And what about our sexual priorities? How do selfish people end up having bad sex? And how does our level of understanding regarding the opposite sex’s view of sex enter into all of this? Do women ever use men for sex? What should you do if she gets naked and you’re disappointed? Does porn make real sex worse? Does holding off on having sex for the first time really make it better when it finally happens? Is ‘tender lovemaking’ synonymous with good sex (or is that a rhetorical question?) And of course…how can you (and your partner) recover if you’ve indeed endured bad sex? Get in on all the new goodies at


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Scot McKay Dating Strategist

Scot McKay has shared bad jokes with North Korean military officers, sipped coffee at Pablo Escobar’s home (served by his maid), survived a shark attack while surfing, held his breath as the pride of lions walked by his tent, and blitzed through California canyons with his knee on the double-yellow line at 140 mph. Yet somehow, he has also been referred to as the “sane one” on Twitter by Scott Adams, of all people.

But despite once being mobbed by the Dallas Cowboy cheerleaders, being able to back a 30′ travel trailer into its slot on the first try, and that time he beat the World Champion at his own sport (no details provided), he’s still the most objective and down-to-earth dating expert out there.

He’s also the most fluff-free fountainhead of original content in his field, if only because that’s what seventeen years of immersive geekery on the subject does for someone.

Scot’s wife Emily is his “proof of concept”, given that she’s just as sweet as she is smokin’ hot and still gets carded at her age. But you’ll never hear her brag about any of that, only Scot.

His show The Mountain Top has also been named a Top 10 Dating Podcast by, and a long time ago weirdly ranked Scot the #1 most influential Facebook user in the world.

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