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July 9th, 2026

Your Life Looks Right… So Why Does It Feel Wrong? With Kim Costa

  1. Your Life Looks Right… So Why Does It Feel Wrong? With Kim Costa Lisa Boate 39:37

What happens when the life you built no longer fits the woman you’re becoming?

In this episode of Transforming 45, Lisa sits down with Kim Costa—author of Live in Your Wheelhouse and creator of The Wheelhouse Method—to explore the powerful connection between identity, environment, and midlife reinvention.

Because here’s the truth no one talks about: Sometimes the most “perfect” life… is the most misaligned one.

From a life-altering accident to walking away from a home that looked beautiful on paper but felt completely off, Kim shares how midlife has a way of shaking loose everything that no longer fits—and how your physical space might be the first place you feel it.

Together, we explore:

✨ Why your home can start to feel like a job instead of a sanctuary

✨ The hidden emotional weight of “having it all”

✨ How misalignment shows up in subtle (and not-so-subtle) ways

✨ The connection between your internal world and your physical space ✨ Simple ways to start realigning your life—without blowing everything up

00:00 The Journey of Self-Discovery

01:13 Recognizing Misalignment in Life

04:06 The Impact of Physical Space on Well-Being

08:45 The Weight of Expectations

11:30 Midlife Transitions and New Beginnings

15:05 Finding Bravery in Change

20:29 Taking Action in Physical Spaces

21:10 Creating Intentional Spaces

23:59 The Wheelhouse Framework for Life Reflection

26:58 Shifting Energy Through Home Environment

30:00 The Impact of Clutter on Emotional Well-being

33:01 Navigating Change in Family Dynamics

36:03 Aligning Home with Personal Growth

40:03 Finding Your True Self in Midlife

If you’ve been feeling restless, disconnected, or like something just isn’t right… this conversation will hit.

Because sometimes it’s not you that needs fixing— it’s the life you’ve outgrown.

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Lisa Boate Menopause Consultant and Coach

Lisa Boate is a Certified Menopause Coach, Consultant, and Host of the "Transforming 45" podcast. With a background in education, she specializes in empowering women through the challenges of midlife, including perimenopause and menopause transitions. Lisa's mission is to transform workplaces into menopause-friendly environments, fostering understanding, support, and empowerment for women. Through her podcast and coaching, she provides guidance, resources, and inspiration for women navigating this transformative phase of life.