In Episode 177 of the Mindset Matters podcast, Patrick and Steffany Francey continue their deep dive into ego—expanding on insights from Episode 176. Far from being the enemy, ego is a fundamental part of our identity. The key is learning how to master it rather than let it control us.
Key Takeaways:
✅ Ego vs. Self-Esteem: Ego craves external validation, while self-esteem is rooted in truth and self-awareness. When ego is unchecked, it fuels defensiveness, comparison, and resistance to change.
✅ Ego in Business: Many entrepreneurs and leaders struggle to delegate because their ego convinces them that asking for help equals weakness. True leadership comes from empowering others, not micromanaging.
✅ Ego in Relationships: The need to be right can destroy friendships and romantic relationships. Prioritizing understanding over winning fosters connection and personal Growth. In love, fear of vulnerability often masks itself as avoidance. Real intimacy requires emotional honesty.
✅ Mastering Ego for Growth: Ego isn’t good or bad—it’s a tool. When harnessed effectively, it builds confidence and resilience. However, left unchecked, it can limit success, block self-reflection, and create unnecessary conflicts.
💡 Final Thought: You don’t need to eliminate ego—you need to master it. When you shift from ego-driven reactions to self-awareness, you unlock a new level of personal and professional growth.
ABOUT ME
PATRICK FRANCEY
CEO, MULTIPLE BUSINESS OWNER, EDUCATOR, COACH, CANADIAN REAL ESTATE INVESTOR PODCAST CREATOR and HOST
Patrick Francey is considered a luminary in real estate investment education, entrepreneurship, and personal and professional development.
He is a gifted speaker and coach dedicated to enriching lives through personal and professional growth. As CEO of the Real Estate Investment Network (REIN) and a multi-business owner, Patrick brings over 40 years of business expertise, guiding individuals toward their financial and business goals.
With a profound commitment to holistic growth, Patrick resonates with Canadian investors and entrepreneurs. His journey from humble beginnings to a Canadian-based real estate investor, educator, and speaker inspires a global audience. Through engaging speaking events, educational programs, and his top 10% podcast "The Everyday Millionaire," Patrick's approachable style inspires action by
his followers.
Patrick's influence extends to well-being with a foundational philosophy of creating a context for your life, intentionally, mindfully, and with purpose. He and his wife, Steffany Hannity-Franceyare inspired to support the success of others. Patrick's dedication to his vision for success, paired with his holistic lifestyle, embodies a well-rounded approach. His enduring impact in entrepreneurship and real estate investment is an unwavering beacon of guidance, proving his principles invaluable for those seeking to be their greatest self and live their best life, by design.
