"The Accidental Footballer: with Pat Nevin

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In this episode from the archive, Andy Lopata interviews Pat Nevin, former professional footballer turned media personality and author of the bestseller, “The Accidental Footballer.” Pat shares insights from his illustrious career, emphasising a unique perspective on life, career, and relationships.

Pat discusses his book, highlighting the absence of antagonism. Despite potential conflicts with players and managers, Pat emphasises his commitment to living life on his terms.

The conversation delves into Pat’s early days with Chelsea, where he became a football icon. His love for the game, coupled with a commitment to maintaining a safety net beyond football, shaped his mindset. Pat’s mantra, “Being a footballer is what I do, not who I am,” reflects his approach to the sport.

Pat’s emphasis on playing with joy and creativity, rather than fear, allowed him to excel on the pitch. This mindset extended beyond football, influencing his media career and his role as PFA chairman.

He addresses the dangers of modern business practices, expressing concern about large conglomerates losing touch with individual well-being. Andy and Pat discuss the shift towards empathic leadership and the potential pitfalls of prioritising the bottom line over human values.

As a chief executive and chairman, Pat discusses his experience in the football industry, shedding light on battles fought for the welfare of players and the challenges of negotiating television deals.

The discussion evolves into an exploration of values in decision-making. Pat’s rejection of certain roles and his commitment to staying true to himself, even in the face of potential financial gain, highlights the significance of aligning personal values with professional choices.

Pat Nevin shares a story about standing against homophobia and the pressure to conform in the football industry. His encouragement to be authentic to oneself, even in the face of societal norms, becomes a recurring theme. They conclude with a reflection on the changing landscape of acceptance, urging listeners to embrace diversity and individuality.

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Andy Lopata Author, Podcast Host and Speaker on Professional Relationships Strategy

Andy Lopata is a specialist speaker on professional relationships, mentoring, networking, and social media strategy. He is a firm believer that professional relationships underpin our success in business, our roles, and our careers. The right relationships with the right people can lead to new business opportunities, investment, collaborative working, innovation, and career progress. We just need to be comfortable approaching those relationships strategically, without making people feel ‘networked’ by us.

Andy has worked in the field of networking and professional relationships for 25 years, working with global giants such as Paypal, GSK, AstraZeneca, Wella, HSBC, Wembley Stadium, the BBC, and the Prime Minister’s Office of the UAE, among many others during that time. He has also worked with leading universities including NYU, Duke University, and Oxford University’s Said Business School.

A regular blogger for Psychology Today, Andy has been quoted in The Sunday Times, The Financial Times, and The Guardian, as well as many other national and regional newspapers and magazines worldwide. He has written or co-authored six books on networking and professional relationships, with his sixth book, "The Financial Times Guide to Mentoring," being published in Spring 2024. He is also the host of The Connected Leadership Podcast and has interviewed globally recognized names in business, academia, sports, and entertainment for the show.

Andy has been inducted into the PSAE Hall of Fame – the Professional Speaking Association Award of Excellence, which was held by only 21 other speakers at the time it was presented. He is a Fellow and a former President of the Fellows’ Community of the Professional Speaking Association (PSA), a Fellow of the Learning and Performance Institute (LPI), and a Member of the Association of Business Mentors and the Meetings Industry Association.