Welcome to another heartfelt episode of “Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity.” I’m your host, Todd Creager, and today, we're diving deep into the tender yet tumultuous waters of restoring sexual intimacy after the storm of infidelity has hit. It’s a sensitive, complex topic, and whether you’ve experienced this personally or know someone who has, this episode is crafted to shed light on the path to healing and reconnection.

In this episode, you’ll discover:

• Understanding the Impact: Learn how betrayal can vary widely in its impact on intimacy from one couple to another, affecting desires and sexual dynamics in profoundly different ways.
• Navigating Emotional Turbulence: I’ll share strategies on how to handle the immediate emotional aftermath of discovering an affair, including the natural tendencies toward shutdown and heightened Anxiety.
• Restoring Trust and Intimacy: Gain insights into the gradual process of rebuilding trust, with practical steps for both the betrayed and the betrayer to find their way back to a secure, intimate connection.
• Healing Together: We’ll explore the importance of facing the pain together, processing the betrayal, and making the relationship a safe space for both partners again.
• Building a Fulfilling Sexual Relationship Post-Infidelity: Find out how couples can eventually enjoy a rejuvenated sexual relationship by addressing the underlying emotional wounds and fostering honest communication.

Summary:
Restoring sexual intimacy after infidelity is no small feat; it requires patience, understanding, and a willingness to explore the depths of both pain and passion. This episode of “Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity” will not only help you understand these dynamics but also provide you with the tools and confidence to start healing. Whether you’re directly impacted by infidelity or are supporting someone through such a journey, there’s something valuable for you here.

Why listen to this podcast episode?
The journey through repairing a relationship after infidelity is complex and deeply personal. With empathy, expertise, and practical advice, this episode will guide you through the necessary steps to not only restore intimacy but to also rediscover it, perhaps even more deeply than before. Join me, Todd Creager, as we navigate these challenging but ultimately rewarding waters together. Let’s heal, learn, and grow together. Listen now to begin the journey back to love and intimacy.

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Todd Creager Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFT

Todd Creager is a marriage and sex therapist who helps couples create loving and passionate long-term relationships. He also is well known for helping couples heal from infidelity. He attributes his success to his ability to understand and help the client understand the deeper factors that block love and connection and contribute to self-sabotage. This understanding is followed up by healing processes that can unleash the innate potential of each partner. He is certified in EMDR, a trauma treatment that helps people move on from past difficult memories. He is the author of the highly acclaimed book, The Long Hot Marriage, and the Amazon bestseller- Love, Sex and Karaoke- 52 ways to Ignite Your Love Life. He newest video program titled Healing Infidelity from the Inside Out is a powerful, relationship-shifting experience for couples who want to heal from this challenging crisis. He has been a guest on numerous news shows about marriage and passion, been a therapist on the Oprah Winfrey Network’s show- Unfaithful and been on Playboy radio as well as other media appearances. Lastly- for twelve years he was a professor at USC teaching graduate students in subjects such as Human Sexuality, Psychological Theory, Leadership and Diversity.