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How to Sleep Better: Insomnia, Sleep Apnea & Sleep Quality with Dr. Benjamin Long

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  1. How to Sleep Better: Insomnia, Sleep Apnea & Sleep Quality with Dr. Benjamin Long Furkhan Dandia 1:30:24

Sleep affects nearly every aspect of our lives — from cognitive performance and emotional regulation to physical Health and recovery. Yet many people still misunderstand what truly makes sleep restorative.

In this episode of EZ Conversations, I speak with Dr. Benjamin Long, a dual board-certified sleep medicine physician and pediatrician, about the science of sleep and the habits that can dramatically improve sleep quality.

Dr. Long shares insights from both his clinical work and personal experience navigating sleep deprivation during medical training and parenthood. We explore the difference between sleep quantity and sleep quality, common sleep disorders, and the behavioural and environmental factors that influence our ability to sleep well.

We also dive into a fascinating topic rarely discussed in sleep science — the relationship among spirituality, religion, and sleep health.

Dr. Long’s passion for exploring the intersection of sleep and spirituality led him to write his debut book:

Sleep Habits Journal: Practices, Prayers, and Devotions to Ease Your Sleepless Nights.

  • Why sleep is essential for cognitive and emotional health

  • The difference between sleep quantity and sleep quality

  • The SATED framework for evaluating sleep health

  • How alcohol, Diet, light exposure, and screens impact sleep

  • The role of circadian rhythms and why timing matters

  • Why do many people misunderstand melatonin supplements

  • The effects of shift work and irregular sleep schedules

  • Understanding sleep disorders, including insomnia, sleep apnea, and narcolepsy

  • How overthinking and Stress contribute to insomnia

  • The concept of conditioned arousal and sleep Anxiety

  • Why journaling before bed can improve sleep

  • The surprising relationship between faith, spirituality, and sleep quality

  • Common myths about sleep, including “catching up” on lost sleep

  • When naps help — and when they hurt sleep quality

Sleep health is not just about how long you sleep. Quality sleep depends on multiple factors, including satisfaction, alertness, timing, efficiency, and duration.

Behavioural patterns, light exposure, and Lifestyle choices often influence sleep more than supplements or medications.

Dr. Benjamin Long is a dual board-certified sleep medicine physician and pediatrician. He is passionate about a holistic understanding of sleep, particularly exploring the intersection between sleep, spirituality, and religion.

His work integrates clinical sleep science with broader questions about meaning, rest, and human flourishing.

He lives in San Antonio, Texas, with his wife, their son, and their dog, Rolo.

Website
www.wholeheartedmd.com

Book
Sleep Habits Journal

More information
www.sleephabitsjournal.com

Social media
The Wholehearted MD

00:00:00 Welcome And Sleep Focus
00:00:43 Meet Dr. Long
00:01:36 Training And Sleep Loss
00:05:06 Sleep Goes Mainstream
00:06:49 Wearables And Orthosomnia
00:08:08 Pandemic Lifestyle Shifts
00:11:28 SATED Sleep Quality
00:16:56 Sleep Hygiene Basics
00:19:09 Sleep Stages Explained
00:21:46 Light And Melatonin Myths
00:24:25 Diet, Reflux, and Sleep
00:26:05 Cortisol Stress And Winddown
00:28:50 Melatonin Dosing And Uses
00:33:00 Shift Work Risks And Fixes
00:38:06 Anchor Sleep And Banking
00:41:28 Circadian Rhythm And Adenosine
00:43:21 Shift Work Sleep Strategy
00:45:19 Narcolepsy Testing Pitfalls
00:51:46 Sleep Apnea Signs Risks
00:55:31 Insomnia CBTI Framework
01:00:53 Journaling Without Conditioning
01:02:57 Spirituality Sleep Research
01:10:57 Ramadan Prayer Rhythms
01:18:04 Sleep Myths Naps Wrap

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Furkhan Dandia Therapist and Coach

I am a men's coach, therapist, group facilitator, podcaster and author. My journey began five years ago when I was going through a separation. I found myself alone and in a shame spiral that our culture and society covertly exert on people due to the perceived "failure" of a marriage. Unfortunately, I personalized that message which led me to fall deeper into a hole, causing me to surround myself with people that did not serve me and engage in substance abuse. While seeking therapy, I was not making the wholesale changes I needed.

As part of my experience with therapy, I realized that I am not alone in the challenges men my age experience (I separated at the age of 34/35). I realized I could be a voice for men like myself and offer support in this space. In the middle of the pandemic, I applied for a Master's degree in Psychology to become a therapist. This change was a significant shift for me as I worked in the corporate world as an engineer. Once I leaned into the space of supporting other men, I also started a podcast to normalize these difficult conversations and started a men's group a year later with the support of a friend.

I thought I was giving something back when I started the men's group. However, I quickly realized I was getting substantially more from the connections I built than I initially anticipated. It was also something I needed because I was going through another breakup.

At that point, I also realized that I had not taken the time to heal, and I was outsourcing my healing through romantic relationships, substances, material acquisitions and superficial relationships. I decided to step away from the outgoing lifestyle and started to focus on my healing which was another phase of evolution for me on my journey. Over the last year and a half, I have become mindful of the people I spend my time with. I have cleaned my lifestyle of substances, toxic environments and behaviours. I have focused on my sleep, my health and my knowledge. I have improved my spiritual relationship with myself, which was lacking the most over the past five years. This is the best I have felt.

As part of my solitude journey and to find myself again, I also released a book encapsulating my journey, which I hope to share with others. My book is titled: The Pursuit of Self-Love.