What Do Small Business Owners Need to Understand about Conflict? I have worked with a number of leaders and teams in small businesses. They, like bigger businesses and organizations, sometimes need help to navigate conflict and communicate effectively. Every business is unique, with its own set of strengths and challenges, but over time I have […]
<img loading="lazy" aria-describedby="caption-attachment-7284" data-attachment-id="7284" data-permalink="https://conflictremedy.com/habits-and-conflict/habit-stairs-001/" data-orig-file="https://i0.wp.com/conflictremedy.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/03/habit-stairs.001.jpeg?fit=1920%2C1080&ssl=1" data-orig-size="1920,1080" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{"aperture":"0","credit":"","camera":"","caption":"","created_timestamp":"0","copyright":"","focal_length":"0","iso":"0","shutter_speed":"0","title":"","orientation":"0"}" data-image-title="habit stairs.001" data-image-description="" data-image-caption=" Photo by Stefan Steinbauer on Unsplash ” data-medium-file=”https://i0.wp.com/conflictremedy.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/03/habit-stairs.001.jpeg?fit=300%2C169&ssl=1″ data-large-file=”https://i0.wp.com/conflictremedy.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/03/habit-stairs.001.jpeg?fit=1024%2C576&ssl=1″ class=”size-full wp-image-7284″ src=”https://i0.wp.com/conflictremedy.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/03/habit-stairs.001.jpeg?resize=1080%2C608&ssl=1″ alt=”staircase and habit” width=”1080″ height=”608″ data-recalc-dims=”1″ /> Photo by Stefan Steinbauer on Unsplash Habit and Conflict Do your habits affect how you experience and deal with conflict? The short answer—yes! […]
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Photo by Christina @ wocintechchat.com on Unsplash Good leaders navigate conflict skillfully. When I first began coaching managers, team leads, HR professionals and C Suite professionals, my focus was completely on helping them building skills to understand and navigate conflict and improve communication when things get tough. That is still an essential part of the […]
Photo by Annie Spratt on Unsplash Love yourself and don’t be a jerk is good advice for any conflict. Why? While I want my clients to see their contribution, to own their part in any problematic situation, self-blame doesn’t help you do this in any effective way. It actually makes you more likely to be […]
used with permission https://drandreadinardo.com The highly sensitive person I am a highly sensitive person (HSP), one of the estimated 20% of humans on the planet who are HSP. It can be both a gift and a curse and is often misunderstood by loved ones and people at work and even by ourselves. What makes someone […]
Photo by Afif Ramdhasuma on Unsplash Are you using blamespeak in difficult conversations? I heard someone use the term “blamespeak” recently and thought it was a very evocative succinct way to express what happens in many conflicts. Something goes wrong in communication, people feel attacked or discounted, and instead of listening or assuming good intention […]
Photo by Varvara Grabova on Unsplash How did you learn to turn your mistakes into stories? This was the thoughtful question Alesia Grace Thompson asked me during my interview on the Mediate.com Great Reads Book Club. Alesia was referring to my memoir, Angels & Earthworms. This was a very rich question for me, with implications […]
