The Show Up Framework: Empowering Parents of Preteens
- The Show Up Framework: Empowering Parents of Preteens The Fallible Man 1:10:38
Are you bracing yourself for the preteen years? In this eye-opening conversation, I sit down with Marcus Higgs, a presence coach for parents of preteens, who reveals why this stage isn’t something to fear, but an opportunity to forge an unbreakable bond with your child.
Through captivating insights and practical Wisdom, Marcus illuminates:
The “ICE” Model: Understanding Your Preteen’s Inner World
- Why your child’s shifting identity is a natural and necessary part of growth
- How to navigate the tricky waters of collaborative mistrust
- Practical strategies to support your preteen’s developing emotional management skills
The “Show Up” Framework: A Blueprint for Authentic Connection
- Start with a strong character identity: Harnessing your child’s unique strengths
- Hold space for collaboration: Fostering critical thinking and problem-solving skills
- Open up communication: Passing on values without being preachy
- Wonder and explore this world together: The power of shared projects and goals
Unveiling Potential Together: The Heart of the Framework
- Why letting go of the reins is crucial for your child’s development
- How to create an environment of mutual growth and flourishing
Marcus doesn’t just offer theory – he provides actionable steps you can implement today:
- Communicate unconditional acceptance (even when it’s challenging)
- Prioritize your own well-being to show up as your best self
- Embrace the present moment, knowing these years are fleeting
Whether you’re already navigating the preteen years or they’re on the horizon, this conversation will equip you with the tools to not just survive, but thrive during this transformative stage. Are you ready to reframe your perspective and build a relationship that will last a lifetime?
Tune in and discover how to become the trustworthy, present parent your preteen needs.
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Website – https://marcushiggs.com
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LinkedIn – https://www.linkedin.com/in/marcushiggs
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— Time Stamps —
00:00:00 Understanding and Navigating the Preteen Years
00:02:33 Introducing Marcus Higgs, the Presence Coach for Parents
00:15:35 FOR PEOPLE WHO WANT TO SKIP THE GET TO KNOW YOU SEGMENT – START HERE
00:18:17 The Essence of Being a Presence Coach for Parents
00:23:22 Understanding the Common Struggles of Preteens
00:27:57 Transitioning to a Coaching Parenting Style
00:28:52 Creating a Family Culture and Setting Expectations
00:30:30 Communication and Problem-Solving Approach
00:34:19 Dealing with Emotions in Preteens
00:36:22 Recognizing Signs of Emotional Distress in Preteens
00:43:41 Impact of Technology on Mental Health
00:46:52 Trust Economy in Parenting
00:47:29 The Importance of Character Strengths in Positive Psychology
01:01:52 Building a Strong Relationship with Preteens
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