What happens when a joke bombs in the boardroom? In this episode from the archives on humour, Andy Lopata brings in the headliners: two of the world’s funniest keynote speakers, Jeremy Nicholas from the UK and Tim Gard from the US.
This isn’t just about telling jokes; it’s a masterclass in the strategic use of humour to enhance leadership. Discover why the most successful leaders aren’t afraid to be playful, how humour can defuse conflict and reduce Stress, and why the most memorable lessons are wrapped in laughter.
From their fascinating and unconventional journeys—from a BBC newsdesk and a US welfare office to the global stage—Jeremy and Tim reveal their secrets. Learn how to navigate today’s sensitive culture without causing offence, what to do in the terrifying moment a joke falls flat, and why your sense of humour might be the most powerful tool in your leadership toolbox.
Key Takeaways From This Episode
- What is the “punch up, never punch down” filter, and why is it the golden rule for using humour in today’s corporate culture?
- Are the funniest leaders extroverts? The answer from a former BBC broadcaster and self-proclaimed introvert will surprise you.
- What should you do in the terrifying moment your joke falls completely flat in front of an important audience?
- Why did one of the world’s top humourists turn down a career in stand-up comedy because of a very simple, physical aversion?
3 Actionable Insights
-
Embrace Playfulness, Not Punchlines: You don’t have to be a comedian to use humour. Start by being more playful. Go slightly “off-piste” in conversations and meetings. Use a light-hearted aside or a self-deprecating comment. This releases endorphins, makes you more memorable, and builds rapport without the pressure of telling a formal joke.
-
Turn Stress into Material: The next time you’re in a frustrating situation—a delayed flight, a tech mishap—reframe it in your mind as “material.” As Jeremy Nicholas says, “It’s much cheaper than having an analyst.” This mental shift not only reduces your own stress but also gives you a relatable
story to share that builds connection with your team.
-
Create a Humour First-Aid Kit: Identify a few videos, skits, or memories that are guaranteed to make you laugh. When you’re feeling stressed or overwhelmed, use them intentionally to break the negative pattern. As Tim Gard explains, using humour for yourself is a vital stress-reduction tool that renews your energy and perspective.
SELECTED LINKS FROM THE EPISODE
Connect with Andy Lopata: Website | Instagram | LinkedIn | X/Twitter | YouTube
Connect with Jeremy Nicholas: Website |LinkedIn |
Connect with Tim Gard: Website |LinkedIn |
The Financial Times Guide to Mentoring
Episode Featuring Jeremy Nicholas and Tim Gard
Andy Lopata is a specialist speaker on professional relationships, mentoring, networking, and social media strategy. He is a firm believer that professional relationships underpin our success in business, our roles, and our careers. The right relationships with the right people can lead to new business opportunities, investment, collaborative working, innovation, and career progress. We just need to be comfortable approaching those relationships strategically, without making people feel ‘networked’ by us.
Andy has worked in the field of networking and professional relationships for 25 years, working with global giants such as Paypal, GSK, AstraZeneca, Wella, HSBC, Wembley Stadium, the BBC, and the Prime Minister’s Office of the UAE, among many others during that time. He has also worked with leading universities including NYU, Duke University, and Oxford University’s Said Business School.
A regular blogger for Psychology Today, Andy has been quoted in The Sunday Times, The Financial Times, and The Guardian, as well as many other national and regional newspapers and magazines worldwide. He has written or co-authored six books on networking and professional relationships, with his sixth book, "The Financial Times Guide to Mentoring," being published in Spring 2024. He is also the host of The Connected Leadership Podcast and has interviewed globally recognized names in business, academia, sports, and entertainment for the show.
Andy has been inducted into the PSAE Hall of Fame – the Professional Speaking Association Award of Excellence, which was held by only 21 other speakers at the time it was presented. He is a Fellow and a former President of the Fellows’ Community of the Professional Speaking Association (PSA), a Fellow of the Learning and Performance Institute (LPI), and a Member of the Association of Business Mentors and the Meetings Industry Association.
