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What Keeps Vets Alive After Service

  1. What Keeps Vets Alive After Service Scott DeLuzio 44:05

The Stress does not stay at work. It follows you into your Sleep, your Marriage, and your patience with your kids. Guest, Johnnie Gilpen, talks about a stretch in pediatric emergency medicine where he lost six kids in a short time and had to face a direct question from a colleague about how he was coping.
He explains the three supports he relies on: faith, three people he can call without hesitation, and counseling plus honest conversation. He connects it to a simple military idea, the three-man foxhole, and shows how to set that up in civilian life so you are not isolated when things get heavy.
He closes with writing and storytelling, including Warhorse Journal, and how putting events on paper can help your spouse understand what you have not been able to say out loud.

Timestamps:

  • 03:15: Losing six kids fast and the coping question
  • 04:45: The three supports he uses every time
  • 06:15: A Vietnam-era dad and the cost of staying silent
  • 11:00: Building a three-person call list and using it early
  • 28:30: Writing small stories that change home life

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Scott DeLuzio Host - Drive On Podcast

Scott is an Army veteran who served in the Connecticut Army National Guard as an Infantryman and was deployed to Afghanistan in 2010. Like many soldiers who deploy to combat, that deployment changed Scott forever. Drive On Podcast talks about the challenges soldiers face when coming back home. Reacquainting with loved ones, finding a purpose outside of the military, and the struggles that come with it all.

If we're going to get better, we have to start talking about the problems we're facing.