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What I Discussed With Aine Rock…Why having the "perfect" life on paper doesn't always mean you're living the life you truly want.The surprising difference between being happy, being comfortable and …

What I Discussed Wit…

What I Discussed With Aine Rock…Why having the "perfect" life on paper doesn't always mean you're living the life you truly want.The surprising difference between being happy, being comfortable and feeling genuinely alive.Why losing Intimacy often starts long before couples stop having sex.How reconnecting with pleasure can become the first step towards rebuilding your entire life.Why women often don't know what they want in bed—and how to begin discovering it.What happened when Áine and her husband experimented with opening their Marriage before deciding to separate.Why small daily pleas…

Why are so many women over 50 still sexually unsatisfied—and what can actually change that?In this episode of Sex Advice for Seniors, Suzanne Noble speaks with Malia Lazu, founder of Sunflower Spa, …

Why are so many wome…

Why are so many women over 50 still sexually unsatisfied—and what can actually change that?In this episode of Sex Advice for Seniors, Suzanne Noble speaks with Malia Lazu, founder of Sunflower Spa, about pleasure, Menopause, and why sexual satisfaction has less to do with your partner than you think.They explore how women can reconnect with their bodies, stay present during sex, and break free from patterns like faking orgasms, people-pleasing, and comparing themselves to others.If you’re navigating intimacy, desire, or confidence in later life, this episode offers a refreshing, honest per…

I keep hearing the same story from people who are looking for Love later in life: they want a relationship that feels good, but they’re not always sure how to tell the difference between real compat…

I keep hearing the s…

I keep hearing the same story from people who are looking for love later in life: they want a relationship that feels good, but they’re not always sure how to tell the difference between real compatibility and a temporary rush of attraction.In this episode of Sex Advice for Seniors, I speak with Dating and relationship coach Sandy Weiner, chief love officer at Last First Date, TEDx speaker, author of Choice Points in Dating, and host of the Last First Date podcast. We talk honestly about why so many people second-guess themselves in dating, why the spark can be misleading, and how to build a…

What if intimacy in later life isn’t really about sex at all?In this episode of Sex Advice for Seniors, I speak with George Goulburn, a straight male escort in his 50s, who works with women in their…

What if intimacy in …

What if intimacy in later life isn’t really about sex at all?In this episode of Sex Advice for Seniors, I speak with George Goulburn, a straight male escort in his 50s, who works with women in their 50s, 60s, 70s, and even 80s.What he shares challenges almost every assumption about escorting, desire, and connection in later life.Far from quick, transactional encounters, George’s clients are seeking something deeper: emotional connection, safety, touch, and the chance to feel seen and desired again, often after years or even decades without intimacy.We explore what women really want as they…

Most couples say their relationship is their top priority—but their time, energy, and attention often tell a different story.In this episode of Sex Advice for Seniors, I’m joined by relationship c…

Most couples say the…

Most couples say their relationship is their top priority—but their time, energy, and attention often tell a different story.In this episode of Sex Advice for Seniors, I’m joined by relationship coach and Relational Life Therapy practitioner Monica Tanner to explore what really keeps long-term couples connected, emotionally and sexually, well into their 60s, 70s, and beyond.We dive into Monica’s surprisingly simple “3% rule” - a powerful framework for maintaining intimacy, connection, and communication without needing to overhaul your entire life. We also unpack why resentment builds…

In this lively conversation with Dr. Trina Read, a globally recognised sexologist, author, and one of the “most trusted voices on long-term intimacy,” we discuss the new wave of sex toys, namely t…

In this lively conve…

In this lively conversation with Dr. Trina Read, a globally recognised sexologist, author, and one of the “most trusted voices on long-term intimacy,” we discuss the new wave of sex toys, namely those created by a company called Tracey’s Dog, which is “beta-ing” a toy called Drill Me. Yes, you read that correctly.A company that sounds like it should be making pet products, which is what it originally was, has now entered the world of “teledildonics” (apparently, that’s a thing) to create a product that allows you to have sex with, for example, a werewolf (Hugh Jackman, are you …

The wonderful Amara Charles and I talk about how to design your sexual life as you age. How to experience pleasure, and what if an ageing body isn’t broken, but is simply done performing?Can later l…

The wonderful Amara …

The wonderful Amara Charles and I talk about how to design your sexual life as you age. How to experience pleasure, and what if an ageing body isn’t broken, but is simply done performing?Can later life sex become freer, wiser, more playful and more intimate than the sex we had when we were younger? Listen and find out!Go to amaracharles.com to learn more about Amara’s work.Subscriber to Sex Advice for Seniors to hear about my weekly Substack Lives, my regular podcast . Paid subscribers also receive posts of a more intimate nature. :)Ready to Go Deeper?Upgrade to unlock more confidence, cla…

He was 22, drunk, and couldn't get an erection. That night followed him for the next decade.In this episode of Sex Advice for Seniors, Tom Jenkins, author of The Drunk Gambler with Erectile Dysfunctio…

He was 22, drunk, an…

He was 22, drunk, and couldn't get an erection. That night followed him for the next decade.In this episode of Sex Advice for Seniors, Tom Jenkins, author of The Drunk Gambler with Erectile Dysfunction, joins me for one of the most honest conversations I've had about ED. We get into addiction, performance Anxiety, why Cialis wasn't the answer, and the Lifestyle overhaul that actually worked. Tom's story is younger than my usual guests, but the patterns he describes- shame, silence, treating the symptom instead of the cause show up at every age.If you've been too embarrassed to have this conver…

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Everyone I know my age has a theory about why dating got so grim. My guest this week has a different one, and it stung a little.Scot McKay has coached men and women through dating for twenty years, an…

Everyone I know my a…

Everyone I know my age has a theory about why dating got so grim. My guest this week has a different one, and it stung a little.Scot McKay has coached men and women through dating for twenty years, and in all that time, I’d never once interviewed a male dating coach. He’s blunt, a bit contrarian, and he made a case I wasn’t expecting.If you’re struggling with unreliable erections, check out my new program: https://www.stayfirmprogram.comReady to Go Deeper?Upgrade to unlock more confidence, Clarity, and pleasure in your intimate life.As a paid subscriber, you’ll get:✨ Full access to…

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