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When a parent passes away or moves into a care facility, the quiet that follows can feel disorienting in ways nobody quite prepares you for. For years, even decades, your rhythms may have been shaped …

When a parent passes…

When a parent passes away or moves into a care facility, the quiet that follows can feel disorienting in ways nobody quite prepares you for. For years, even decades, your rhythms may have been shaped around their needs: the check-in calls, the appointments, the logistics, the emotional labor of watching someone you Love age. When that structure lifts, Grief and relief can arrive at the same time, and what's left can feel like a strange kind of emptiness. That void is real. Finding purpose and balance after a parent is gone and filling it intentionally, not just staying busy, but actually rebui…

As our loved one’s age, managing medications becomes increasingly complex—and potentially risky, but using this Simple Guide to Preventing Dangerous Drug Interactions in Seniors, can help reduce t…

As our loved one’s…

As our loved one’s age, managing medications becomes increasingly complex—and potentially risky, but using this Simple Guide to Preventing Dangerous Drug Interactions in Seniors, can help reduce that risk. Many seniors take multiple prescriptions, along with over-the-counter medications and supplements, which can sometimes interact in harmful ways. These drug interactions can lead to serious health issues, including dizziness, confusion, falls, and even hospitalization. Because Aging affects how the body processes medications, seniors are especially vulnerable. One of the biggest chall…

I just heard some very nice news: AboutAgingPrents.com has been honored by Feedstop.com. We were chosen as one of the Top 100 Aging Blogs. We're at #31. Check out this list. There are some very import…

I just heard some ve…

I just heard some very nice news: AboutAgingPrents.com has been honored by Feedstop.com. We were chosen as one of the Top 100 Aging Blogs. We're at #31. Check out this list. There are some very important blogs listed here. Caring for and managing the care of your aging loved ones is one of the most important roles and yet one of the most challenging and frustrating. The more resources, the better! Help us spread the news and encourage your friends and neighbors to follow us. You're all aslo welcome to Follow us on Facebook.   ©2009-present by Kathy Quan RN BSN PHN All Rights Reserved.

Travel after 60 often comes with new considerations: health routines, energy levels, mobility needs, and a stronger desire for comfort over chaos. The upside is experience. Seniors tend to plan better…

Travel after 60 ofte…

Travel after 60 often comes with new considerations: health routines, energy levels, mobility needs, and a stronger desire for comfort over chaos. The upside is experience. Seniors tend to plan better, rush less, and appreciate destinations more deeply. The goal isn’t to travel like you did at 30—it’s to travel smarter now. A Quick Orientation Before You Go Travel works best for seniors when three things are balanced: pacing, preparation, and protection. Build in rest, prepare for health and logistics ahead of time, and protect yourself—from minor hassles to major disruptions. When t…

 Image from PexelsWays In: Picking Up Something New That Might Stick There’s a particular silence that happens when hands are full. Not the dramatic kind—just a quieter sort of thinking. It migh…

 Image from PexelsW…

 Image from PexelsWays In: Picking Up Something New That Might Stick There’s a particular silence that happens when hands are full. Not the dramatic kind—just a quieter sort of thinking. It might be a brush hitting canvas, or kneading dough until the stickiness changes. Could be code. Could be chords. The point isn’t what it is. The point is that something happens when people start making time for a thing that doesn’t demand perfection. Hobbies aren’t always tidy. They don’t start with Clarity or finish with mastery. Sometimes they’re just... a way back into your own mind. Bei…

 You’ve planned the flights, packed the bags, and finally carved out time to get away. But your mind won’t stay put when your parent’s care is still sitting at home. Whether it’s a few days o…

 You’ve planned t…

 You’ve planned the flights, packed the bags, and finally carved out time to get away. But your mind won’t stay put when your parent’s care is still sitting at home. Whether it’s a few days or a few weeks, leaving someone you’re responsible for can pull your focus, raise your Stress, and turn rest into a running checklist. That’s normal — and it’s fixable. With a little upfront planning, you can keep care flowing smoothly without being in the room. The goal isn’t to do it all remotely — just to make sure what matters most doesn’t fall through while you’re gone. Stay c…

One thing we all have in common is birthdays. We each were birthed from a mother and we each have that special day every year to celebrate us. The details and circumstances are unique to each of us, b…

One thing we all hav…

One thing we all have in common is birthdays. We each were birthed from a mother and we each have that special day every year to celebrate us. The details and circumstances are unique to each of us, but we all have birthdays. And we all have the power to make them great birthdays. We deserve it! Take charge and ensure your birthday is the best.  How we celebrate, why we celebrate and If we celebrate are also details unique to each of us. I just finished a thought provoking book, How to Have a Happy Birthday Create Meaning, Fulfillment and Joy on Your Special Day by Tamar Hurwitz-Fleming. I w…

Another new year is upon us. Happy New Year 2025! I hope you all had Happy Holidays whatever you celebrate and are settling in to more normal times. The news was scary yesterday with the terrorist att…

Another new year is …

Another new year is upon us. Happy New Year 2025! I hope you all had Happy Holidays whatever you celebrate and are settling in to more normal times. The news was scary yesterday with the terrorist attack in New Orleans and the explosion of the Tesla truck in Las Vegas in front of Trump Tower. I hope this is not an indication of how 2025 is going to go!!! Hoping for a much more peaceful year throughout the world!Dealing with aging relatives and being sandwiched between caring for them and your growing children and or grandchildren presents enough challenges and issues! Please be sure to take ti…

Share the LOVE... ©2009-present by Kathy Quan RN BSN PHN All Rights Reserved.

Share the LOVE... …

Share the LOVE... ©2009-present by Kathy Quan RN BSN PHN All Rights Reserved.

ECDOL stands for Excellent Care, Decency, & Optimal Living. We aim to help seniors and their families find the most reliable and appropriate independent living, assisted living, and home healthcar…

ECDOL stands for Exc…

ECDOL stands for Excellent Care, Decency, & Optimal Living. We aim to help seniors and their families find the most reliable and appropriate independent living, assisted living, and home healthcare options. Family and seniors can access an extensive directory to choose their state and find senior living options and by province in Canada. Our directory includes contact information for facilities in your region so you can quickly contact a senior care provider to see if they are the right fit for you or your aging loved one. We also include services provided, amenities, and housing features …

I am currently a party to a situation where a relative has died and left no instructions, will or trust. It's sad because no one knows if the person wants to be cremated or buried. We don't know if th…

I am currently a par…

I am currently a party to a situation where a relative has died and left no instructions, will or trust. It's sad because no one knows if the person wants to be cremated or buried. We don't know if there's a paid plot or cremation service, and even moving his remains from the county morgue has been an ordeal. This person was found dead in a wellness check that a neighbor called for and the coroner was called. So fortunately, there was  no need for medical advice or attempts at resuscitation. But had s/he been found alive, apparently not having a Power of Attorney for Healthcare would have be…