You had a great first date. There was connection, laughter, maybe even a kiss. He followed up afterward… and then suddenly, he went quiet.

Now you’re left wondering: Do I reach out? Do I wait? Did I do something wrong?

Before you spiral, take a breath. This moment isn’t about decoding him. It’s about how you show up for yourself.

Here are five grounded, empowering ways to handle when a man goes silent after a great first date.

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