I often discuss confidence, breaking outdated rules, and owning our style, regardless of our age. But every once in a while, something a little more personal pops up in my inbox that really hits home. One of you lovely readers recently asked for a pep talk about dental work and then shared the quote below.
Quote of the day: “Fix the parts that are broken and move on.” Liza Minnelli
Without knowing this reader’s exact details regarding dental work, I thought it appropriate as a retired dentist to give some insights and upliftment.
Maybe it’s time to have a heart-to-heart about dental work, whether that’s getting a bridge, partial dentures, or whatever solution your mouth may need, without guilt, fear, or embarrassment.
I’ve shared other articles about dental work in the past if you want more insights.
–Yay or nay on dental care products
–Dental advice from a retired dentist
–Tips for anxious patients and more
Insider tip: Cost for dental work is always a factor, and there are low-cost options available. Many Arizonans go down to Mexico, and I’ve heard the quality is good. They may push you to do more than what’s needed, but remember it’s your choice.
Dental schools also give great quality work at a discount.
It’s easier to analyze the Emotions since I’m not working among the trees, so to speak.
I realize there is a lot of fear and even shame in regards to dental work. Yet taking care of ourselves is not just good, it’s critical.
So many people need dental work. Teeth aren’t immune to time, genetics, accidents, or simply living life. Maybe you ground your teeth in your Sleep. Maybe you had a rough fall. Who cares?
Let’s stop thinking of dental issues as something shameful. If your car got a flat tire, you’d fix it. If your glasses break, you don’t think twice about replacing them. And your teeth? They’re part of your beautiful, expressive face that smiles, talks, eats, and kisses the people you Love.
Dental work has come a long way, and if you find the right provider, it will make the “fix” easier.
There are more options than ever when it comes to replacing missing or damaged teeth. Whether you’re considering a bridge, partial dentures, or even implants, these are tools to help you eat comfortably, smile confidently, and maintain the structure of your face.
It’s not vain to want your smile to look nice. It’s human. And if the phrase “partial denture” makes you cringe because it reminds you of something your grandpa had in a cup next to his sink, I’m here to tell you that’s outdated thinking. The materials and techniques now are miles ahead of where they were even a decade ago.
Insider tip: While many people think back teeth aren’t as important because you can’t see them, in reality, they are more important because they are the “chewers.” If you use the front teeth for chewing, they will wear out faster.
Just like we style clothes in a modern way, we can approach dental solutions with modern grace too.
Here’s the thing no one tells you: dental work is about more than chewing or appearance. When you don’t replace missing teeth, your other teeth shift.
Your bite can change.
Your jawbone may even begin to shrink, leading to changes in your facial structure.
It’s all about Health, function, and long-term wellness.
And when you do fix those teeth? Something magical happens. It’s like when you put on an amazing outfit. You FEEL better.
In the world of fashion, we talk about statement necklaces, bold shoes, or a print purse. But guess what else is a fabulous accessory?
Your smile.
It’s yours, and it never goes out of style.
It connects you to people before you say a word.
It shows kindness, playfulness, and confidence. And if there’s a gap, crack, or wobble that makes you self-conscious? That’s not doing you any favors.
Because, as Eugenia said recently, “We only go around once,” which translates to life is short, thus we should fix what makes you feel bad.
Let me ask you something: If your friend broke her ankle, would you tell her not to fix it because she’s not going to be up dancing all night anymore?
Of course not. We know it would heal on its own, but maybe not the right way.
You’d say, “Get it fixed, feel better, and let’s go shopping!”
Dental work is no different.
It’s not a failure nor a vanity project. It’s a smart, proactive, self-respecting decision. We should choose to feel better, look better, and live better.
It can be hard because dental work is expensive, takes time, and definitely not as fun as shopping. But once it’s done, it’s worth every penny and every minute.
No matter what body part needs fixing…just tend to it. Care for it. Upgrade it if necessary. And then go live your life like the glamorous, unstoppable woman you are.
We are all a little bit patchwork, and that’s okay. We are still masterpieces.
Insider tip: The Japanese call this “Kintsugi“. That’s the mindset we need to embrace the flawed or imperfect.
As someone who has been on both sides of the dental chair, as the doctor and the patient, I want you to hear this loud and clear:
You are fabulous. You are smart. And you are courageous for even considering doing something to improve your health and confidence.
As a cosmetic dentist, I had patients who hid their smiles for years, until they got the work done; afterwards, they practically glowed. I’ve seen happy tears in my dental chair more times than I can count. Not because of vanity, but because of freedom.
I love the idea of pep talks. Some of what I write is a reminder for myself. This one is for a special reader. But they can all apply to us at some point or another.
–Ditch the age dress code
–Perfectly Imperfect
-If you need a reminder of how fabulous you are, try the reverse bucket list challenge.
Your body is not failing you, it’s evolving. And evolving things need maintenance. We take our cars in for tune-ups. We replace the air filters in our house. Your mouth deserves that same love and care.
So if you’re debating whether to go for the dental work, consider this your sign: YES. Do it. You deserve to eat, speak, and smile without worry.
And when it’s done, don’t downplay it, celebrate it because you are worth it.
As older, wonderful women, we are not defined by what’s missing. We are defined by how brightly we shine despite it.
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