Ever feel like sex is just another thing on the To Do list that you’d rather keep putting off?

You’re not alone and you’re not broken!

SO many women don’t look forward to or enjoy sex — and it’s largely not for the reasons you’d think!

Today I’m joined by Mental Health and sex therapist, Courtney Boyer, who literally wrote the book on this, called “Not Tonight, Honey.”

Listen and learn how we’ve ended up here and what you can do about it.

Courtney Boyer, M.Ed., M.S. is a relationship and sexuality expert and author of Not Tonight, Honey: Why women actually don’t want sex and what we can do about it. Courtney believes we can reclaim our power through our sexuality and she helps her clients to infuse passion and creativity into their lives by helping them uncover what’s preventing them from connecting with their priorities and purpose. 

As her work in this field develops, Courtney is drawn to the emerging fields of epigenetics, neuropsychology and energy work. She is trained in evidence-based methods like NLP, EMDR, IFS, and Trauma-focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy.

Buy her book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C2S6B66L?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_RRDQ5BP3CEW4V6H83GB4

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Esther Avant Health & Weight Loss Coach

Esther Avant is a health industry veteran with over 17 years of experience in fitness, nutrition, and wellness related roles. She is a certified sports nutritionist, personal trainer, wellness coach, and owner of EA Coaching, which has provided holistic health & lifestyle coaching since 2015.

Her mission is to help women live their happiest, healthiest, and most confident lives and to change the fact that the majority of women are so preoccupied with their weight and bodies that they never fully pursue their passions. She knows that if more women prioritized their health, they’d be able to unleash the confidence and focus they all need to leave their mark on the world

Esther is also a boy mom and Navy wife who has lived and traveled all over the world while running her EA Coaching.