<img loading="lazy" aria-describedby="caption-attachment-7361" data-attachment-id="7361" data-permalink="https://conflictremedy.com/us-versus-them/us_them5/" data-orig-file="https://i0.wp.com/conflictremedy.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/06/us_them5.jpg?fit=1920%2C1483&ssl=1" data-orig-size="1920,1483" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{"aperture":"0","credit":"","camera":"","caption":"","created_timestamp":"0","copyright":"","focal_length":"0","iso":"0","shutter_speed":"0","title":"","orientation":"0"}" data-image-title="Us versus Them" data-image-description=" Us versus Them–thumbs up/thumbs down ” data-image-caption=” Image by John Hain from Pixabay ” data-medium-file=”https://i0.wp.com/conflictremedy.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/06/us_them5.jpg?fit=300%2C232&ssl=1″ data-large-file=”https://i0.wp.com/conflictremedy.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/06/us_them5.jpg?fit=1024%2C791&ssl=1″ class=”size-full wp-image-7361″ src=”https://i0.wp.com/conflictremedy.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/06/us_them5.jpg?resize=1080%2C834&ssl=1″ alt=”Us versus Them–thumbs up/thumbs down” width=”1080″ height=”834″ data-recalc-dims=”1″ /> Image by John Hain from Pixabay Us versus Them “We have met the enemy […]

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<img loading="lazy" aria-describedby="caption-attachment-7230" data-attachment-id="7230" data-permalink="https://conflictremedy.com/cooperation-not-violence-in-the-real-lord-of-the-flies/shipwreck1/" data-orig-file="https://i0.wp.com/conflictremedy.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/12/shipwreck1-scaled.jpg?fit=1707%2C2560&ssl=1" data-orig-size="1707,2560" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{"aperture":"0","credit":"","camera":"","caption":"","created_timestamp":"0","copyright":"","focal_length":"0","iso":"0","shutter_speed":"0","title":"","orientation":"0"}" data-image-title="shipwreck1" data-image-description=" wrecked boat alone on a deserted beach ” data-image-caption=” Photo by Konstantin Dyadyun on Unsplash ” data-medium-file=”https://i0.wp.com/conflictremedy.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/12/shipwreck1-scaled.jpg?fit=200%2C300&ssl=1″ data-large-file=”https://i0.wp.com/conflictremedy.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/12/shipwreck1-scaled.jpg?fit=683%2C1024&ssl=1″ class=”size-full wp-image-7230″ src=”https://i0.wp.com/conflictremedy.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/12/shipwreck1-scaled.jpg?resize=1080%2C1620&ssl=1″ alt=”cooperation not conflict in the real lord of the flies” width=”1080″ height=”1620″ data-recalc-dims=”1″ /> Photo by Konstantin Dyadyun on Unsplash Cooperation not Violence […]

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<img loading="lazy" aria-describedby="caption-attachment-7113" data-attachment-id="7113" data-permalink="https://conflictremedy.com/creating-an-inclusive-diverse-workplace/happyworkerslaptopsm/" data-orig-file="https://i0.wp.com/conflictremedy.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/06/happyworkerslaptopsm-scaled.jpeg?fit=2560%2C1708&ssl=1" data-orig-size="2560,1708" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{"aperture":"0","credit":"","camera":"","caption":"","created_timestamp":"0","copyright":"","focal_length":"0","iso":"0","shutter_speed":"0","title":"","orientation":"1"}" data-image-title="happyworkers+laptopsm" data-image-description="" data-image-caption=" Photo by Christina @ wocintechchat.com on Unsplash ” data-medium-file=”https://i0.wp.com/conflictremedy.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/06/happyworkerslaptopsm-scaled.jpeg?fit=300%2C200&ssl=1″ data-large-file=”https://i0.wp.com/conflictremedy.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/06/happyworkerslaptopsm-scaled.jpeg?fit=1024%2C683&ssl=1″ class=”size-full wp-image-7113″ src=”https://i0.wp.com/conflictremedy.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/06/happyworkerslaptopsm-scaled.jpeg?resize=1080%2C721&ssl=1″ alt=”diversity, microaffirmations” width=”1080″ height=”721″ data-recalc-dims=”1″ /> Photo by Christina @ wocintechchat.com on Unsplash Creating an inclusive, diverse workplace How do you create an inclusive, diverse workplace informed by DEIB efforts […]

Photo by Annie Spratt on Unsplash Love yourself and don’t be a jerk is good advice for any conflict. Why? While I want my clients to see their contribution, to own their part in any problematic situation, self-blame doesn’t help you do this in any effective way. It actually makes you more likely to be […]

Photo by Baran Lotfollahi on Unsplash Is conflict transformation a Hero’s Journey? Last week I attended a beautiful workshop on the Hero’s Journey, offered by Stella Orange and Rebecca Liston of Las Peregrinas. Their approach is based in part on Joseph Campbell’s, and they apply it primarily to business and marketing. Listening to their eloquent […]

Photo by David Marcu on Unsplash Reflections: How did you do this year with conflict and courage? I’ve been reflecting on 2022 and the courage my clients and I have shown in dealing with conflict, inner and outer. As those of you who have been reading my blog for a while know, I write a […]

used with permission https://drandreadinardo.com The highly sensitive person I am a highly sensitive person (HSP), one of the estimated 20% of humans on the planet who are HSP. It can be both a gift and a curse and is often misunderstood by loved ones and people at work and even by ourselves. What makes someone […]

Photo by Icons8 Team on Unsplash Toxic co-workers or bosses can create big problems at work. As a workplace conflict transformation consultant, coach, and trainer, I have assisted many of my individual and organizational conflict clients who have had issues with toxic people in their workplaces. What are signs that a coworker is toxic? There […]