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Finding Mary Smith: A DNA Search Across Decades with Al Isaacs

  1. Finding Mary Smith: A DNA Search Across Decades with Al Isaacs Boom With A Bang! 1:09:54

What would you do if the story of your life suddenly changed at age fifty-two?

When Al Isaacs learned—almost accidentally—that he had been adopted through the “gray-market” adoption practices of the late 1960s, it set him on a journey through DNA testing, genealogy research, and long-buried Family secrets that would ultimately reconnect him with his birth mother’s story.

In this episode:

• The moment a doctor casually revealed the truth about Al’s adoption
• Why his parents’ dementia made the search both urgent and complicated
• The surprising clue that helped him find his birth mother, a folk singer named Mary Smith
• How DNA testing is reshaping what “family secrets” even mean today
• Why some late-discovery adoptees feel their identity shattered—and why Al experienced it differently
• What people considering a search for their origins should understand before they begin

Sometimes the truth doesn’t arrive when we expect it—but when it finally does, it can change how we understand our entire story.

Find Al and his memoir at https://www.alisaacs.com/

Learn more about Al and find all his links at https://boomwithabang.com/the-boomer-womans-podcast-al-isaacs/

 

I’ve probably done most of the things you expect a woman my age to have done: married and divorced; three children; variety of jobs over the years including a couple of home-based businesses and, finally, a pretty good career; gave up that career (and home and life) to move and take care of a dementing mother; adult daughter moved back home with a baby; financial struggles; sucker-punched by the post-2007 economy. You tell a similar story.

My podcast is for Boomer Women. A variety of subjects, a variety of viewpoints... and open to suggestions if I'm not covering a topic you want to hear about.