Her Magic and Kindness Touched Not Only her Family But Also Those In Need With Guest Family Patterns Expert, Systemic Coach and Author, Judy Wilkins Smith
- Her Magic and Kindness Touched Not Only her Family But Also Those In Need With Guest Family Patterns Expert, Systemic Coach and Author, Judy Wilkins Smith 32:45
In 2024, Judy released her book, “The Hidden Power in Your DNA.” She’s also published “Decoding Your Emotional Blueprint,” and you can get more information about placing an order on her website. The information is below.
Judy immediately told me that she’s not one that doesn’t love her mother. She and her mother are very close and she can’t say enough great things about her experience as a child. Shirley created a wonderful environment to experience as a child. “Her parents were strict but loving. Judy says she knew what her boundaries were in terms of not just outward but inward. I never felt like it was so strict, I couldn’t breathe. I knew what discipline looked like.”
Shirley used to say “if you’re going to do something, do it properly or don’t bother.” And Judy interprets that by saying, “there’s a whole bunch of magic in doing something really, really well. Invest in yourself and it makes soul magic. Investing in yourself through that process, it makes soul magic.”
Judy goes on to describe how when her mum was working in the garden, she put her two daughter’s in a wheelbarrow when they were little girls. Shirley lined the wheelbarrow with a blanket and filled it with snacks, drinks, books and things to play with and it is to this day one of Judy’s fondest memories. Again, Shirley always created magic.
Judy loves everything Disney, again because it’s magical. And Judy suggests you “watch Encanto and Frozen because you are the magic, you are the imagineer, you are the one who can make it happen. You are the creator of what’s possible.”
As we were saying goodbye to one another, Judy professed, “mothers are amazing. “And every single gift your mother ever gave you was meant for you, because it grows you the way that you can be and only you can be, don’t forget it. Even when the gift doesn’t look great.”
Hope you enjoy the episode. There’s so many more wonderful stories about Judy, her mother and Judy’s step daughter and their loving relationship. Judy is so grateful for all that her mother taught her and how she was raised.
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JUDY SAYS -*”DON’T BE INTIMIDATED BE CURIOUS”
-SYSTEMIC WORK AND ORGANIZATIONAL CONSTELLATIONS, GENERATIONS AT WORK FOR FAMILY. YOUR PROBLEMS DIDN’T’ NECESSARILY BELONG TO YOU. YOU INHERENT EMOTIONAL DNA, IE HOLOCAUST SURVIVORS-IT’S ALL PASSED DOWN. BREAK CYCLES OR PATTERNS. I DON’T WANT TO DO WHAT DAD DID AND HE DIDN’T MAKE IT.
– LOOK AT YOUR FAMILY PATTERN, HOW IS IT AFFECTING YOU.
-JUDY SAYS-THE UNIVERSE HAS A SENSE OF HUMOR.
-FATHER KILLED AS HE WAS PLANNING FAMILY IMMIGRATION WHILE IN THE UNITED STATES. DESTABILIZED THE FAMILY. SHE BEGAN TO UNDERSTAND, THE POWER OF LOOKING AT FAMILY SYSTEM, POWER THAT LOOKS LIKE REJECTION OR FRACTURES. HOW FAMILY FRACTURES BEGIN TO SEE EVERY EVENT/ELEMENT OF YOUR LIFE IS IN SERVICE OF YOUR HIGHER GOOD.
-BORN AND RAISED IN SOUTH AFRICA. MOVED TO THE UNITED STATES AS AN ADULT.
-JUDY SHOW’S PEOPLE HOW TO MAKE THEIR OWN MAGIC.
-I CAN MAKE A DIFFERENCE WITH MY VOICE, I’M NOT SMALL OR INCAPABLE.
-FEEL UNSTUCK-WHEN YOU COME TO A WORKSHOP, HIGHLY INTERACTIVE, EXPERIENTIAL, ALL ABOUT YOU-MOVE FROM WHAT IF TO WHAT’S POSSIBLE.
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“A Heartfelt and Insightful Exploration of Maternal Love”
Jackie Tantillo’s “Should Have Listened To My Mother” Podcast is a treasure and it’s clear why it’s a 2023 People’s Choice Podcast Award Nominee. This show delves into the profound impact mother and maternal role models have on our lives through personal stories and reflections.
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