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March 25th, 2026

Kohila Sivas: Owning Your Narrative and Taking Ultimate Control of Your Brain

  1. Kohila Sivas: Owning Your Narrative and Taking Ultimate Control of Your Brain David Pasqualone 45:05

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“You own your narratives, so you own your brain. It doesn’t own you.” ~ Kohila Sivas

The Power of Perspective: Kohila Sivas on Brain Ownership and Healing

What if your brain wasn’t your master, but your student? In this deeply moving and transformative episode of The Remarkable People Podcast, Kohila Sivas joins David Pasqualone to share her journey from a silent child struggling in a new country to a powerful advocate for mental sovereignty.

From Silence to Strength: A Journey of Survival

At just 12 years old, Kohila faced a darkness that led her to a suicide attempt. She opens up about the “seeds” planted in her mind by a difficult home life and the struggle to fit into a new culture. However, it was her survival that led to a paradigm shift: the realization that the brain can betray us with compelling lies, and that we have the power to write our own narrative.

Questioning the Narrative: How to Take Control of Your Mind

Kohila explains that we are often taught we have no control over our thoughts, but the truth is the opposite. By becoming “like a lawyer” and challenging every toxic or negative thought, we can reclaim our willpower.

 

KEY TIMESTAMPS & MOMENTS OF GOLD

  • 00:01:11The Core Guarantee: Why owning your narrative is the key to life.
  • 00:01:43The Turning Point: Surviving a suicide attempt at age 12.
  • 00:03:46The Silent Child: Struggles with culture, language, and an alcoholic home.
  • 00:05:31The Lawyer Method: How to challenge and question every negative thought.
  • 00:06:43Ultimate Control: Reclaiming your willpower from toxic influences.

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THE NOT-SO-FINE-PRINT DISCLAIMER: 

While we are very thankful for all of our guests, please understand that we do not necessarily share or endorse the same beliefs, worldviews, or positions that they may hold. We respectfully agree to disagree in some areas, and thank God for the blessing and privilege of free will.

For more Remarkable Episodes, Inspiration, and Motivation, please visit https://davidpasqualone.com/remarkable-people-podcast/ now!

David Pasqualone is a born again believer in God, father of 2 amazing teens, a life-long learner, self-appointed Guinea pig for anything he promotes. A Marketing Guru and Professional Coach by day. A Podcast Host and cigar enthusiast by night.

David loves motivating people and organizations to clarify their purpose, mission, and vision. To lead them out of the confusion of the world, and into the light so they can know clarity, get excited about their purpose, and achieve the vision set before them.

Leading by example, David inspires those around him to be the best version of themselves, take action to “DO” what they need to do each day, and steadfastly see their purpose through to completion!

To learn more about what David believes and why, checkout his website at https://DavidPasqualone.com

For a professional look at David and some of his experiences, visit his digital resume on LinkedIn. For a more personal look at David’s life, feel free to visit his Facebook page. Or, check out The Remarkable People Podcast to really get a feel for who David is.