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Having
friends is a cornerstone of a happy and fulfilling life. Friends offer
emotional support, help reduce feelings of loneliness, and foster a sense of
belonging. They also encourage a healthier Lifestyle through engaging in activities that benefit both mental and physical well-being. For seniors,
maintaining friendships is crucial in combating social isolation and nurturing
a sense of community and connection.

However,
making new friends can be challenging for some of us due to various factors.
Retirement, limited mobility, and the end of regular social activities often
reduce opportunities for social interactions. Relocation, the death of a
spouse, or the loss of old friends can further shrink social circles, leading to
feelings of isolation. Physical or cognitive health issues may hinder
participation in social events, and difficulty with Technology can prevent
seniors from connecting online, where many social interactions now occur.

 Additionally, ageism and negative stereotypes about Aging can make some of us feel
undervalued in social settings, discouraging us from seeking new friendships.
The fear of not fitting in or being rejected, along with life changes such as
retirement or health issues impacting self-esteem, can make reaching out and
sustaining new friendships more difficult.

Overcoming
these challenges involves creating accessible social opportunities, providing
support for seniors, challenging ageist attitudes, and fostering an inclusive
environment. One effective strategy is to identify hobbies or interests and
join clubs, classes, or groups that align with them. Activities like book
clubs, volunteer groups, fitness classes, and workshops are great for meeting
people with similar interests. Potential friends could also be found among work
colleagues, neighbours, fellow pet owners, and grandparents of your
grandchildren’s classmates. Connecting with these individuals through shared
experiences can be a great starting point.

Using your
existing Relationships to expand your social circle can also be effective.
Don’t be shy to leverage your current friendships to meet new people. Friends
of friends often share common interests and values. When organizing group
gatherings, prioritize setting a date that works for most people instead of
delaying for the perfect time—there is no perfect date or time, and life can
slip by while waiting.

Even brief
interactions, like a quick coffee date or a casual text, can help maintain and
grow friendships. The connection itself is what matters, not the length of the
engagement. Reaching out to old friends you’ve lost touch with can also be
worthwhile. They may be feeling the same hesitation, so a simple message to
reconnect can revive the friendship.

Engaging
with current media, like popular shows, books, or podcasts, provides easy
conversation starters and helps you join in general social discussions.
Contrary to the belief that talking less makes you more likable, research
suggests that engaging more in conversations makes you appear more interesting
and likable. Asking questions about the other person is a great way to do this,
as everyone has a story to tell, and they are just waiting for someone to ask.

Once you’ve
established new friendships, it’s essential to maintain them. Keep in touch
regularly, even if it’s through brief messages or calls. Schedule regular
meetups or activities to ensure continued interaction. Show interest in your
friends’ lives and offer support when needed. Building and maintaining
friendships as a senior requires effort and persistence, but the rewards are
invaluable.

Originally Published on https://boomersnotsenior.blogspot.com/

I served as a teacher, a teacher on Call, a Department Head, a District Curriculum, Specialist, a Program Coordinator, and a Provincial Curriculum Coordinator over a forty year career. In addition, I was the Department Head for Curriculum and Instruction, as well as a professor both online and in person at the University of Phoenix (Canada) from 2000-2010.

I also worked with Special Needs students. I gave workshops on curriculum development and staff training before I fully retired

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