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By Rosalind Sedacca, CDC It's no secret that one of the biggest challenges divorced parents face is staying in good communication with your children. Obviously, all parents struggle with communication…

By Rosalind Sedacca,…

By Rosalind Sedacca, CDC It's no secret that one of the biggest challenges divorced parents face is staying in good communication with your children. Obviously, all parents struggle with communication issues as their children grow. But children whose lives are dramatically altered by separation or divorce need even more attention. And diligent observation by their parents. Here are some tips that most professionals agree on to encourage positive and productive communication between you and your children. Many of these are obvious or innate behaviors. Some, however, can easily be forgotten amid…

By Rosalind Sedacca, CDC Too many divorces are being scarred by "Unconscious Unparenting!" -- leaving the children to pay the price! Why is the concept of Child-Centered, Amicable or Collaborative Div…

By Rosalind Sedacca,…

By Rosalind Sedacca, CDC Too many divorces are being scarred by "Unconscious Unparenting!" -- leaving the children to pay the price! Why is the concept of Child-Centered, Amicable or Collaborative Divorce so threatening for some?  Perhaps because it suggests having to own the part we played in the dissolution of our Marriage. Perhaps because it means we can't play the victim -- venting about the horrible person we married while craving sympathy from anyone who will listen. Maybe it's threatening because it means we have to take our children into account and step up to co-Parenting maturely wi…

By Rosalind Sedacca, CDC Children tend not to tell you when they are angry, resentful, confused, hurt or depressed. Instead, they reflect their problems through their behavior - acting out or perhaps …

By Rosalind Sedacca,…

By Rosalind Sedacca, CDC Children tend not to tell you when they are angry, resentful, confused, hurt or depressed. Instead, they reflect their problems through their behavior - acting out or perhaps turning inward in ways that you have not experienced prior to the divorce. Check out these tips for seeing the world through your child's eyes and communicating effectively with them during and after divorce: 1. Asking why can be intimidating and close off your conversation. Instead, ask what happened questions, which keep the dialogue open. 2. Be patient. Don't react or respond until you get the …

By Rosalind Sedacca, CDC April is Child Abuse Prevention Month, a time to think about protecting our children not only from overt harm. It’s equally important to focus on avoiding the emotional wou…

By Rosalind Sedacca,…

By Rosalind Sedacca, CDC April is Child Abuse Prevention Month, a time to think about protecting our children not only from overt harm. It’s equally important to focus on avoiding the emotional wounds that can stem from unchecked conflict between parents. Accountability, as well as consistency and respect, are safeguards that shape a child’s sense of Security and well-being. Adapting these principles to co-parenting with a mindset rooted in protection and Love can make all the difference in daily life for children of divorce. Keep the Focus Where It Belongs: On The Children When tensions …

By Rosalind Sedacca, CDC When we are in the midst of life Trauma it is very difficult to experience anything but the pain, disappointment, hurt and anguish related to that experience. That’s only na…

By Rosalind Sedacca,…

By Rosalind Sedacca, CDC When we are in the midst of life trauma it is very difficult to experience anything but the pain, disappointment, hurt and anguish related to that experience. That’s only natural. But very often, looking back in hindsight, we can find meaning, relevance, valuable lessons and insights that were the direct result of those major life challenges.  Without that life-altering event, we would not become the people we are today. I look upon that result as the gift I received from the experience and the Wisdom gleaned. It became the turning point I needed to move on to a new…

By Rosalind Sedacca, CDC Getting psyched up to tell your children about your pending divorce -- or separation? Not sure what to say? When to say it? How to say it? What to expect after the conversatio…

By Rosalind Sedacca,…

By Rosalind Sedacca, CDC Getting psyched up to tell your children about your pending divorce -- or separation? Not sure what to say? When to say it? How to say it? What to expect after the conversation? What to do next? How to deal with your special circumstances? What therapists, mediators, attorneys and other professionals suggest you do and don't do to make things better all around? Well, you're not alone. Having the "divorce talk" with a child you love is one of the toughest conversations you'll ever have. Shouldn't you be prepared? Professionals all agree on some of the most common mistak…

By Rosalind Sedacca, CDC Founder, Child-Centered Divorce Network It’s no secret. Children don’t experience divorce the way adults do. They don’t track legal timelines or understand emotional bac…

By Rosalind Sedacca,…

By Rosalind Sedacca, CDC Founder, Child-Centered Divorce Network It’s no secret. Children don’t experience divorce the way adults do. They don’t track legal timelines or understand emotional backstories. What they feel is tension, silence, tone shifts, and sudden changes in how their parents talk to each other. That’s why successful co-parenting communication isn’t a soft skill. It’s emotional protection. At the Child-Centered Divorce Network, we work with parents who want to do better for their children, even when the divorce itself has been painful. As the creator of the Child-Ce…

By Rosalind Sedacca I came upon this quote from British blogger, David Bly: "Your children will become what you are; so be what you want them to be." That's the best advice anyone can give any parent,…

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By Rosalind Sedacca I came upon this quote from British blogger, David Bly: "Your children will become what you are; so be what you want them to be." That's the best advice anyone can give any parent, especially when faced with challenging times, such as your divorce. About 40% of our children will experience the divorce of their parents. The outcome is not the same for all families. That's why it's so important for parents to understand that every decision they make has consequences. And these consequences not only affect their children. They also impact their own well-being for years and dec…

Divorce changes the shape of a Family, but it never changes a child’s need for love, safety, and steady support from both parents. Even after the court dates are over, you are still tied together th…

Divorce changes the …

Divorce changes the shape of a family, but it never changes a child’s need for love, safety, and steady support from both parents. Even after the court dates are over, you are still tied together through school drop-offs, sick days, birthdays, and everyday decisions that quietly shape your child’s world. The way you speak to each other in these moments matters more than you might think. A calm word can bring reassurance. A tense exchange can linger long after it ends. Over the years, I have seen how small changes in tone and mindset can ease tension at home and help children feel secure. T…

  YOURS FREE! MY BRAND-NEW VIDEO SERIES & OTHER RESOURCES TO HELP YOU PROTECT THE CHILDREN YOU LOVE! Compliments of Rosalind Sedacca, CDC and the Child-Centered Divorce Network throughout January 202…

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  YOURS FREE! MY BRAND-NEW VIDEO SERIES & OTHER RESOURCES TO HELP YOU PROTECT THE CHILDREN YOU LOVE! Compliments of Rosalind Sedacca, CDC and the Child-Centered Divorce Network throughout January 2026!   To commemorate International Child-Centered Divorce Month, I'm giving away valuable resources on all facets of divorcing, co-parenting and dating after divorce. Choose as many gifts as you desire and visit again to see more all through January!   NEW 6-PART VIDEO Series:  Created by Rosalind Sedacca, CDC ... Protecting Your Children During & Long After Divorce! 6 Episodes -- a $300 value -…