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Congruency and Coaching: Reaching the Gen Z Athlete

In this episode, Rob sits down with Luke Jones, Partnership Liaison for Reclaim Today—a division of Our Daily Bread Ministries focused on engaging Millennials and Gen Z. Drawing from his pastoral background and work with universities, Luke offers rich insight into what Gen Z is facing: information overload, skepticism toward authority, and a deep craving for authenticity and congruency.

They explore how coaches and leaders can engage Gen Z athletes more meaningfully, focusing on concepts like reverse Coaching, the role of competence, and the power of honest apology. Luke introduces the idea of “the ministry of presence” and emphasizes that helping young people connect with God in ordinary moments might be the key to both spiritual and identity formation.

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Key Topics Covered:

  • Why authenticity and congruency matter deeply to Gen Z

  • Navigating the information overload: competence vs. laziness

  • Reverse coaching: mutual learning between athletes and coaches

  • Why Gen Z may be skeptical of authority—but still deeply hungry for mentorship

  • Coaching moments that build (or break) trust and character

  • Identity and sport: why coaches must help athletes discompartmentalize

  • The challenge of mobilizing Gen Z from awareness to action

  • How presence, silence, and vulnerability build Relationships

Notable Quotes:

  • “Authenticity is huge. To miss that is to miss the heart of the student and the heart of the athlete.”

  • “We’ve been trained in the arts of filtering. So we recognize filters easily.”

  • “The life of a disciple is a planned, intentional life. And coaching can mirror that.”

  • “Don’t get mad at Gen Z. Get busy with them.” —Tim Elmore (via Luke)

Resources Mentioned:

  • Reclaim Today: reclaimtoday.org

  • Books: Emotionally Healthy Spirituality, Renovation of the Heart, The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry, Celebration of Discipline

Connect with Luke: [email protected]

Reach out via reclaimtoday.org

The Impactful Coaching Project (ICP) seeks to develop coaches that coach the whole person. ICP is the thought leader in coaching the 21st century athlete and produces training, information, and research to help coaches develop. For more information, check out https://impactfulcoachingproject.substack.com/ or contact us at [email protected].

Rob Ramseyer Dr. Rob Ramseyer

Dr. Rob Ramseyer is the Co-Founder of the Impactful Coaching Project and Vice President of Athletics and Strategic Expansion at Friends University, overseeing 24 teams and serving on the President’s Cabinet. Under his leadership, the department has achieved significant success across all areas, earning him honors such as the KCAC Director of the Year and the NACDA Athletic Director of the Year. He resides in Wichita, KS, with his wife, Charlie, and their four children.

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