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If you’ve listened to the podcast for a while, you probably know the story about how Corey and Tracy met at a lesbian pool party and the subsequent past life connections they have uncovered over the…

If you’ve listened…

If you’ve listened to the podcast for a while, you probably know the story about how Corey and Tracy met at a lesbian pool party and the subsequent past life connections they have uncovered over the years. But, did you know that Corey gets Tracy a Happy Friendaversary card every fourth of July or that Tracy’s favorite memory with Corey was trying to get past a rattlesnake while out hiking? Tune in for an honest chat about how Corey’s and Tracy’s friendship has changed over the years, the spiritual journey that continues to pull them together, and why Corey wants a doily for their ten-y…

From being a provocateur to backstabbing and unpleasantness to dishonesty, we as humans often put up with a lot from people, some of whom are genuinely our friends. What can you do to prevent yourself…

From being a provoca…

From being a provocateur to backstabbing and unpleasantness to dishonesty, we as humans often put up with a lot from people, some of whom are genuinely our friends. What can you do to prevent yourself from getting caught up in a toxic friendship, and how can you get out of one when your so-called friend has crossed the line? Tune in for some doozies of stories from Corey and Tracy about the toxicity they have each encountered, red flags to look for, and how to transition out of a toxic friendship. And, if you want to know about Tracy’s fears in keeping a journal (or secrets, for that matter)…

Why do some people vanish once they enter a new relationship? Tune in for a discussion where we talk all about time management, capacity, jealousy, isolation, friends not liking partners and partners …

Why do some people v…

Why do some people vanish once they enter a new relationship? Tune in for a discussion where we talk all about time management, capacity, jealousy, isolation, friends not liking partners and partners not liking friends, retreating during a time of historic unrest, and all sorts of other reasons people nest. Tracy talks about her limitations being around feelings of overwhelm in that you can’t just prioritize something like hanging out with a friend over a barking dog who is calling for your immediate attention. Corey talks about the social obligation she feels to bring other lesbians togethe…

Whether you decided to be friends before dating, ended up dating an acquaintance turned partner, or confessed your feelings to your bestie, a whopping 68 percent of people are in a relationship with s…

Whether you decided …

Whether you decided to be friends before dating, ended up dating an acquaintance turned partner, or confessed your feelings to your bestie, a whopping 68 percent of people are in a relationship with someone they were friends with first. Tune in for Tracy’s story about heading off romantic vibes from friends by telling them she is a Republican and Corey’s about how salted tortilla chips and a metaphorical piano falling from the sky wooed her in to fall in love with a friend. And, you won’t want to miss some insightful tips about what to consider before confessing your feelings for your bu…

Join us for an insightful and invigorating discussion with Alisa Kriegel, author of From Sexless Marriage to Sex Goddess, A Memoir. We talk all about her experiences and perspectives on fostering a po…

Join us for an insig…

Join us for an insightful and invigorating discussion with Alisa Kriegel, author of From Sexless Marriage to Sex Goddess, A Memoir. We talk all about her experiences and perspectives on fostering a post-marriage friendship with her ex-husband after his coming out. She shares about how relationships are built on three things – friendship, physical affection, and sex. We discuss how the loss of a relationship has the potential to turn our once-forever partners into “Somebody that I used to know,” according to singer, Gotye. We cover a lot of ground about women’s roles in society, co-pare…

How do you feel about road trips with friends? Sharing a bathroom with someone? Being a part of a friend group? Tracy is a big no for all of those, whereas Corey is a big yes. In this episode, you wil…

How do you feel abou…

How do you feel about road trips with friends? Sharing a bathroom with someone? Being a part of a friend group? Tracy is a big no for all of those, whereas Corey is a big yes. In this episode, you will find out why! Tune in for a lively conversation about preventing and resolving conflict with friends, including friends who ghost, hope as a terrible conflict management strategy, kitchen-sinking, and carefrontation. And, if you ever wondered if Corey and Tracy ever have conflict, be sure to pay attention to their recap of every conflict they’ve ever had – including Tracy usurping Corey’s …

Do you ever feel like you are the one carrying most of the weight in a friendship – always being the one to ask a friend to hang out or reaching out via phone or text? What about those friendships w…

Do you ever feel lik…

Do you ever feel like you are the one carrying most of the weight in a friendship – always being the one to ask a friend to hang out or reaching out via phone or text? What about those friendships where others have over-the-top expectations about your role in the friendship, monopolizing your time or leaning on you too much? Tune in for a lively episode where Corey and Tracy talk about reciprocity and balance in friendships and the importance of stepping back or stepping away. And, while Tracy spouts off about being old, her aversion to sarcasm, and not caring anymore about a lot of things, …

If you want to learn more about enhancing your vulnerability, sharing your feelings, and building trust with friends, then you won’t want to miss this episode. Find out more about role modeling dept…

If you want to learn…

If you want to learn more about enhancing your vulnerability, sharing your feelings, and building trust with friends, then you won’t want to miss this episode. Find out more about role modeling depth and openness for others to mirror while at the same time, making sure to have healthy boundaries to mitigate friend love-bombing, emotional U-Hauling, and the wounded deer syndrome. Tracy shares about how showing up authentically as herself has created a natural selection process for who wants to be friends with her, whereas Corey talks about asking questions as a form of connection rather than …

As an adult, making friends can be tricky. We don’t have the school yard or neighborhood filled with kids our age like we did when we were younger. Thus, we must be more inventive. Tune in as Corey …

As an adult, making …

As an adult, making friends can be tricky. We don’t have the school yard or neighborhood filled with kids our age like we did when we were younger. Thus, we must be more inventive. Tune in as Corey and Tracy talk through a variety of options for making friends, like the Bumble BFF friendship app, Meetup.com, or even ChatGPT which can produce a curated list of events, classes, and social groups from AI, Meetup.com, or classes and local community groups. And, if you are wondering about Tracy’s incessant fear of her Alexa taking on an embodied form and ultimately killing her or Corey’s roll…

While friendship is critical to a happy, healthy, and long life, 62 percent of people have fewer than five friends. Tune in as Corey and Tracy talk about the benefits of friendship, the strength of we…

While friendship is …

While friendship is critical to a happy, healthy, and long life, 62 percent of people have fewer than five friends. Tune in as Corey and Tracy talk about the benefits of friendship, the strength of weak ties, social media connections, the culture of friendliness, and figuring out what matters most in friendships. And if you want to know more about a friendship with an octopus, Corey’s inability to load the dishwasher, or Tracy’s experience at a writing group, you won’t want to miss this season kick-off! Show Notes: Benefits of friendship-Read about the scientific benefits of friendship.…

Join us as we re-visit with Charity and Holly from season 7, but this time, we are talking all about soulmate love. Hear Holly share about bald eagles versus butterflies, Charity talk about the defini…

Join us as we re-vis…

Join us as we re-visit with Charity and Holly from season 7, but this time, we are talking all about soulmate love. Hear Holly share about bald eagles versus butterflies, Charity talk about the definition of home, and both talk about the importance of couples Therapy early on. Corey discusses the difference between Earth-bound familiarity that can draw us to unhealthy patterns versus soul familiarity which draws us to our divine love, and Tracy shares about her journey from Trauma vomiting to using ChatGPT to help her reflect. If you feel like you have met your soulmate or simply want to be in…

Ever wonder what messages the other side is sending you? Check out this conversation with channeler and medium, Sandy Wesson, where we learn all about communicating with departed loved ones, spirit gu…

Ever wonder what mes…

Ever wonder what messages the other side is sending you? Check out this conversation with channeler and medium, Sandy Wesson, where we learn all about communicating with departed loved ones, spirit guides and angels. What they can share with us can be profoundly healing, which has benefits both for self-awareness, forgiveness, and love as well as being able to be healed enough to attract who we want in our life. Tracy again attempts to declare her soul’s intention from her kitchen, and Sandy affirms that Tracy will stop coming back to learn lessons once she has learned those lessons. Things …