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<img aria-describedby="caption-attachment-7150" data-attachment-id="7150" data-permalink="https://conflictremedy.com/an-uncomfortable-listening-level/ucomfortablelisteninglevel3/" data-orig-file="https://i0.wp.com/conflictremedy.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/09/ucomfortablelisteninglevel3-scaled.jpg?fit=1891%2C2560&ssl=1" data-orig-size="1891,2560" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{"aperture":"0","credit":"","camera":"","caption":"","created_timestamp":"0","copyright":"","focal_length":"0","iso":"0","shutter_speed":"0","title":"","orientation":"1"}" data-image-title="ucomfortablelisteninglevel3" data-image-description="" data-image-caption=" Photo by Katie Lyke on Unsplash ” data-medium-file=”https://i0.wp.com/conflictremedy.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/09/ucomfortablelisteninglevel3-scaled.jpg?fit=222%2C300&ssl=1″ data-large-file=”https://i0.wp.com/conflictremedy.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/09/ucomfortablelisteninglevel3-scaled.jpg?fit=756%2C1024&ssl=1″ class=” wp-image-7150″ src=”https://i0.wp.com/conflictremedy.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/09/ucomfortablelisteninglevel3-scaled.jpg?resize=690%2C934&ssl=1″ alt=”woman adjusting uncomfortable listening level on her phone” width=”690″ height=”934″ data-recalc-dims=”1″ /> Photo by Katie Lyke on Unsplash An uncomfortable listening level can guide a difficult conversation. Are there topics or deep […]

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Photo by Museums Victoria on Unsplash Genuine Question or Disguised Judgment? Asking genuine curious questions is a powerful tool to improve listening, get through road blocks in difficult conversations, and gain compassionate understanding of another person’s perspective. But even when you’re trying to be authentic and genuine, you might fall into the trap of asking […]